I have been craving some quality time with my oldest lately where I'm not holding Jesse with one arm or where we're not listening to Jesse's cries in the background. Last evening, quite unexpectedly we got this! Jesse had just had his shots, so I fully expected him to be extra clingy and crabby. Kev was hunting all afternoon and evening, so I was expecting a long, drawn out evening where I would just have to endure!
However, Jesse was sooo mellow all afternoon and evening. It was so nice! We all went for a long walk and Kaden and I had fun telling stories and just talking about what we were seeing as we were walking. Jesse just sat and chewed on some rings - no squawking or fussing. It was lovely! Then, on our way home, we stopped off at a little playground next door and ran around, slid down the slippy slides, and played pretend for about a half hour while Jesse just sat in his stroller and watched us! After Jesse went to sleep we painted for a long time and then sat out on the front steps and lit sparklers while we waited for Daddy to get home. It was so nice, and Kaden kept saying: "I'm so excited! This is so much fun!"
His little love language is totally quality time, and he doesn't ask for much when Jesse is awake. He adores his little brother and has never shown signs of jealousy or insecurity. But I could tell that he was totally eating up that uninterrupted one on one time last night. Me too. I've missed him.
In the Mood to Cull!
Every few weeks this irresistable urge comes over me to throw things away! I cannot stand clutter, and living in this small space quite frequently gives me the feeling of our walls beginning to close in on me. Therefore, to solve this dilemma - I must purge! Kev has been duly warned - when I get in these moods, I can go a little crazy. So, I've been given strict instructions not to throw away anything that is his OR OURS. He didn't clarify this last time, and I got rid of tons of "our" stuff that he was not overly enthralled with me about.
I've always said that I'll let my kids be kids and I will let them play and build forts and leave train sets out etc., but every once in awhile I have to have my place back to myself. This morning, Kaden had his whole train set out in his room - which is fine - his room is his room. But, He also had his entire K'NEX set out with the hundreds of parts strewn all over the floor, he'd built a "bridge" with all of our couch cushions, and he had every single one of his little matchbox cars lined up beside the bridge. That's fine - that's a normal day for us. Usually, he's pretty good about getting one or two things out and then putting them away before playing with other things, but once in awhile he loves to be surrounded by his treasures, and that's fine.
But, for those few hours of quiet napping, I like to put everything back in its place and have my home be the way I like it! Clean and uncluttered. :0) Anyway, when I start to feel this way, I just haul out an empty box, walk through every room of my apartment, and fill this box with things that I never use, that I don't like, or that I don't need. Then I seal it up, mark "Yard Sale" on it and bask in the joy of uncluttering a bit!
I may have problems, but I really do love chucking things. I love simplicity. I love openness and emptiness. And since we've once again brought up the big and necessary baby things that give me sanity such as exersaucers, johnny jump ups, and play mats, I feel the need to get rid of other things! I just filled not one, but TWO boxes of "stuff"; I also hung a couple of bittersweet wreaths up on my walls, rearranged some cupboards, organized a closet, and hung some cute black and white candids up of the boys.
Now I'm just savoring the quietness and neatness, the simplicity and orderliness.....for a few more minutes anyway! Is it a losing battle that I'm fighting? Maybe! But we're all happy! The boys get to be boys and play at will, and I get to organize, throw, and rearrange.......and then for a few minutes each afternoon just sit and savor!
I've always said that I'll let my kids be kids and I will let them play and build forts and leave train sets out etc., but every once in awhile I have to have my place back to myself. This morning, Kaden had his whole train set out in his room - which is fine - his room is his room. But, He also had his entire K'NEX set out with the hundreds of parts strewn all over the floor, he'd built a "bridge" with all of our couch cushions, and he had every single one of his little matchbox cars lined up beside the bridge. That's fine - that's a normal day for us. Usually, he's pretty good about getting one or two things out and then putting them away before playing with other things, but once in awhile he loves to be surrounded by his treasures, and that's fine.
But, for those few hours of quiet napping, I like to put everything back in its place and have my home be the way I like it! Clean and uncluttered. :0) Anyway, when I start to feel this way, I just haul out an empty box, walk through every room of my apartment, and fill this box with things that I never use, that I don't like, or that I don't need. Then I seal it up, mark "Yard Sale" on it and bask in the joy of uncluttering a bit!
I may have problems, but I really do love chucking things. I love simplicity. I love openness and emptiness. And since we've once again brought up the big and necessary baby things that give me sanity such as exersaucers, johnny jump ups, and play mats, I feel the need to get rid of other things! I just filled not one, but TWO boxes of "stuff"; I also hung a couple of bittersweet wreaths up on my walls, rearranged some cupboards, organized a closet, and hung some cute black and white candids up of the boys.
Now I'm just savoring the quietness and neatness, the simplicity and orderliness.....for a few more minutes anyway! Is it a losing battle that I'm fighting? Maybe! But we're all happy! The boys get to be boys and play at will, and I get to organize, throw, and rearrange.......and then for a few minutes each afternoon just sit and savor!
Jesse Update Once Again....
Jesse had his four month check-up today. Joy unspeakable. I am pleased and proud to announce that he is no longer skyrocketing off the charts - he's still off, mind you - but he's "leveling" according to the pediatrician. His head is average, his length is in the 90%, and his weight is 19.9 pounds - the poundage of an average eight month old! But hey - he's leveling!
He had three shots today. We opted out of a couple of the ones that they recommend, but three has still served to give us quite the little grumpy monkey. His reactions to shots have been so different than Kaden's. Quite funny, actually. Kaden would look at us like we utterly betrayed him and then he'd cry as though his heart was breaking. Jesse screams - quite loudly - at the onslaught of the shots, and then proceeds to cry - madly and glare at the nurse until she leaves the room! As soon as she leaves, he stops, puts his thumb in his mouth, and then grumbles to himself for a few more minutes until he snaps out of it!
Okay, I'm off. He's starting to give me the look that he gave our little nurse.
He had three shots today. We opted out of a couple of the ones that they recommend, but three has still served to give us quite the little grumpy monkey. His reactions to shots have been so different than Kaden's. Quite funny, actually. Kaden would look at us like we utterly betrayed him and then he'd cry as though his heart was breaking. Jesse screams - quite loudly - at the onslaught of the shots, and then proceeds to cry - madly and glare at the nurse until she leaves the room! As soon as she leaves, he stops, puts his thumb in his mouth, and then grumbles to himself for a few more minutes until he snaps out of it!
Okay, I'm off. He's starting to give me the look that he gave our little nurse.
Out of the Loop!
Well, in our tenure here as PBU students, I have managed to successfully embarass myself quite royally with some pretty important staff members on campus. One day a few weeks ago, Kaden and I were hanging outside while Jesse napped, and I had our door propped open so I could hear him if he cried. All Penndel residents have been instructed to never leave our doors propped open for long periods of time because there is a rather shady apartment complex next door to ours. While we were playing on the sidewalk, a man came over and asked if I was the one who had opened the door and asked if I planned on keeping it open. When I told him why I had it opened and that I intended to stay right on the front sidewalk within hearing distance, he declared it to be fine but then continued to warn me of the dangers and the importance of being safe. I expressed my appreciation for his concern and then innocently asked if he lived around here or if he worked here. He kind of gave me a half smile and responded: "Um, yes. I'm the head of security." Oh goodness. That means he's also the guy who used to work for the FBI! I apologized and said that I don't really know much staff as I'm not in the typical undergrad program with most students. He asked who I was and I told him my name and then said: "My husband is Kevin. He's in the grad program here." To which this nice man nodded and slowly smiled: "Oh yes.....I know Kevin." Immediately I remember Kev's little hunting escapade on campus last year where all of security was notified. I could feel myself blushing and I nervously laughed: "I'm sure you do!" We both just smiled, and he walked away. Brother!
Then, just yesterday, I was at a soccer game and some friends of ours walked over with this man. They were visiting for awhile beside me, and at one point he looked at me and said hello. Charlotte always teases me for never introducing her to people that are with me, so I wanted to get her back. I held out my hand to this "stranger" and said: "Hi. I'm Amy. I'll introduce myself because Charlotte never introduces me to her friends." Charlotte looked mortified, but the man just graciously smiled and said: "Hello. I'm Todd Williams." Okay....for those of you who are not from here - Todd Williams in the president of our school! He's kind of "the man." Not only did I already make myself look like an idiot but not knowing who he is, but I just kept on digging a hole for myself and continued with: "Oh man. I'm sorry - I'm kind of out of the loop around here. Are you our new principal?" Everyone died laughing and Charlotte said, "Um, Amy - at colleges we call them "Presidents," not "Principals!" Good grief.
So Kev is known around these parts for being the illegal hunter who got the Penndel police and the PBU security involved last fall. Now I'm the blond ditz who acts like the fruit loop in front of some of the top dogs around here!
Then, just yesterday, I was at a soccer game and some friends of ours walked over with this man. They were visiting for awhile beside me, and at one point he looked at me and said hello. Charlotte always teases me for never introducing her to people that are with me, so I wanted to get her back. I held out my hand to this "stranger" and said: "Hi. I'm Amy. I'll introduce myself because Charlotte never introduces me to her friends." Charlotte looked mortified, but the man just graciously smiled and said: "Hello. I'm Todd Williams." Okay....for those of you who are not from here - Todd Williams in the president of our school! He's kind of "the man." Not only did I already make myself look like an idiot but not knowing who he is, but I just kept on digging a hole for myself and continued with: "Oh man. I'm sorry - I'm kind of out of the loop around here. Are you our new principal?" Everyone died laughing and Charlotte said, "Um, Amy - at colleges we call them "Presidents," not "Principals!" Good grief.
So Kev is known around these parts for being the illegal hunter who got the Penndel police and the PBU security involved last fall. Now I'm the blond ditz who acts like the fruit loop in front of some of the top dogs around here!
Still Refreshed.....Yet VERY Frazzled!
Our Jesse seems to have fallen back into a bit of a funk lately. He is napping wretchedly, so he is perpetually tired and grumpy. And now that he is able to flip himself over onto his tummy, he wakes up all throughout the night upset that he can't get back over onto his back. He's been consistently sleeping through the night for 10-14 hours since week six, but these past few weeks, he's been getting up anywhere from one to five times a night! He is also becoming quite the screamer! Whew - it literally curls your toes when he is MAD!! So, we've been doing lots of talking about our game plan strategy! He wakes up from a nap after only 30-40 minutes of sleep sobbing and exhausted, but he just can't seem to get himself back to sleep again. Hmmm. We'll keep you posted on how we plan to keep our sanity! It's amazing - Kaden is completely able to sleep through the tears. I feel so badly for them both, but such is life in an apartment!
Refreshed!
We had such a fun family vacay in Lancaster County this past week. No agenda really, only plans to connect and play as a family. And play we did.
Our hotel had a little kiddie pool area with sprinklers and a mini waterslide that Kaden absolutely loved. Jesse got into the water as well, for the first time, and really loved it. It was so cute - he wasn't fazed a bit if water got splashed in his face or when we almost totally submerged him! We also went on a buggy ride, walked through a corn maze, petted farm animals, did a little shopping, poked around some antique stores, and ate ourselves into oblivion. Good times!
Jesse didn't do so well in his hotel crib though, so for much of most nights, he was in bed with us. It was also interesting trying to get both boys to have their naps in the same room, as well. At home - Jesse naps in a pack 'n play in our room. So, there were a few frazzly moments, but all in all, it really was a really great time.
I love getting away. I love the conversations we have in the car, I love the uninterrupted and undistracted time we have with the boys, and I just really love the break from life for awhile. It's nice to get away and refocus. Much needed.
Our hotel had a little kiddie pool area with sprinklers and a mini waterslide that Kaden absolutely loved. Jesse got into the water as well, for the first time, and really loved it. It was so cute - he wasn't fazed a bit if water got splashed in his face or when we almost totally submerged him! We also went on a buggy ride, walked through a corn maze, petted farm animals, did a little shopping, poked around some antique stores, and ate ourselves into oblivion. Good times!
Jesse didn't do so well in his hotel crib though, so for much of most nights, he was in bed with us. It was also interesting trying to get both boys to have their naps in the same room, as well. At home - Jesse naps in a pack 'n play in our room. So, there were a few frazzly moments, but all in all, it really was a really great time.
I love getting away. I love the conversations we have in the car, I love the uninterrupted and undistracted time we have with the boys, and I just really love the break from life for awhile. It's nice to get away and refocus. Much needed.
Bad Day
Whew!
Today was crazy. Here's why:
~ Jesse cried for most of the day and only took 2 twenty minute naps.
~ I'm missing my friend who just moved away.
~ I washed Kaden's new jacket that we got on a yard sale and somehow ripped a hole in it.
~ In doing laundry, I also somehow flooded our laundry room floor.
~ Jesse had a diaper blowout that destroyed his entire outfit AND Kaden's bedding.
~ .......Just after I had done our laundry!
~ Our house has been in chaos all day as I'm trying to pack, and I hate messiness.
~ I told a friend no to babysitting and am feeling guilty about it.
~ And I trashed the coleslaw that Kev wanted to eat! (Don't feel too bad about that one, but he was irritated! :0)
Yup. It's been one of those days.
HOWEVER......Right now I'm feeling great. Know why? We are going to Lancaster for three nights and are leaving first thing in the morning! We're just feeling the need to get away for a few days and have some family bonding time away from life for a bit. I can't wait. We have absolutely no agenda - we just want to be together and play - with no work and no distractions.
Sweet sanity.
Today was crazy. Here's why:
~ Jesse cried for most of the day and only took 2 twenty minute naps.
~ I'm missing my friend who just moved away.
~ I washed Kaden's new jacket that we got on a yard sale and somehow ripped a hole in it.
~ In doing laundry, I also somehow flooded our laundry room floor.
~ Jesse had a diaper blowout that destroyed his entire outfit AND Kaden's bedding.
~ .......Just after I had done our laundry!
~ Our house has been in chaos all day as I'm trying to pack, and I hate messiness.
~ I told a friend no to babysitting and am feeling guilty about it.
~ And I trashed the coleslaw that Kev wanted to eat! (Don't feel too bad about that one, but he was irritated! :0)
Yup. It's been one of those days.
HOWEVER......Right now I'm feeling great. Know why? We are going to Lancaster for three nights and are leaving first thing in the morning! We're just feeling the need to get away for a few days and have some family bonding time away from life for a bit. I can't wait. We have absolutely no agenda - we just want to be together and play - with no work and no distractions.
Sweet sanity.
Fall is in the Air
Finally!
I think that this is my most favorite time of year. Everything is so bright and crisp, and the air smells so yummy. I love decorating our front steps with different kinds of funky pumpkins and gourds, and what I really love most of all is........BITTERSWEET!
Truly - if I knew how to put pictures up on this blog, I would. I really need to get Kev to show me how to do this. I'm quite computer illiterate, but I'm sure I could figure out how to post some pics. I love love love love love collecting bittersweet berries and making all kinds of crazy wreaths and swags. I love sticking them in sap buckets with other sticks and branches and putting them all over the place. The berries are poisonous to both animals and babies, so one must be quite careful where they display them, but when placed properly - they are just beautious!
Kev dreads this time of year because I'm always on the lookout for the stuff and I'm always begging him to stop and help me wade through the thorns and climb up the trees to get the ones that are the most plump and full. I totally love bringing the outdoors inside. It's my most favorite way to decorate - sticks, leaves, rocks, and berries. I love it!
People out here aren't quite sure what to think of me, but I have at least one converter....my dear friend Rachel who just left me and moved away. So, my friend - you said you'd book a ticket when the bittersweet came on.....come on back for a visit and we shall go traipsing through the forest! Tis the season!
I think that this is my most favorite time of year. Everything is so bright and crisp, and the air smells so yummy. I love decorating our front steps with different kinds of funky pumpkins and gourds, and what I really love most of all is........BITTERSWEET!
Truly - if I knew how to put pictures up on this blog, I would. I really need to get Kev to show me how to do this. I'm quite computer illiterate, but I'm sure I could figure out how to post some pics. I love love love love love collecting bittersweet berries and making all kinds of crazy wreaths and swags. I love sticking them in sap buckets with other sticks and branches and putting them all over the place. The berries are poisonous to both animals and babies, so one must be quite careful where they display them, but when placed properly - they are just beautious!
Kev dreads this time of year because I'm always on the lookout for the stuff and I'm always begging him to stop and help me wade through the thorns and climb up the trees to get the ones that are the most plump and full. I totally love bringing the outdoors inside. It's my most favorite way to decorate - sticks, leaves, rocks, and berries. I love it!
People out here aren't quite sure what to think of me, but I have at least one converter....my dear friend Rachel who just left me and moved away. So, my friend - you said you'd book a ticket when the bittersweet came on.....come on back for a visit and we shall go traipsing through the forest! Tis the season!
Did I Say I Wanted More Kids???
What I REALLY meant to say was that I want more SLEEP!!!!!
Holy Blast, this girl is pooped. For some reason the past couple of nights my boys are not sleeping well. Last night, Kaden was weepy and needy so we pulled him into bed with us. This child does not sleep quietly or still, so he is constantly slinging his legs over me and rolling over and over. Then, from about 1:00 a.m. on Jesse kept waking up every hour on the hour! He would roll over onto his belly and then freak out because he couldn't roll back over. I'd rush into his room because I didn't want to wake up Mom. Then I'd rush back to bed and try to fall back asleep because I was so tired! Then, one time while I was in the boy's room trying to soothe Jesse, Kaden rolled over and fell out of OUR bed! Tons of tears and a huge bump ensued. Oh, it just kept getting better and better! Ah well! :)
They're both napping now, so peace one again reigns. Maybe I WILL have another some day......
Holy Blast, this girl is pooped. For some reason the past couple of nights my boys are not sleeping well. Last night, Kaden was weepy and needy so we pulled him into bed with us. This child does not sleep quietly or still, so he is constantly slinging his legs over me and rolling over and over. Then, from about 1:00 a.m. on Jesse kept waking up every hour on the hour! He would roll over onto his belly and then freak out because he couldn't roll back over. I'd rush into his room because I didn't want to wake up Mom. Then I'd rush back to bed and try to fall back asleep because I was so tired! Then, one time while I was in the boy's room trying to soothe Jesse, Kaden rolled over and fell out of OUR bed! Tons of tears and a huge bump ensued. Oh, it just kept getting better and better! Ah well! :)
They're both napping now, so peace one again reigns. Maybe I WILL have another some day......
Take the Good with the Bad
Wow! I haven't written for awhile. There have been so many things going on my life right now that I feel like I want to write about. Both really great and really yucky! :0)
Good things first!
My Mom is here for an unexpected visit. She caught a ride down with a couple from my church up home who are on vacation, so we get to have a wonderful week together. This is so fun, because we both expected that the next time we'd see each other would be over the Christmas season, and that's going to be CRAZY because my little bro is getting married just a week after Christmas.
My little Jesse bear is an ENTIRELY different little boy that he was even a couple of weeks ago. I was hoping this would happen. I was praying it would happen. And so far - it's true! For some reason, we give birth to WRECKS who can't shake it off until they hit three or four months of age. He is now giving me two pretty decent naps - with very little crying as he goes down, and he is in bed for the night at 6:30! He is just so pleasant and content now! Tons of smiles and coos, and although he was always quite yummy - man, we REALLY like him now!
Other things.....I was trained to be a Clarion Consultant last week. I have tons to write about this, but just let me say that I love love love what I am learning about this. I'm excited about how the Lord may use this in Kev's and my future, and I'm loving how He is using it to change people's lives.
One more - on Kev's fall break in two weeks, he is whisking our little family away for a couple of nights to Lancaster - meals and pool included. WE CANNOT WAIT!!!
Okay, now for the yucky yucky happenings here....
Two of our dearest friends who have lived with us in this complex for as long as we have are moving next Friday. Kev and I will be the last of the "originals" and the ONLY ones with kids. I am SO bummed and I fully intend to be devastated and depressed when they leave. Rachel and I see each other just about every day, we always go for walks together, and we have been raising our youngest babies together since birth. Ahhh, I feel sick to my stomach thinking about her moving.....We all knew that this was a transient place for all of us to be. It's just not fun when everyone leaves before you do. Blech.
Good things first!
My Mom is here for an unexpected visit. She caught a ride down with a couple from my church up home who are on vacation, so we get to have a wonderful week together. This is so fun, because we both expected that the next time we'd see each other would be over the Christmas season, and that's going to be CRAZY because my little bro is getting married just a week after Christmas.
My little Jesse bear is an ENTIRELY different little boy that he was even a couple of weeks ago. I was hoping this would happen. I was praying it would happen. And so far - it's true! For some reason, we give birth to WRECKS who can't shake it off until they hit three or four months of age. He is now giving me two pretty decent naps - with very little crying as he goes down, and he is in bed for the night at 6:30! He is just so pleasant and content now! Tons of smiles and coos, and although he was always quite yummy - man, we REALLY like him now!
Other things.....I was trained to be a Clarion Consultant last week. I have tons to write about this, but just let me say that I love love love what I am learning about this. I'm excited about how the Lord may use this in Kev's and my future, and I'm loving how He is using it to change people's lives.
One more - on Kev's fall break in two weeks, he is whisking our little family away for a couple of nights to Lancaster - meals and pool included. WE CANNOT WAIT!!!
Okay, now for the yucky yucky happenings here....
Two of our dearest friends who have lived with us in this complex for as long as we have are moving next Friday. Kev and I will be the last of the "originals" and the ONLY ones with kids. I am SO bummed and I fully intend to be devastated and depressed when they leave. Rachel and I see each other just about every day, we always go for walks together, and we have been raising our youngest babies together since birth. Ahhh, I feel sick to my stomach thinking about her moving.....We all knew that this was a transient place for all of us to be. It's just not fun when everyone leaves before you do. Blech.
Shleepy Tired
....and if I had to admit it....a wee bit crabby.
Whew! Both of my boys had a rough night last night - for whatever reason - so I was awakened from a (VERY) deep slumber about six times. Not my fave. This girl loves her sleep. So, I feel like I'm functioning in a bit of a fog today.
One thing that I'm learning with two kiddos is that I need to give myself more grace and cut myself a little more slack than I used to. For example: the plan for supper tonight was going to be homemade chicken pot pie, potato rolls, and some sort of fancy delish dessert as Kev's friend has arrived. Instead, we're having fajitas and rice, and maybe cookies if I can get around to making them. Before two, my house would have been immaculate before company arrived. Last night I did a ten minute run through with the vac and gave a swipe at the furniture in the living room. Today I did the dishes in the sink and called it good. Before two, if a friend asked me to babysit on the day company was arriving I would never have dreamed saying yes. Today I thought, "Why not? I'm already half crazy - might as well go all the way!" Yup. I'm just trying to embrace the chaos and just roll with it. Some days are better than others, but I'm learning that I can go a long way in helping myself not get too crazy!
Whew! Both of my boys had a rough night last night - for whatever reason - so I was awakened from a (VERY) deep slumber about six times. Not my fave. This girl loves her sleep. So, I feel like I'm functioning in a bit of a fog today.
One thing that I'm learning with two kiddos is that I need to give myself more grace and cut myself a little more slack than I used to. For example: the plan for supper tonight was going to be homemade chicken pot pie, potato rolls, and some sort of fancy delish dessert as Kev's friend has arrived. Instead, we're having fajitas and rice, and maybe cookies if I can get around to making them. Before two, my house would have been immaculate before company arrived. Last night I did a ten minute run through with the vac and gave a swipe at the furniture in the living room. Today I did the dishes in the sink and called it good. Before two, if a friend asked me to babysit on the day company was arriving I would never have dreamed saying yes. Today I thought, "Why not? I'm already half crazy - might as well go all the way!" Yup. I'm just trying to embrace the chaos and just roll with it. Some days are better than others, but I'm learning that I can go a long way in helping myself not get too crazy!
Big Doin's This Week!
It's gonna be a busy week - but such a good one!
First things first - yesterday Jesse gave his Momma a full belly laugh which was SO cute and yummy! (Never mind the fact that I'm the third person he's given it too - not the first - but hey....I'm secure in my Mommyhood!) So that was just precious!
But, on to the busyness of the week....
Well, on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday I'm getting trained to be a "Clarion Consultant." It's a whole involved leadership and team development process. Kev's already been trained, it's hugely impacted his life, and he loves it. So, I'm just excited to be able to travel this road with him and do it together. Once I'm trained, we'll actually be taking two of our friends through it as a married couple, so that will be great experience for me as an "Apprentice" and tons of fun, as well.
Because of this training, Kev's good friend Eric will be flying in from Florida to be trained as well, so that will be really fun. AND it's potato harvest up home (yup, they still have it) so Mom is going to be catching a ride down with a family up home, and she's coming to visit us for the whole week! GOOD TIMES! She'll get some good Grammy time in, and Kev and I might even get a date out of it!
And the icing on the cake of this week......the hubbies are watching the kids while my friend Rach and I get dinner and a movie tonight. Yup...it's gonna be rough....
First things first - yesterday Jesse gave his Momma a full belly laugh which was SO cute and yummy! (Never mind the fact that I'm the third person he's given it too - not the first - but hey....I'm secure in my Mommyhood!) So that was just precious!
But, on to the busyness of the week....
Well, on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday I'm getting trained to be a "Clarion Consultant." It's a whole involved leadership and team development process. Kev's already been trained, it's hugely impacted his life, and he loves it. So, I'm just excited to be able to travel this road with him and do it together. Once I'm trained, we'll actually be taking two of our friends through it as a married couple, so that will be great experience for me as an "Apprentice" and tons of fun, as well.
Because of this training, Kev's good friend Eric will be flying in from Florida to be trained as well, so that will be really fun. AND it's potato harvest up home (yup, they still have it) so Mom is going to be catching a ride down with a family up home, and she's coming to visit us for the whole week! GOOD TIMES! She'll get some good Grammy time in, and Kev and I might even get a date out of it!
And the icing on the cake of this week......the hubbies are watching the kids while my friend Rach and I get dinner and a movie tonight. Yup...it's gonna be rough....
Another Family Day
Today for our family day we decided to take a drive over to the Lancaster area. Both Kev and I absolutely love it over there - it's very soothing and calming to our souls. So peaceful, so quiet - so much land...and cows...and horses...and fresh produce.....and yummy farm smells. I really love the smell of barns and manure. Weird, eh?
It got us thinking about how much we'd love to own land again someday - lots of land if we're really dreaming. There is nothing that I would love more than to have acres of fields and wild flowers, a garden, a little stream....and I've always wanted really cute chickens that could just roam free all across our land!
I want my kids to grow up being able to just run around outside and to be able to roam and explore and conquer and imagine fun worlds! I'm getting a wee bit tired of the same old backyard with the same few rocks that we can turn over to find the same worms that we let go last week! This is why I love our trips to Lancaster. We just drive and dream and stop at all the little local farm stands to sample their yummy - and sometimes still dirty - produce. I love it!
It refreshes me and refocuses me so nicely - even with Jesse screaming much of the trip home! Good times......
It got us thinking about how much we'd love to own land again someday - lots of land if we're really dreaming. There is nothing that I would love more than to have acres of fields and wild flowers, a garden, a little stream....and I've always wanted really cute chickens that could just roam free all across our land!
I want my kids to grow up being able to just run around outside and to be able to roam and explore and conquer and imagine fun worlds! I'm getting a wee bit tired of the same old backyard with the same few rocks that we can turn over to find the same worms that we let go last week! This is why I love our trips to Lancaster. We just drive and dream and stop at all the little local farm stands to sample their yummy - and sometimes still dirty - produce. I love it!
It refreshes me and refocuses me so nicely - even with Jesse screaming much of the trip home! Good times......
Train 'Em Young!
As hunting season is upon us, I've been wondering what a year's difference will make with our little Kaden. Now that he's three and he understands a bit more about life, will it bother him if he sees that Daddy has shot a deer? How will the sight of blood affect him? Will it make him sad if he sees an animal that we read about all the time in his story books dead on our rooftop? You know - these are questions that I need to think through in order to prepare him for if and when the time comes!! His little heart is so tender and sensitive, I want to make sure that this won't bother him. As his Mommy, I want to protect him from unnecessary sorrow!
Well.....as we were driving through Core Creek Park last night, three deer ran across the road directly in front of us. Kaden pipes up from the backseat: "Hey, Daddy! Wouldn't it be fun to shoot one of those deer?"
Hm. He'll be fine.
Kev's so proud.
Well.....as we were driving through Core Creek Park last night, three deer ran across the road directly in front of us. Kaden pipes up from the backseat: "Hey, Daddy! Wouldn't it be fun to shoot one of those deer?"
Hm. He'll be fine.
Kev's so proud.
The Days Are a Blur
It's been awhile since I've updated. Lately, I can't seem to get the boys on the same nap schedule so I always have one awake these days. With Jesse being so "high maintenance," I really am trying to give Kaden my undivided attention during Jesse's naps so that he doesn't start feeling neglected! Because of this, my days are just kind of all blending together!
It's starting to feel a little bit like fall around here. It's still pretty warm, but the humidity is gone, and the days are just gorgeous. We're outside as much as we can be. Lots of walks, trips to parks, and bug & worm catching. Last night, Kev taught Kaden how to hit a wiffle ball out back. That was pretty cute! He was pretty proud of himself for hitting the ball so much, and he told me quite seriously, "Mommy, you're not very good at this!" And when Daddy tucked him into bed, he reiterated his point with: "Mommy's not a good as we are!" It's true.....I rot at the whole hand/eye coordination thing!
Other news: hunting season is upon us! Between bow hunting and rifle season, Kev is able to hunt five or six months out here! The man is stoked! He even convinced two husbands in our complex to take hunter's safety this fall. It's possible for him to shoot two deer out here, so we may have meat coming out our ears! I'm sure he'll post some pics for you, Ang! None of the boys - but hey, a deer is just as good, eh?! :0)
It's starting to feel a little bit like fall around here. It's still pretty warm, but the humidity is gone, and the days are just gorgeous. We're outside as much as we can be. Lots of walks, trips to parks, and bug & worm catching. Last night, Kev taught Kaden how to hit a wiffle ball out back. That was pretty cute! He was pretty proud of himself for hitting the ball so much, and he told me quite seriously, "Mommy, you're not very good at this!" And when Daddy tucked him into bed, he reiterated his point with: "Mommy's not a good as we are!" It's true.....I rot at the whole hand/eye coordination thing!
Other news: hunting season is upon us! Between bow hunting and rifle season, Kev is able to hunt five or six months out here! The man is stoked! He even convinced two husbands in our complex to take hunter's safety this fall. It's possible for him to shoot two deer out here, so we may have meat coming out our ears! I'm sure he'll post some pics for you, Ang! None of the boys - but hey, a deer is just as good, eh?! :0)
Update
We took Jesse to the doctor yesterday because he's been constipated for about two weeks. I took some measures last week to get him to go, but it has now been another eight days. So, we decided it was time to seek a professional before I took any other measures upon myself. Anyway, if ever your kids get constipated, here's the conclusion: an ounce of prune juice with an ounce of water twice a day for a week or so. If that doesn't solve the problem, cut all dairy completely out of your diet. So, we shall see what happens.
Other news. Jesse now weighs in at 18 pounds 10 ounces. I actually thought it was more on our scales here, so that's good news. He's only gained a pound this month, as opposed to one pound per week, so progress is being made. He is still completely off the charts, and they are going to keep an eye on him, but they are not worried at all right now. Yay.
Jesse also gave us our first really real belly laugh the other day. He did it two or three times when he saw our friend's daughter! She wasn't even doing anything silly, it just struck him funny! And for the life of us, we can't get him to do it again. But, it was so so so cute!!!
Other news. Jesse now weighs in at 18 pounds 10 ounces. I actually thought it was more on our scales here, so that's good news. He's only gained a pound this month, as opposed to one pound per week, so progress is being made. He is still completely off the charts, and they are going to keep an eye on him, but they are not worried at all right now. Yay.
Jesse also gave us our first really real belly laugh the other day. He did it two or three times when he saw our friend's daughter! She wasn't even doing anything silly, it just struck him funny! And for the life of us, we can't get him to do it again. But, it was so so so cute!!!
Day Trips
I am thoroughly convinced that our wee one is most content and happy when he is in the great outdoors! I always have the easiest days with him when we go on our day trips. Yesterday, Jesse had his first experience at the beach when we went with our dear friends Cory and Rachel to Long Beach Island. It was so much fun! We went to a secluded part of the Island where there were absolutely no people - it was like we owned the beach! The entire time, Jesse just laid on the blanket totally mellow and content, and then when it was nap time, I put him in his swing, and he slept for a good hour. Good times!
We left at 1:00 so the boys could nap in the car and so we'd miss the heat of the day. We didn't leave until dark, and it was so so much fun. Last week-end we checked out another state park and then walked around this fun little town, and the same thing happened with Jesse. He was mellow and happy the whole time. Hmmm.....bring on the day trips to the great outdoors!
We left at 1:00 so the boys could nap in the car and so we'd miss the heat of the day. We didn't leave until dark, and it was so so much fun. Last week-end we checked out another state park and then walked around this fun little town, and the same thing happened with Jesse. He was mellow and happy the whole time. Hmmm.....bring on the day trips to the great outdoors!
Don't Sweat the Small Stuff
I love that I have so many friends who are in the same stage of child-rearing life that I am in! Even those sans children are dealing with discipline and training issues with pets - (Esther and Jess - it's pretty close! :0) Anyway, just in the past couple of days I've talked with five friends who's children range in age from Jesse at three months to a five year old. Discussing parenting issues always helps to put things in perspective for me. First of all, it's always encouraging to know that nobody has a perfect child! But, it's also good to remind each other that even though short naps, biting, refusing to eat veggies, waking up multiple times at night, and the like are all frustrating and disconcerting, they really are such small problems to be dealing with when you think of some of the monumental things other parents are going through.
I'm so thankful that our family loves each other - that there is no one else we'd rather spend time with than each other, that our two boys are healthy, that Kaden LOVES being a big brother, that Jesse adores Kaden, and that I don't have to wonder if Kev loves me or if he'll ever leave me. There will come a day when we'll be dealing with much bigger issues with our boys - girls, bullies, peer pressure, etc., with our families - aging parents, sickness, death etc., and with other stressors that life will hand us..........and I will LONG for the day when all I really worried about was if Jesse was too chunky and if he would ever take a long nap for me!
Right now, I truly am living my dream, and I want to be constantly reminded of that. Being a wife and mother is what I have ALWAYS wanted, and now I'm getting to do it every day. These days will fly by all too soon, and I need to SAVOR these little gifts that we have been given in our sons.
Does it matter that Jesse is the size of an eight month old, that he never poops, and that he takes wretched naps for me?!!! Does it matter that Kaden sucks his thumb 24/7 and that he still has wet pull-ups every morning? Does it matter if I let my floors get so dirty sometimes that our feet turn black when we walk around in our bare feet? Sure!! :0)
But, in the grand scheme of life......nah - not that much!
And, p.s. - for those of you coming over tomorrow - I was able to scrub my floors today. All is well in the world. :0)
I'm so thankful that our family loves each other - that there is no one else we'd rather spend time with than each other, that our two boys are healthy, that Kaden LOVES being a big brother, that Jesse adores Kaden, and that I don't have to wonder if Kev loves me or if he'll ever leave me. There will come a day when we'll be dealing with much bigger issues with our boys - girls, bullies, peer pressure, etc., with our families - aging parents, sickness, death etc., and with other stressors that life will hand us..........and I will LONG for the day when all I really worried about was if Jesse was too chunky and if he would ever take a long nap for me!
Right now, I truly am living my dream, and I want to be constantly reminded of that. Being a wife and mother is what I have ALWAYS wanted, and now I'm getting to do it every day. These days will fly by all too soon, and I need to SAVOR these little gifts that we have been given in our sons.
Does it matter that Jesse is the size of an eight month old, that he never poops, and that he takes wretched naps for me?!!! Does it matter that Kaden sucks his thumb 24/7 and that he still has wet pull-ups every morning? Does it matter if I let my floors get so dirty sometimes that our feet turn black when we walk around in our bare feet? Sure!! :0)
But, in the grand scheme of life......nah - not that much!
And, p.s. - for those of you coming over tomorrow - I was able to scrub my floors today. All is well in the world. :0)
Miracle of Miracles!
We have had a break through today folks! I'm not getting my hopes up just yet, but for Jesse's afternoon nap, he is going on two hours!!! Whoo-hoo! He woke up forty-five minutes into it - just like he always does - but after just five or ten minutes of crying, he fell back asleep, and he is in la-la land even as I post! Heavenly day, I'm so excited......but not TOO excited, just in case this was a rare moment. But I know that he can do it now! Whoo-hoo! My childless friends, I'm sure this probably seems like no big deal to you, but I assure you - it's big doings! It means afternoons of getting things accomplished, of quiet, quality uninterrupted devotions, of supper being made by suppertime, and (gasp!) maybe even a little bit of scrapbooking. But, like I said.....no huge celebrations yet. Just one more baby step of victory!
The Magic Month of Three!
Jesse is three months old today, and he is a totally different baby than he was even a month ago. I don't know what the deal is - I think Kev and I just make really fussy newborns or something. But, both of our boys were absolute wrecks the first three months of their lives. And now - Jesse has totally evened out. He is pleasant and calm most of the time, he is fairly easily soothed when he does get upset, and he is no longer a screamer every evening from six to eight! I can actually put him down for long periods of time and he is entertained by his playmat and his swing, and he is at least resigning himself to the fact that stroller rides could possibly be a pleasant experience!
During the first three months the jury was out - it was touch and go for awhile. But, I guess we've all reached our verdict.....we'll keep him!
During the first three months the jury was out - it was touch and go for awhile. But, I guess we've all reached our verdict.....we'll keep him!
Happy Labor Day!
I don't know about the rest of you, but we did not have a very "laborious" long week-end. It was actually quite lovely. On Saturday, along with our friends Cory and Rachel and their little girl, we went to our favorite State Park again to have a picnic and spend the day. That place is a little boy's paradise! We caught a huge water snake, tons of toads and crayfish, Daddy caught three sunfish on his fly rod, and there are just so many places to explore and get all wet and dirty! Jesse loves to be outside, so he was really pleasant and took another long nap in the swing. I was able to get some good quality time in with Kaden looking for crayfish, bugs, and toads while he napped, so that was really nice.
Then on Sunday, we went to church. Jesse did great in the nursery, and actually slept most of the service. Kaden and I found a bunch of toads in the church lot as well, so he was totally pumped! That was fun. We had a really relaxing afternoon, and then when the boys woke up we went to Target and then got a bite to eat. Once again, Jesse was just so pleasant and content in his carseat while we shopped and ate!
And yesterday, after Kev's classes (so, I guess he labored a little!) we went for icecream and then to Core Creek to fish until the sun set. The boys and I spent most of our day outside yesterday. It was so warm and breezy. The humidity has just about gone now, so the weather is really really nice here. We went for a long walk in the morning, then we went next door to the park. While Kaden looked for bugs, I glanced over at Jesse on the blanket, and he had totally fallen asleep! I tell you - this kid loves to be outside. He's so content and happy out there. Anyway, it was just a really great weekend all around. Restful, lots of time spent with family and friends, and lots of time spent being outside enjoying God's creation.
Then on Sunday, we went to church. Jesse did great in the nursery, and actually slept most of the service. Kaden and I found a bunch of toads in the church lot as well, so he was totally pumped! That was fun. We had a really relaxing afternoon, and then when the boys woke up we went to Target and then got a bite to eat. Once again, Jesse was just so pleasant and content in his carseat while we shopped and ate!
And yesterday, after Kev's classes (so, I guess he labored a little!) we went for icecream and then to Core Creek to fish until the sun set. The boys and I spent most of our day outside yesterday. It was so warm and breezy. The humidity has just about gone now, so the weather is really really nice here. We went for a long walk in the morning, then we went next door to the park. While Kaden looked for bugs, I glanced over at Jesse on the blanket, and he had totally fallen asleep! I tell you - this kid loves to be outside. He's so content and happy out there. Anyway, it was just a really great weekend all around. Restful, lots of time spent with family and friends, and lots of time spent being outside enjoying God's creation.
My Oldest.....
I have been so thankful for our little Kaden lately. He has such a tender heart and a really sensitive conscience. There have been several times this past week where he has come to me and confessed things that I never would have found out about - yet he still wanted me to know. The other day I was babysitting a friend's little boy, and I set out some grapes on the edge of the table that were cut in half. I told Kaden that he could have more whole ones if he wanted, but the cut up ones were for Reid.
I went into the living room to feed Jesse and Kaden walked over to me with this sheepish smile on his face. I could tell something was up, so I just asked him if he was being a good boy or if he had done something naughty. He said, "I'm being a good boy, Mommy." So, I simply smiled at him and replied, "Okay Honey, I believe you." He looked at me for a split second and then his face got really sad and he confessed, "I just ate one of Reid's grapes."
So precious. He didn't have to say anything and I would never have known. And really - it was only a grape. But then again, it's so much more. It's about obedience and honesty and integrity - even at a really young age. And it's about seeking to bless Jesus and Mommy and Daddy. Kaden is not perfect by any means, but we are really starting to see more and more the older that he gets the desire to be truthful and a really tender heart and sensitive spirit. I pray this stays with him the older he gets, and I pray that he always wants to make Jesus happy - even when Mommy and Daddy aren't looking - FOREVER!
Truth be told, Jesse will most likely want to follow Kaden's lead far more than he'll ever want to follow ours. In all seriousness, Kaden has a pretty big burden of responsibility on his shoulders in being the "big brother" to however many siblings come down the pike. I want him to understand this now - while he's still only three - and realize that his siblings will be watching him and will be wanting to act just like him. I don't expect perfection. I never will. For now, I'm just loving these moments of sweetness that make me so proud, and I'm praying that he'll always stay tender.
I went into the living room to feed Jesse and Kaden walked over to me with this sheepish smile on his face. I could tell something was up, so I just asked him if he was being a good boy or if he had done something naughty. He said, "I'm being a good boy, Mommy." So, I simply smiled at him and replied, "Okay Honey, I believe you." He looked at me for a split second and then his face got really sad and he confessed, "I just ate one of Reid's grapes."
So precious. He didn't have to say anything and I would never have known. And really - it was only a grape. But then again, it's so much more. It's about obedience and honesty and integrity - even at a really young age. And it's about seeking to bless Jesus and Mommy and Daddy. Kaden is not perfect by any means, but we are really starting to see more and more the older that he gets the desire to be truthful and a really tender heart and sensitive spirit. I pray this stays with him the older he gets, and I pray that he always wants to make Jesus happy - even when Mommy and Daddy aren't looking - FOREVER!
Truth be told, Jesse will most likely want to follow Kaden's lead far more than he'll ever want to follow ours. In all seriousness, Kaden has a pretty big burden of responsibility on his shoulders in being the "big brother" to however many siblings come down the pike. I want him to understand this now - while he's still only three - and realize that his siblings will be watching him and will be wanting to act just like him. I don't expect perfection. I never will. For now, I'm just loving these moments of sweetness that make me so proud, and I'm praying that he'll always stay tender.
Wedding Bells!
Well, my little bro is engaged! Who would have thought?! He called us last night on his way up home to share the news with the fam. He's pretty pumped and so are we. Kev and I got to meet Julie for the first time when we went home in August, and from the first minute we laid eyes on her, I knew that they were a good fit for each other. She is a great match - both for him and for our family, and that says a lot! She is so down to earth, what you see is what you get, she really loves Aaron, and most importantly, she's truly in love with the Lord. Pretty cool. They're talking a first of the year wedding - at the latest, Spring - so things will be moving pretty quickly from here on out. Sigh! sigh. My little brother is all grown up.........
Balancing Life
I'm still trying to get a handle on balancing life with two little boys. I'm only 3 months into it - so still very much a rookie, but I really want to love my family WELL, you know? I want my home to be a haven for Kev when he comes home from work and school. I want my friends to know that they can drop by at any moment and they will be welcomed with a hug, some tea, and a yummy snack. I want them to leave my place feeling loved and refreshed. I want to give the Lord the firstfruits of my day and be constantly and continuously falling deeper in love with Him so that I view life from His eyes, and not my own. AND I want to spend individual quality time with both of my little boys doing what THEY love to do.
For Kaden this means when Jesse is down for his naps, rather than running around like a crazy woman trying to catch up on dishes and laundry, I need to get us both a fun snack and sit and read for a half hour. Or maybe it means going outside in the blazing heat after taking time to sunscreen and bug dope him all over and catch bugs and worms in our backyard. For Jesse it means I give lots of snuggles and touches - ESPECIALLY when he's fussy and savor this time even when he's a wreck rather than wish it away, complain about my aching back, or stress about my half finished supper plans!
It means fully embracing life where I am at right now and letting everything else fall by the wayside for a season. It doesn't matter if I perpetually have bugs roaming my apartment because Kaden can't resist peaking in. It doesn't matter if my home doesn't meet up with my usual expectations of cleanliness and orderliness. It doesn't matter if I don't get showered and make-up on until noon. And it doesn't really matter if my do-list doesn't get done for months on end. It's okay. Relationships are what matter. Everything else is just details......
For Kaden this means when Jesse is down for his naps, rather than running around like a crazy woman trying to catch up on dishes and laundry, I need to get us both a fun snack and sit and read for a half hour. Or maybe it means going outside in the blazing heat after taking time to sunscreen and bug dope him all over and catch bugs and worms in our backyard. For Jesse it means I give lots of snuggles and touches - ESPECIALLY when he's fussy and savor this time even when he's a wreck rather than wish it away, complain about my aching back, or stress about my half finished supper plans!
It means fully embracing life where I am at right now and letting everything else fall by the wayside for a season. It doesn't matter if I perpetually have bugs roaming my apartment because Kaden can't resist peaking in. It doesn't matter if my home doesn't meet up with my usual expectations of cleanliness and orderliness. It doesn't matter if I don't get showered and make-up on until noon. And it doesn't really matter if my do-list doesn't get done for months on end. It's okay. Relationships are what matter. Everything else is just details......
Progress is Being Made!
Our little guy may just be evening out. I'm still not holding my breath, but a week from now is Jesse's three month mark - right about the same time that Kaden started relaxing a little, too. We shall see. He goes down for the night without a hitch and sleeps through until about 6:30 a.m. He is beginning to soothe himself to sleep better for naps - still decent bouts of crying - but nothing in comparison to what he was doing. And he is having longer and longer moments of pleasantness periodically throughout the day, as well! :0) Good times! The naps are still wicked short, so that's the next thing I really want to start working on with him. Any suggestions?
Today was a really great day. Kev didn't start class today like he thought he did, and the weather was absolutely gorgeous, so we just packed up and went to a local State Park for the day. We all played in the river, Kev and Kaden caught a bass, Jesse slept in his swing some, and Kaden and I caught crayfish, minnows, and about twenty-five toads - no joke - it was crazy! Kaden missed his nap and fell asleep at 5:00 on our drive home, so we just popped him right into bed for the night! Jesse is now down, as well, so Kev and I are going to crash on the couch and watch a movie. I'm off!
Today was a really great day. Kev didn't start class today like he thought he did, and the weather was absolutely gorgeous, so we just packed up and went to a local State Park for the day. We all played in the river, Kev and Kaden caught a bass, Jesse slept in his swing some, and Kaden and I caught crayfish, minnows, and about twenty-five toads - no joke - it was crazy! Kaden missed his nap and fell asleep at 5:00 on our drive home, so we just popped him right into bed for the night! Jesse is now down, as well, so Kev and I are going to crash on the couch and watch a movie. I'm off!
Baby Steps
I feel like a tiny bit of progress is being made where Jesse is concerned. He continues to be quite the horrible napper and quite the professional at screaming......but, he is starting to have longer moments of happiness and contentment, as well! Jesse is starting to like his swing more, and I can leave his sight for awhile and have him still stay relatively happy. As he is becoming more aware of his surroundings, I think that he is being entertained a little bit longer at a time. The "diet" is going pretty well. He doesn't seem to be noticing too much that Mommy has been cutting his feedings in half. At times, I think it makes him grumpier - but really no more than he ever has been! He's also going down for the night around 7:30 and only wakes up once in the night - often going between 6 and 8 hour stretches. So, these are mini victories - helpful in keeping the big picture in perspective. On the other hand, I think that I'm starting to have some serious back issues due to the long periods of carrying this not-so-little guy....either that or I'm just getting old. Probably both. Ah well - it's all good!
The Homeward Stretch
Next week marks the beginning of hubby's final year here at PBU. My, how the time has flown - and it really has been quite the fun ride! Earlier this summer, we were the only couple left in our apartment complex, but now the rooms are quickly filling up once again. There is only one other couple besides us who are from the group that initially moved in. So, for this last year, there will only be two families with children. All the rest will be newlyweds and senior students. I kinda' feel bad for the newlyweds who will be living above and below us with our fussy baby, and all. Hey, it'll be good birth control if nothing else! :0)
Yup, the complex was kinda' quiet this summer. It was good for the early days of Jesse's birth, but now I'm liking the busy commotion, the crazy greetings from kids who've missed each other, and all of the U-hauls that are bringing new couples in. It makes the place come alive again!
So, this is it for us! Only one more year for Kev, and as of tonight I am done! Done! Done! The next big thing? Well, besides continuing to figure out the "being-Mommy-to-two" thing, I'm going to be getting trained in the Clarion Consulting ministry (like Kev was) at the end of September. We'll see what adventures spring from this undertaking!
Yup, the complex was kinda' quiet this summer. It was good for the early days of Jesse's birth, but now I'm liking the busy commotion, the crazy greetings from kids who've missed each other, and all of the U-hauls that are bringing new couples in. It makes the place come alive again!
So, this is it for us! Only one more year for Kev, and as of tonight I am done! Done! Done! The next big thing? Well, besides continuing to figure out the "being-Mommy-to-two" thing, I'm going to be getting trained in the Clarion Consulting ministry (like Kev was) at the end of September. We'll see what adventures spring from this undertaking!
Jesse Update.....
Jesse had his two month check-up last week. Just wanted to give you all a brief update on what's going on with him and us. Currently he weighs almost 18 pounds - this is the size of a typical six month old! He has gained just about a pound a week since birth! The pediatrician is not worried YET, but she says that his weight is not only off the charts, but it is now "skyrocketing." Soooo, our little guy truly is on a diet now! She said that every once in awhile she'll see this happen with a nursing baby - it's more common with formula fed babies, but it does happen. Very weird - Kaden has never had a chubby bone on his body and he nursed much more than Jesse does. Interesting.
So now, not only do I have to be really strict with the times of his feedings, I also have to cut them in half! She wants to see if this rapid weight gain is due to my milk before he has his blood tested for diabetes, metabolic issues, or whatever. We're not really worried, but it's just made it that much more fun with an already fussy baby!
And for our further enjoyment, not only does Jesse continue to be a wretched napper and a fairly crabby baby - he also gets to have his meals cut in half which makes for an even CRABBIER baby. Mommy's had a few VERY overwhelming days. Many days of perpetual crying and screaming. (Jesse....not me. :0) I'm doing okay. I know that this too, shall pass, so I'm trying to keep perspective. Although some days are REEEEEEALY long. I owe many friends and family members phone calls, but lately it's a little hard to carry on conversations amidst the hollering! It's okay, though. I'm still really trying to savor this season of babyhood. Soon enough, he'll be a little boy running all around.
On a bright note - Friday is my very last class where my very last paper is due and then I am officially GRAJITATED! That will be one thing that I can get off my plate, so I'm looking forward to that. So, this afternoon after I give Jesse his supper, I'm headed to Panera for a good five hours to work on my paper, do some devos, and have some yummy food all by my lonesome. That's only two hours away......not that I'm counting the minutes or anything! :0)
So now, not only do I have to be really strict with the times of his feedings, I also have to cut them in half! She wants to see if this rapid weight gain is due to my milk before he has his blood tested for diabetes, metabolic issues, or whatever. We're not really worried, but it's just made it that much more fun with an already fussy baby!
And for our further enjoyment, not only does Jesse continue to be a wretched napper and a fairly crabby baby - he also gets to have his meals cut in half which makes for an even CRABBIER baby. Mommy's had a few VERY overwhelming days. Many days of perpetual crying and screaming. (Jesse....not me. :0) I'm doing okay. I know that this too, shall pass, so I'm trying to keep perspective. Although some days are REEEEEEALY long. I owe many friends and family members phone calls, but lately it's a little hard to carry on conversations amidst the hollering! It's okay, though. I'm still really trying to savor this season of babyhood. Soon enough, he'll be a little boy running all around.
On a bright note - Friday is my very last class where my very last paper is due and then I am officially GRAJITATED! That will be one thing that I can get off my plate, so I'm looking forward to that. So, this afternoon after I give Jesse his supper, I'm headed to Panera for a good five hours to work on my paper, do some devos, and have some yummy food all by my lonesome. That's only two hours away......not that I'm counting the minutes or anything! :0)
Happy Birthday to Me!
And Jesse, too! He's ten weeks old today!
Me - well, I've hit the big 3-0! Crazy!!!
When we went home to Maine we realized that several of our old youth group kids got married this summer! That tells me I'm getting old. Ah well.
To celebrate this grand day, Daddy and Kaden made me a yummy breakfast this morning, and then they each presented me with some lovely cards. Kaden drew some great pictures in his, and Kev presented me with some cold hard cash. My fave! Me thinks I'm going to save up for something big.....maybe a new bike!
Then, we all went to Olive Garden for lunch, and my gift from Jesse was a beautiful long nap throughout the ENTIRE meal! I actually ate everything with two hands AND while it was still hot! That's the greatest birthday gift ever!
Me - well, I've hit the big 3-0! Crazy!!!
When we went home to Maine we realized that several of our old youth group kids got married this summer! That tells me I'm getting old. Ah well.
To celebrate this grand day, Daddy and Kaden made me a yummy breakfast this morning, and then they each presented me with some lovely cards. Kaden drew some great pictures in his, and Kev presented me with some cold hard cash. My fave! Me thinks I'm going to save up for something big.....maybe a new bike!
Then, we all went to Olive Garden for lunch, and my gift from Jesse was a beautiful long nap throughout the ENTIRE meal! I actually ate everything with two hands AND while it was still hot! That's the greatest birthday gift ever!
Back Home and Deranged!!!
Well, we've arrived back at "Filthy-delphia" the city of brotherly "Shove"....home sweet home. No, just kidding. It's good to get back to our cozy little apartment. It's been a crazy few days, though. It took us about 12 hours to get back. We literally dropped all of our stuff inside, Kev took the rental car back to the agency, and I ran to class.
When I got back at 10:00, the house still looked like a cyclone had swept through it, and Kev and Jesse were crashed out in bed together. I guess Jesse cried the entire time I was in class. Good times for all......Poor boys. So, I came in and gave him some snuggles, fed him, put him in his crib, and then I attacked the place until midnight. It was totally overwhelming me!
Then, Saturday evening and all day Sunday I felt wicked sick. Still not sure what it was, but I had horrible chills (and it's 90 degrees), then I would get all sweaty, and I had a pounding headache. So, Jesse and I skipped church and then when Kev came home, I had a mini breakdown so he watched the boys for me while I slept for four hours straight! Feeling much better now. :0) I think I was getting a little burnt out perhaps. Nothing that a four hour nap couldn't solve!!!
When I got back at 10:00, the house still looked like a cyclone had swept through it, and Kev and Jesse were crashed out in bed together. I guess Jesse cried the entire time I was in class. Good times for all......Poor boys. So, I came in and gave him some snuggles, fed him, put him in his crib, and then I attacked the place until midnight. It was totally overwhelming me!
Then, Saturday evening and all day Sunday I felt wicked sick. Still not sure what it was, but I had horrible chills (and it's 90 degrees), then I would get all sweaty, and I had a pounding headache. So, Jesse and I skipped church and then when Kev came home, I had a mini breakdown so he watched the boys for me while I slept for four hours straight! Feeling much better now. :0) I think I was getting a little burnt out perhaps. Nothing that a four hour nap couldn't solve!!!
"Jesse BEAR"
We have a new nickname for our little boy: "Jesse Bear"
He has been dubbed this for two reasons. One - he is a literal TANK! But even more so, our beloved newborn is truly quite the bear! I'm reminded that Kaden was a wreck for the first three months of his life, as well, so I truly am trying to take heart.....but good heavens! This child is going to be the death of me! I am still REALLY loving being Mommy of two little boys, mind you, but I am also a wee bit near my wit's end. Any advice would be grand! This child is a screamer and is really not a happy camper most of the day and night. His saving grace is that he just started smiling and cooing these past couple of days. The good Lord knew that it was about time!
He has been dubbed this for two reasons. One - he is a literal TANK! But even more so, our beloved newborn is truly quite the bear! I'm reminded that Kaden was a wreck for the first three months of his life, as well, so I truly am trying to take heart.....but good heavens! This child is going to be the death of me! I am still REALLY loving being Mommy of two little boys, mind you, but I am also a wee bit near my wit's end. Any advice would be grand! This child is a screamer and is really not a happy camper most of the day and night. His saving grace is that he just started smiling and cooing these past couple of days. The good Lord knew that it was about time!
Random Thoughts for Lazy Days
Nothing new to post really. I'm just sitting here thinking about how much I'm enjoying my life lately. I'm really loving being a Mommy of two little guys. And I'm loving that it's summer, so we can spend most of our days outside. Jesse is a wee bit crabby a lot of the time - much like his big brother Kaden was during his first three months of life - but he really seems to be soothed by being outside. So we are outdoor campers many of our days!
I got a new super cool double jogger stroller where the seats are front to back as opposed to side by side. Kaden sits up high while Jesse lays down below him. Once Jesse gets a little bit bigger, the stroller converts to a two-seater. It's quite glorious. We walk every morning, and it's been quite sweaty (not to mention back-breaking) wearing him in a Snugli. So, I feel like a princess now!
Kaden also has a really fun kiddie pool that he loves to swim in, so we spend many of our moments in our backyard with Kaden swimming and Jesse hanging out on his Boppy. I love lazy summer days where the only agenda is to play outside until afternoon naps.
I love that I only have one class left, and then I don't have to think about school at all for awhile. I love that Jesse is taking a really long nap today and that I was able to take a really long nap yesterday. I love that we're coming home soon to see all of our friends and family....and I love lots of other things, but my not-so-wee one is calling for me as I type!
I got a new super cool double jogger stroller where the seats are front to back as opposed to side by side. Kaden sits up high while Jesse lays down below him. Once Jesse gets a little bit bigger, the stroller converts to a two-seater. It's quite glorious. We walk every morning, and it's been quite sweaty (not to mention back-breaking) wearing him in a Snugli. So, I feel like a princess now!
Kaden also has a really fun kiddie pool that he loves to swim in, so we spend many of our moments in our backyard with Kaden swimming and Jesse hanging out on his Boppy. I love lazy summer days where the only agenda is to play outside until afternoon naps.
I love that I only have one class left, and then I don't have to think about school at all for awhile. I love that Jesse is taking a really long nap today and that I was able to take a really long nap yesterday. I love that we're coming home soon to see all of our friends and family....and I love lots of other things, but my not-so-wee one is calling for me as I type!
Behold Our Buddah Baby!!!
So, our littlest one had his five week wellness check-up yesterday at the pediatrician's. Now, I don't normally give much thought to the whole percentile thing, but....get this: his head circumference is in the 50%, (okay, average, right?) his length is in the 50%-90%, (so he's pretty long).....but......get this......his weight is OFF THE CHARTS!!! Meaning....our baby TRULY is a chunk! At five weeks, this child weighs 14 1/2 pounds! He is in size two diapers and is already busting out of 3-6 month clothing! Jesse's pediatrician says she isn't worried at all, but she wants me to try and put him on a strict three hour feeding schedule! Kev says, "Our baby's on a diet!!" I sometimes forget that he is still a newborn because he's so big!
Unplanned Road Trips
So, in a matter of three days I have managed to get myself royally lost on these Pennsylvania highways. Man alive - I used to think that I was pretty decent at reading directions and maps, but you will never hear me say that again. I have been sufficiently humbled.
On my way to my baby shower, I drove thirty miles round trip in the wrong direction and made myself thirty minutes late. (This is a route that we have taken every Sunday for two years, mind you). And then tonight, I had to drop Kev off at our Pastor's place because he flies out for three days at 4:30 in the morning tomorrow, and I took a wrong exit yet again. Upon realizing my mistake, I figured - no problem; I'll just get off at the next exit and turn around. Well, the next exit wasn't for another twenty miles. So, yet again, I drove almost forty miles round trip out of the way of my destination. Poor little boys -what should have been a forty minute drive home for them ended up being an hour and a half road trip in the pouring rain.
Good times! A great way to start a three day week-end as a single Mom of two!
I tell you what - you can take the girl out of the country...........
On my way to my baby shower, I drove thirty miles round trip in the wrong direction and made myself thirty minutes late. (This is a route that we have taken every Sunday for two years, mind you). And then tonight, I had to drop Kev off at our Pastor's place because he flies out for three days at 4:30 in the morning tomorrow, and I took a wrong exit yet again. Upon realizing my mistake, I figured - no problem; I'll just get off at the next exit and turn around. Well, the next exit wasn't for another twenty miles. So, yet again, I drove almost forty miles round trip out of the way of my destination. Poor little boys -what should have been a forty minute drive home for them ended up being an hour and a half road trip in the pouring rain.
Good times! A great way to start a three day week-end as a single Mom of two!
I tell you what - you can take the girl out of the country...........
Terms of Endearment!
I'm compiling a list of names that have already been given to our (not so) little Jesse:
My favorite: "Sir Chubs-A-Lot"
Daddy's fave: "Chubby Wonder"
And Kaden's: "Sweety Pie" - (The nicest one by far! :0))
Because of all of his gruntings and crazy noises that he makes, he has also been termed:
"A grumpy little puppy" by Daddy, and
"A little bear" by Mommy.
Hmmm, not so "baby-ish" of names....but they do suit him!
And other comments from friends and family:
Jess: "Good Maine Stock!"
Rachel D.: "Sweet Chubby Little Monkey!"
Amber: "Looks like you're feeding him REALLY well!"
Yep - this one is only four weeks old, and he's already busting out of his 0-3 month clothing! If those cheeks get any pudgier, they'll be sitting on his shoulders! Very squeezable and oh so yummy, however! He's delish! Loving it!!!
My favorite: "Sir Chubs-A-Lot"
Daddy's fave: "Chubby Wonder"
And Kaden's: "Sweety Pie" - (The nicest one by far! :0))
Because of all of his gruntings and crazy noises that he makes, he has also been termed:
"A grumpy little puppy" by Daddy, and
"A little bear" by Mommy.
Hmmm, not so "baby-ish" of names....but they do suit him!
And other comments from friends and family:
Jess: "Good Maine Stock!"
Rachel D.: "Sweet Chubby Little Monkey!"
Amber: "Looks like you're feeding him REALLY well!"
Yep - this one is only four weeks old, and he's already busting out of his 0-3 month clothing! If those cheeks get any pudgier, they'll be sitting on his shoulders! Very squeezable and oh so yummy, however! He's delish! Loving it!!!
It's Been Awhile!
Hmmm, it has been some time since I last updated. Jesse turned four weeks old today - so that makes my last posting three weeks ago! My, how time flies! So, I sent a couple of pics out to some of you. What do you all think of our little "Chubs-A-Lot?" He's quite the bruiser, eh? So yummy and kissable...quite delicious!
Well, since I last posted, my Mom has come and gone, we had Jesse dedicated in church, and my church down here threw me a glorious baby shower! I am feeling abundantly blessed and taken care of! My Mom outdid herself while she was here. She took care of Kaden every morning so that we could sleep in, she cooked, she cleaned, she bought groceries, she took us out to eat, she gave Kaden quality Grammy time, she scrubbed my tub.....she even cleaned the upholtery on my chairs!!!! Unbelievable!
Then, my church gave me the sweetest shower this past Saturday. These ladies blessed me like you wouldn't imagine! I was expecting a tiny, very simple shower with maybe ten or fifteen ladies...which would have been totally fine, by the way. However, there were over forty women, the church was decorated beautifully, the food was DELISH, and they just overwhelmed me with gifts! (They bought me my dream double jogger stroller!!!!) Their love and generosity literally brought me to tears. The Lord truly does give "exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that we can EVER ask or imagine!"
So, one month into my mothering journey of "two," I am feeling very happy and content. I have had much help and support, Kaden is in LOVE with his little brother, and so far - I'm not feeling too overwhelmed! We're taking life pretty slowly and just relaxing and enjoying each other. Kev goes away for three days this week-end for his internship, so you can ask me on Monday if I'm STILL feeling relaxed and not too overwhelmed! :0) More updates to come......
Well, since I last posted, my Mom has come and gone, we had Jesse dedicated in church, and my church down here threw me a glorious baby shower! I am feeling abundantly blessed and taken care of! My Mom outdid herself while she was here. She took care of Kaden every morning so that we could sleep in, she cooked, she cleaned, she bought groceries, she took us out to eat, she gave Kaden quality Grammy time, she scrubbed my tub.....she even cleaned the upholtery on my chairs!!!! Unbelievable!
Then, my church gave me the sweetest shower this past Saturday. These ladies blessed me like you wouldn't imagine! I was expecting a tiny, very simple shower with maybe ten or fifteen ladies...which would have been totally fine, by the way. However, there were over forty women, the church was decorated beautifully, the food was DELISH, and they just overwhelmed me with gifts! (They bought me my dream double jogger stroller!!!!) Their love and generosity literally brought me to tears. The Lord truly does give "exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that we can EVER ask or imagine!"
So, one month into my mothering journey of "two," I am feeling very happy and content. I have had much help and support, Kaden is in LOVE with his little brother, and so far - I'm not feeling too overwhelmed! We're taking life pretty slowly and just relaxing and enjoying each other. Kev goes away for three days this week-end for his internship, so you can ask me on Monday if I'm STILL feeling relaxed and not too overwhelmed! :0) More updates to come......
Happy Birthday, Little Man!
Hard to believe that our little Jesse Micah is already over a week old. Crazy how time flies! Kaden is still just as enamored with his little brother. He is always wanting to kiss, squeeze, and snuggle; and he really is such a big help to both Kev and I. He loves to get out the diapers and wipes, and he loves to put lotion on his baby! Super cute!
Well, I gave my final senior power point presentation for my book last night! Does that ever feel good to have done and out of the way! The whole fam came with me. Kev watched the boys while I presentated, and then I kept Jesse with me for the rest of the class. I'm not ready to pump yet, and my professor was totally cool with me having him, so we just sat in the back of the class while everyone else gave their presentations. Jesse was a model student - he slept through the entire class with just a few minor baby noises! Now I just have to take a five night Counseling class in July and August and I am completely home free! GRAJITATED!!! Yay! I am ready to just solely and completely focus on mothering my two little men without any distractions of classes and papers.
Mom is on her way out for a little visit. Kev has just gone to the airport to pick her up. So, it will really be nice to have her around to help with the boys and to especially give Kaden a lot of TLC and one on one attention. This will also get Kev off the hook of having to play "Mr. Mom," although he has done fabulously this week! He's done a bunch of little projects for me, he's kept up with the laundry and the dishes, he has taken Kaden away on a bunch of little Daddy-Son dates, and he's just really served and loved me. Can't ask for more than that!!!
Well, I gave my final senior power point presentation for my book last night! Does that ever feel good to have done and out of the way! The whole fam came with me. Kev watched the boys while I presentated, and then I kept Jesse with me for the rest of the class. I'm not ready to pump yet, and my professor was totally cool with me having him, so we just sat in the back of the class while everyone else gave their presentations. Jesse was a model student - he slept through the entire class with just a few minor baby noises! Now I just have to take a five night Counseling class in July and August and I am completely home free! GRAJITATED!!! Yay! I am ready to just solely and completely focus on mothering my two little men without any distractions of classes and papers.
Mom is on her way out for a little visit. Kev has just gone to the airport to pick her up. So, it will really be nice to have her around to help with the boys and to especially give Kaden a lot of TLC and one on one attention. This will also get Kev off the hook of having to play "Mr. Mom," although he has done fabulously this week! He's done a bunch of little projects for me, he's kept up with the laundry and the dishes, he has taken Kaden away on a bunch of little Daddy-Son dates, and he's just really served and loved me. Can't ask for more than that!!!
We Welcome With Love.....
BABY JESSE MICAH!!!!
After two days of total bedrest, and after cynically "knowing for sure" that our second birth experience would be the same as our first - traumatic, stressful, and induced - the Lord granted my FERVENT prayer request and allowed us to go completely naturally and on our own this time.
At 1:00 a.m. Sunday morning, a week before my due date, I woke up feeling yucky. I took a shower and tried to assess the situation. By 2:30 I knew that THIS WAS IT! Kev woke up and we started counting contractions. Within minutes they were less than 5 minutes apart and very intense, so he called the midwife. I wasn't overly impressed, because I wanted to be home for as much of the labor as possible. But, with the hospital 45 minutes away and with my history of fast deliveries, my midwife told us to hit the road. Good thing - because my water broke in the car and twenty minutes after arriving at the hospital, baby Jesse Micah was born!!!
We are so in love with this little baby, and Kaden is so completely proud and pleased to "have a new baby brother of my VERY own!" Jesse weighed in at 8 pounds, 14 ounces (my very first words when I saw him were, "He's a CHUNK!"). He's 21 inches long, and he has just a little bit of brown hair. At birth, he was VERY red, but he is becoming more dark with each day, like Kaden did. Soooo adorable!!!
Anyway, just wanted to share the news with everyone. He's waking up, so we must be off!
After two days of total bedrest, and after cynically "knowing for sure" that our second birth experience would be the same as our first - traumatic, stressful, and induced - the Lord granted my FERVENT prayer request and allowed us to go completely naturally and on our own this time.
At 1:00 a.m. Sunday morning, a week before my due date, I woke up feeling yucky. I took a shower and tried to assess the situation. By 2:30 I knew that THIS WAS IT! Kev woke up and we started counting contractions. Within minutes they were less than 5 minutes apart and very intense, so he called the midwife. I wasn't overly impressed, because I wanted to be home for as much of the labor as possible. But, with the hospital 45 minutes away and with my history of fast deliveries, my midwife told us to hit the road. Good thing - because my water broke in the car and twenty minutes after arriving at the hospital, baby Jesse Micah was born!!!
We are so in love with this little baby, and Kaden is so completely proud and pleased to "have a new baby brother of my VERY own!" Jesse weighed in at 8 pounds, 14 ounces (my very first words when I saw him were, "He's a CHUNK!"). He's 21 inches long, and he has just a little bit of brown hair. At birth, he was VERY red, but he is becoming more dark with each day, like Kaden did. Soooo adorable!!!
Anyway, just wanted to share the news with everyone. He's waking up, so we must be off!
One Last Hurrah!
So, I figure things could happen any day now, and one final thing that I really wanted to do before baby #2 arrives is go to the ocean for a day and really be able to play with Kaden before I'm kind of occupied with a newborn. It was roasty toasty today, so we loaded up and just drove about an hour away to the nearest beach in Jersey - Ocean Grove. Oh my - it was so very glorious! We swam, we caught sand crabs, we ate outside at a little sandwich shop, and - in the words of Kaden, it was just "super fun!" I was a good girl and rested for awhile on a blanket while Kev and Kaden played, and now I plan to be good for the rest of the night. My blood pressure is up a wee bit because of our day.....but mister man....it was worth it! From here on out, though, I do solemnly swear to be obedient to the orders of my midwife.
Here's the Deal-io...
So, I'm 38 weeks on Sunday - the time where I was induced with Kaden three years ago, and my body seems to REALLY be wanting to repeat that same scenario. However, this girl is fighting it! All of my tests are right in the elevated zone - just a smidgen below the "danger" zone. As long as I can keep squeaking by, my midwives are fine to let my body just go. I'm on "modified" bed rest - laying down on my left side one hour in the morning, one hour in the afternoon, and then anytime that I am resting - (What? When does that take place during the day?). I need to take my blood pressure three times as day, as well. As long as I can keep it in a certain range - I'm golden. As soon as it goes ABOVE a certain range - to the hospital I go to be induced. So....it's kind of a day by day induction wait! Good times.
Only Three More Days Until......
Well, I had my 36 week appointment yesterday. This is about the time when I was pregnant with Kaden when all you-know-what broke loose with my preclampia (or however you spell that dumb word). Anyway, I'll be 37 weeks on Sunday, and my midwife says that anytime after that, she is fine should I deliver. At this appointment yesterday, first the first time ever in this pregnancy, my blood pressure was elevated. Not in the danger zone yet, but not where she wants it, either. So, we're going to watch it for a week and see what happens. It's a bit frustrating because I feel like I've done everything I could with this pregnancy to do what's right - including drinking a VERY pricey supplement that supposedly helps most women. However, she said that some women are just predisposed to this condition, no matter what. So, if you would, please pray that all stays okay until the end. I would truly love to be able to let my body go completely naturally this time and not have to be induced with all that junk. I would really love to be able to stay home for a long time this time, too, but the Lord knows, and either way we'll have our baby soon - and his or her health is what is most important. So, I'm just trying to be positive and content.
In three more days, I plan to run a marathon and get this show on the road! Just kidding....kinda.
In three more days, I plan to run a marathon and get this show on the road! Just kidding....kinda.
Funny Story.....Kinda'
For those of you who know us, you know that we do not drink. We actually don't have issues with it, we just have not chosen to partake ourselves for various reasons......until yesterday......by complete accident!
Kev and Kaden took me to Olive Garden for Mother's Day, and at the conclusion of our meal, we decided to get the yummy "Frozen Tiramisu" which was available with or without "spirits." When our waitress came by, Kev asked her if it tasted the same either way, and she said, "Oh yes, some people just like it with the alcohol, but it tastes exactly the same." Thinking she would understand that we wanted a non-alcoholic version, seeing an OBVIOUSLY pregnant wife and three year old little boy, Kev merely said, "O.k., we'll all split one to go."
Well, somehow there was a breakdown in communication, and here is where it happened. The waitress said, "Oh, we're really not supposed to make them to go." (Because they don't want people drinking and driving, I guess). I was thinking of how it would be much easier to just drink it in the restaurant anyway, so I simply said, "Oh, that's fine. We'll just drink it here." A couple of minutes later she brings us our bill AND the drink in a to go cup with a parting comment, "I just put it in a to go cup anyway, even though I wasn't supposed to."
THAT should have clued us in. But, nope, the naive Bookers sat happily in the middle of the restaurant sucking back on our yummy alcoholic Tiramisu. At first Kaden kept saying, "Oh! This is a yummy special treat!" But, the further he got to the bottom, he began saying, "OOOh! I don't like this - it's toooo strong!" I agreed with him and said that I didn't particularly like the flavor either, so we let Kev finish off the last little bit.
On our way out to the car, as we got to thinking about it, Kev said, "You know, I'm just going to run back inside to check with her and make sure that she made it without alcohol." Sure enough - she made it the regular way! Kev assured her it wasn't really a big deal, but he just wanted to know because his 8 month pregnant wife and three old little boy drank just as much as he did! She was horrified and felt so bad! We just about died laughing. No big deal really, but not the ideal after dinner treat for a prego and a little boy! Goodness knows, he's already been introduced to coffee and is addicted at a VERY young age - he needs no other vice! :0)
Well, what can I say? Hey - if we're going to try alcohol for the first time we might as well make it a family occasion! Good grief! Only us........
Kev and Kaden took me to Olive Garden for Mother's Day, and at the conclusion of our meal, we decided to get the yummy "Frozen Tiramisu" which was available with or without "spirits." When our waitress came by, Kev asked her if it tasted the same either way, and she said, "Oh yes, some people just like it with the alcohol, but it tastes exactly the same." Thinking she would understand that we wanted a non-alcoholic version, seeing an OBVIOUSLY pregnant wife and three year old little boy, Kev merely said, "O.k., we'll all split one to go."
Well, somehow there was a breakdown in communication, and here is where it happened. The waitress said, "Oh, we're really not supposed to make them to go." (Because they don't want people drinking and driving, I guess). I was thinking of how it would be much easier to just drink it in the restaurant anyway, so I simply said, "Oh, that's fine. We'll just drink it here." A couple of minutes later she brings us our bill AND the drink in a to go cup with a parting comment, "I just put it in a to go cup anyway, even though I wasn't supposed to."
THAT should have clued us in. But, nope, the naive Bookers sat happily in the middle of the restaurant sucking back on our yummy alcoholic Tiramisu. At first Kaden kept saying, "Oh! This is a yummy special treat!" But, the further he got to the bottom, he began saying, "OOOh! I don't like this - it's toooo strong!" I agreed with him and said that I didn't particularly like the flavor either, so we let Kev finish off the last little bit.
On our way out to the car, as we got to thinking about it, Kev said, "You know, I'm just going to run back inside to check with her and make sure that she made it without alcohol." Sure enough - she made it the regular way! Kev assured her it wasn't really a big deal, but he just wanted to know because his 8 month pregnant wife and three old little boy drank just as much as he did! She was horrified and felt so bad! We just about died laughing. No big deal really, but not the ideal after dinner treat for a prego and a little boy! Goodness knows, he's already been introduced to coffee and is addicted at a VERY young age - he needs no other vice! :0)
Well, what can I say? Hey - if we're going to try alcohol for the first time we might as well make it a family occasion! Good grief! Only us........
Home Again
Oh man - what an awesome time we had on our little family camping trip! I don't think I've EVER had a more relaxing family vacation. We went with some dear friends who have a new baby, Kaden doesn't remember the last time he's been camping, and I am eight months pregnant, so we really had NO expectations for how this trip would go. We all just wanted a little R & R in God's creation away from the buses, trains, airplanes, yelling, and occasional gun shots!! And man oh man - did we ever get it!
Aside from it getting down below freezing our first night there, we could not have asked for better weather. The men caught fish, Kaden caught bugs, peed in the woods, played in the water, slept in a tent, had an awesome third birthday party, stayed up late, got to eat icecream, and had Mommy and Daddy's undivided attention for three days. He was in his element!
Hubby literally did ALL of the setup and take down work. The only things that I did the entire time that could even remotely be classified as work was wash the dishes on two different occasions. Other than that, I vegged, soaked in the sun, played with Kaden, visited with my friend, filled my face, and just relaxed to the MAX!!!
It was a glorious, fabulous, wonderful, last hurrah before the arrival of sweet baby #2! SUCH a fun family vacation, and a much needed step away from the hubbub of life! Now for the joy of the unpacking and cleanup....
Aside from it getting down below freezing our first night there, we could not have asked for better weather. The men caught fish, Kaden caught bugs, peed in the woods, played in the water, slept in a tent, had an awesome third birthday party, stayed up late, got to eat icecream, and had Mommy and Daddy's undivided attention for three days. He was in his element!
Hubby literally did ALL of the setup and take down work. The only things that I did the entire time that could even remotely be classified as work was wash the dishes on two different occasions. Other than that, I vegged, soaked in the sun, played with Kaden, visited with my friend, filled my face, and just relaxed to the MAX!!!
It was a glorious, fabulous, wonderful, last hurrah before the arrival of sweet baby #2! SUCH a fun family vacation, and a much needed step away from the hubbub of life! Now for the joy of the unpacking and cleanup....
It's That Time of Year Again!
Oh yes, my friends! It is the week-end of Graduation when all of the college kids throw away their treasures. You would not believe the stash of things that we poor married's find when we go dumpster diving! No kidding. Take tonight for example.....For myself, we found some cool clothes, a cute purse, a Gap bag, tons of unopened food, some UGG shoes!, jewelry, paper goods, and tons of unopened candy! Kev found the greatest treasures, though. He found a three CD disc changer, a DVD player, a toaster oven, and two flashlights, among other odds and ends. And this is only the beginning! Tomorrow is Graduation and everyone has to have their dorms completely emptied. So, do you know what these kids do? Rather than take these things home with them - they simply throw them away! Ahhh - got to get some good sleep tonight. This eight month prego is going Dumpster Diving in the morning! Let the good times roll!
35 Weeks and All is Well!
I had my 35 week checkup today. Good times! We're going camping for three nights this coming week with some friends up in the Poconos. I was a little worried about what my midwife might say, but she said everything looks great, so we are off to conquer from Sunday until Wednesday! Yay! We're going to celebrate Kaden's birthday early, just in case baby #2 should come at the end of May. I don't want his big day overlooked. So, he is totally pumped to sleep in a tent, go fishing, have campfires, and unwrap his presents at a campsite! Fun times! And should anything crazy happen, I have full faith that between Kev and my friends - they will do just fine delivering in the great outdoors!!!....On the other hand, they don't seem so sure......:0)
Kaden's Big News
Well, let me tell you, just a couple of days ago did we ever have an exciting evening! Daddy bought Kaden a new fishing pole that REALLY works, and Kaden has quickly become a pro at casting - (practicing in our living room with a little plastic fishy on the end for hours on end). Just the other day, we FINALLY had a beautiful day outside, so we went to Core Creek with a couple of friends from here. Our little boy caught not one, but TWO, little sunfish ALL BY HIMSELF! It was the cutest thing in the world - he was SO pumped, and Kevin was SO proud! Kaden kept saying, "Oh man! Oh wow! Oh boy! Can I put him in my dump truck?" We convinced him to put them in his little bucket so that they could still maybe have a fighting chance to live but so Kaden could still enjoy them, as well. Sorry to admit, one did indeed kick the bucket, but we let the other go before leaving. Our little boy has become a man!!!!
TRYING....to slow down
So, we had a bit of a scare last night. Nothing major, but after a couple of long days of babysitting twins, cleaning my house, getting groceries, and doing massive loads of laundry, last evening, I suddenly found myself feeling like I was going into labor! Just for a couple of minutes - but pretty severe pains in belly and back. And my back has been killing me for a couple of days now - very reminiscent of my back labor with Kaden. So, sweet hubby of mine is quickly checking things off of my "want to do and need to do" lists one by one and informing me that I need to slow down. I don't know about you - but this is no easy task for me. I feel like I have two switches - "Off" and "On." I don't tend to turn off until about 8:00 once Kaden is down - but until then I like to GO! Anyway, I feel fine today, and I have an appointment on Thursday. But, as of this morning, at 34 1/2 weeks, I am officially no longer a "working woman!" Ah - the bliss! Now, I'll just try to focus on finishing up my final assignments and begin to "nest!" Can't complain....
Spring - Glorious Spring!
What a bee-you-tiful day! After four days of yuckiness and rain, today the temperature finally hit about 80! Spring has finally sprung - and did we ever savor it on Mom's last day here! We all got up super early and hit a couple of block yard sales. Oh my - yard saling is seriously one of my most favorite things to do - EVER! And Kaden is totally hooked, as well. We didn't even get him anything today, but he just loves going to each sale, playing with whatever toys are there, meeting whatever family pets may be wandering around the dooryards, and then he happily moves on to the next sale with us!
Mom took us to Cracker Barrel for lunch, then we came home so Kaden could get a little nap. While he slept, Mom helped me beat out a rug (all the while being stressed that I was gonig to go into an early labor!), and I set up a cute little bookshelf that I had painted. Then, as soon as Kaden woke up, we went for ice cream and spent the rest of the afternoon and evening at our local Core Creek Park. Mom and I vegged on a blanket and chairs while the boys fished and fed the ducks and we just SOAKED in the sun! It was so so nice! What a lovely ending to her visit with us. So so much fun. Nice and lazy, the way I like it!
So sorry Bloodsworths, for the lack of sun while you were here! Good grief! :0)
Mom took us to Cracker Barrel for lunch, then we came home so Kaden could get a little nap. While he slept, Mom helped me beat out a rug (all the while being stressed that I was gonig to go into an early labor!), and I set up a cute little bookshelf that I had painted. Then, as soon as Kaden woke up, we went for ice cream and spent the rest of the afternoon and evening at our local Core Creek Park. Mom and I vegged on a blanket and chairs while the boys fished and fed the ducks and we just SOAKED in the sun! It was so so nice! What a lovely ending to her visit with us. So so much fun. Nice and lazy, the way I like it!
So sorry Bloodsworths, for the lack of sun while you were here! Good grief! :0)
Pink or Blue?
So, my midwife thinks that - judging by the heartbeat, I am having a girl. Hmmm, how accurate is that, anyway? That's been my gut all along, but it was rather interesting to hear her confirm what I've been wondering.
Mom has been here these past few days, so she was able to come with me to my appointment, meet my midwife, see my birthing center etc. But, anyway - upon hearing that tidbit of news, when we went to Wal-Mart yesterday, I saw her sneaking all of these girly, frilly things into her cart!! I had to remind her that I will need to be gently EASED into "frilly, girly things" as I am not of that flavor, myself. After pondering this a moment, she finally agreed - seeing as how she hasn't seen me in either a dress or skirt for YEARS myself!!! Oh my - the bane of my existence. Good heavens....... But, I must admit, there are some pretty adorable things hanging in my closet now.....just in case. :0)
Mom has been here these past few days, so she was able to come with me to my appointment, meet my midwife, see my birthing center etc. But, anyway - upon hearing that tidbit of news, when we went to Wal-Mart yesterday, I saw her sneaking all of these girly, frilly things into her cart!! I had to remind her that I will need to be gently EASED into "frilly, girly things" as I am not of that flavor, myself. After pondering this a moment, she finally agreed - seeing as how she hasn't seen me in either a dress or skirt for YEARS myself!!! Oh my - the bane of my existence. Good heavens....... But, I must admit, there are some pretty adorable things hanging in my closet now.....just in case. :0)
Hmmmmm
So, I have seven weeks left to go before bambino numero two comes along! HOLY COW! I'm at the point where I go to see my midwife every two weeks now. Last time I went, I had gained only a half of a pound between visits and was Oh so proud of myself! Well, this time - let me tell you - it was NOT THE CASE! Oh my word - I stepped on those blasted scales and I must have reweighed myself six times before finally confessing to my midwife that I have gained.....ahem....SEVEN POUNDS since my last visit! HOLY BLAST!!!
So, ladies.....here's the cause. Should you so desire to pack on the poundage as I have, here is what you do. Simply take one power packed protein shake every day - and for added oomph just add one banana and a scoop of peanut butter! Good times! I've had to bump my protein up to 80 - 100 grams a day, and let me tell you - that's hard to do. I'm trying to prevent what happened with Kaden - the whole preclampia and major rippage, and this was suggested to help. Anyhoo, we're going to do the protein for two more weeks and see what happens. If the same thing happens next visit - we are DONE with the protein. Good grief!!!
So, ladies.....here's the cause. Should you so desire to pack on the poundage as I have, here is what you do. Simply take one power packed protein shake every day - and for added oomph just add one banana and a scoop of peanut butter! Good times! I've had to bump my protein up to 80 - 100 grams a day, and let me tell you - that's hard to do. I'm trying to prevent what happened with Kaden - the whole preclampia and major rippage, and this was suggested to help. Anyhoo, we're going to do the protein for two more weeks and see what happens. If the same thing happens next visit - we are DONE with the protein. Good grief!!!
Safe Travels Dear Friends.....
Our sweet friends Steve and Jess along with Jess' parents left us this morning after spending four days in our glorious ghetto with us! If you are reading this post, it was SO nice having you here for a few days with us! I kept looking over and seeing Jess sitting on my couch, and I just couldn't believe that she was actually here - in Philly! How fun was that?!
We got to have some really good time with them - they came to church with us, we all spent a day at the aquarium together, and they took us out to dinner last night. Steve went to a class with Kev and they also played guitars together all one evening while Mom and I went to one of my classes. Kaden keeps asking, "Where our friends go?" "Why they go home?" "Why they not stay with us?" You've made a LARGE hit with our little guy!
Anyway, much love to the both of you. It was SO nice being able to see you for some extended time. See you all in August! Hopefully I'll be a little smaller the next time you see me! :0)
We got to have some really good time with them - they came to church with us, we all spent a day at the aquarium together, and they took us out to dinner last night. Steve went to a class with Kev and they also played guitars together all one evening while Mom and I went to one of my classes. Kaden keeps asking, "Where our friends go?" "Why they go home?" "Why they not stay with us?" You've made a LARGE hit with our little guy!
Anyway, much love to the both of you. It was SO nice being able to see you for some extended time. See you all in August! Hopefully I'll be a little smaller the next time you see me! :0)
Been Awhile...
Wow - I've been a slacker lately! Been busy - but who isn't?!
I tell ya, folks - when it rains, it pours! Tomorrow, not only is my mom coming from Maine to visit us, but so are some dear friends from our church and their parents! Good times! So, I've been frantically trying to get our apartment ready, their ghetto "guest" apartments ready, a little food cooked ahead, and all of my homework done so that I won't have to give it so much as a thought while they are here! I'm SOOOO excited! It'll be tons of fun. I'm taking mom to a sweet little tea room someday, we're ALL going to go to the big Philly zoo together, and we're just going to have lots of visiting, vegging, and relaxing to the max!
Tonight, as a final last hurrah before most of our couples from here graduate and leave - all of the husbands are going to go to a local beach for a fishing expedition and have a big old bonfire. They plan to get home around Midnight or 1:00 a.m. Not to be outdone, all of us wives figured that we should do some partying, too. So, we're all ordering in - too crazy with so many chitlins to go out somewhere, and then when all of our wee ones are snoozing away, we're going to all convene in one place - with about five monitors - and visit, eat junk, and watch movies! Fun!
Although, I'm really not having high hopes for how long we'll last. We've got two pregnant Moms feeling yucky in their first trimester, me feeling tired and large in my third trimester, and two new nursing moms who are still up in the night with their new babies! We should be a wild crew!
I tell ya, folks - when it rains, it pours! Tomorrow, not only is my mom coming from Maine to visit us, but so are some dear friends from our church and their parents! Good times! So, I've been frantically trying to get our apartment ready, their ghetto "guest" apartments ready, a little food cooked ahead, and all of my homework done so that I won't have to give it so much as a thought while they are here! I'm SOOOO excited! It'll be tons of fun. I'm taking mom to a sweet little tea room someday, we're ALL going to go to the big Philly zoo together, and we're just going to have lots of visiting, vegging, and relaxing to the max!
Tonight, as a final last hurrah before most of our couples from here graduate and leave - all of the husbands are going to go to a local beach for a fishing expedition and have a big old bonfire. They plan to get home around Midnight or 1:00 a.m. Not to be outdone, all of us wives figured that we should do some partying, too. So, we're all ordering in - too crazy with so many chitlins to go out somewhere, and then when all of our wee ones are snoozing away, we're going to all convene in one place - with about five monitors - and visit, eat junk, and watch movies! Fun!
Although, I'm really not having high hopes for how long we'll last. We've got two pregnant Moms feeling yucky in their first trimester, me feeling tired and large in my third trimester, and two new nursing moms who are still up in the night with their new babies! We should be a wild crew!
30 Weeks Today!
Well, I have nothing overly exciting to post today, except that I have only ten weeks left to go before we meet our new little addition to our family. How crazy is that? This pregnancy has absolutely flown! I really have no complaints to report as of yet, either. So far, I feel really good - healthy, happy, and strong. Although, these last few weeks are when I do tend to get, how you say, a wee bit more "cumbersome!" I can't say that I'm one of those women who really LOVES being pregnant, but for the most part, I really have enjoyed this pregnancy.
In typical Kevin and Amy fashion, we have yet to even really begin to discuss names yet. On our way to the hospital with Kaden we still had no name chosen for if it was a girl, and we only solidified a boy's name just two weeks before he was born! So, if you have any good ideas, send them our way. I don't know why I agonize and analyze over this so much - I just figure it's the name they'll carry forever, you know? But when you stop and think about it, I'm sure there will come a day when they'll hate it, anyway, no matter how much we fell in love with it!
Anyway, I'm off to conquer while my sweet boy sleeps. He has a cold this week-end and is a bit under the weather. As a result, he's more clingy and cuddly, but no complaints here as he has recently found it hilarious to refuse my hugs and wipe off all of my kisses! :0) I'll get 'em all in while he's sick!
In typical Kevin and Amy fashion, we have yet to even really begin to discuss names yet. On our way to the hospital with Kaden we still had no name chosen for if it was a girl, and we only solidified a boy's name just two weeks before he was born! So, if you have any good ideas, send them our way. I don't know why I agonize and analyze over this so much - I just figure it's the name they'll carry forever, you know? But when you stop and think about it, I'm sure there will come a day when they'll hate it, anyway, no matter how much we fell in love with it!
Anyway, I'm off to conquer while my sweet boy sleeps. He has a cold this week-end and is a bit under the weather. As a result, he's more clingy and cuddly, but no complaints here as he has recently found it hilarious to refuse my hugs and wipe off all of my kisses! :0) I'll get 'em all in while he's sick!
Makin' Coffee
Every morning Kev and Kaden make coffee while I try to get remotely coherent and start my day. Kev just bought this new coffee pot that's a little more high tech, and since they make the coffee every morning, I have never yet learned the concept. Anyway, I had a baby borders scrapbooking class last night for all of the young and pregnant moms in our complex, and I wanted to make a pot of decaf. Kev was running late for class, so he wasn't able to make it for me like I had planned. As he was running out the door he said: "Just ask Kaden. He makes it with me every morning - he'll show you how to make it." I thought to myself: Yeah, right. A two and a half year old will not know the steps of what buttons to push on this coffeemaker, no matter how many times he's made it with Kev. Well, let me tell you....I wanted the coffee, so I asked him if he could help me.
This is how it went down:
"Kaden, Could you show Mommy how to make some coffee for her friends?"
"Yup. Do you want regular or strong?
(WHAT? I even have that option?) "Uh, I guess regular."
"Regular? O.k."
(He pushes that appropriate buttons and then proudly says:)
"That's it - there ya go!" And he runs off to play with his legos.....
Oh my, oh my - the sins of the father shall come back to haunt us someday!
This is how it went down:
"Kaden, Could you show Mommy how to make some coffee for her friends?"
"Yup. Do you want regular or strong?
(WHAT? I even have that option?) "Uh, I guess regular."
"Regular? O.k."
(He pushes that appropriate buttons and then proudly says:)
"That's it - there ya go!" And he runs off to play with his legos.....
Oh my, oh my - the sins of the father shall come back to haunt us someday!
A Little More Detail....
Okay, I've been getting some questions concerning what exactly I am doing my research project on, and why I am asking these specific questions. As briefly as possible, I will try to give a small rundown. We have to come up with a "problem" that we see - either in our specific church, in churches in general, in society, in the workplace - wherever, and then after MUCH research and study, we have to come up with a proposed solution/program that we could implement which might HELP in solving or aiding this problem.
The particular problem that I have chosen is two-fold: First of all, I am stating that "a devastating problem in today's society is that with increasing numbers, the Christian community, and our nation as a whole is being threatened by escalating numbers of divorces, marriages that simply exist but that are certainly not thriving, and a diminishing readiness and preparation for marriage among engaged couples." The second part of my problem is this: "Within every church there are couples with good, solid marriages who could be of help to other couples who are young or struggling, but they have never been motivated, trained, or inspired to come alongside to help mentor and disciple these marriages in order to make them successful and meaningful."
Here is my statement of purpose: I am proposing to implement and establish a program which will serve as a "mentoring marriage ministry" for helping couples begin, build, and sustain better marriages, and to restore those threatened by divorce. The process will be simple: equip couples with solid marriages to mentor and disciple other couples at ALL stages of the marital cycle so that they, in turn, will one day have vibrant, thriving, marriages of their own.
My end goal as a result of establishing this "Mentoring Marriage Ministry" is to have an explosion of strong, stable couples and families who will grow the church, who will have a huge impact on their surrounding community, and who will reach out to other needy marriages and families in their areas - saved and unsaved alike.
NOW - there is definitly much more to this problem, program, statement of purpose, and end goal, but that is the basic idea. One question that I forgot to ask on my little survey was this: Do you feel there is a need for this kind of ministry in your church, and if so, would you attend such a ministry program - either as a mentor couple or as a couple who would like to be mentored?
I realize that there are differing views out there - and I LOVE THAT - that's great! This is the whole point of research. I want to hear them and the whys of your agreement or disagreement. This is all very very helpful in the accumulation of my research. So, PLEASE tell me what you think. Give honest analysis and insight. If you don't wish to publish on either my blog or your own, email me: kevame@verizon.net
The particular problem that I have chosen is two-fold: First of all, I am stating that "a devastating problem in today's society is that with increasing numbers, the Christian community, and our nation as a whole is being threatened by escalating numbers of divorces, marriages that simply exist but that are certainly not thriving, and a diminishing readiness and preparation for marriage among engaged couples." The second part of my problem is this: "Within every church there are couples with good, solid marriages who could be of help to other couples who are young or struggling, but they have never been motivated, trained, or inspired to come alongside to help mentor and disciple these marriages in order to make them successful and meaningful."
Here is my statement of purpose: I am proposing to implement and establish a program which will serve as a "mentoring marriage ministry" for helping couples begin, build, and sustain better marriages, and to restore those threatened by divorce. The process will be simple: equip couples with solid marriages to mentor and disciple other couples at ALL stages of the marital cycle so that they, in turn, will one day have vibrant, thriving, marriages of their own.
My end goal as a result of establishing this "Mentoring Marriage Ministry" is to have an explosion of strong, stable couples and families who will grow the church, who will have a huge impact on their surrounding community, and who will reach out to other needy marriages and families in their areas - saved and unsaved alike.
NOW - there is definitly much more to this problem, program, statement of purpose, and end goal, but that is the basic idea. One question that I forgot to ask on my little survey was this: Do you feel there is a need for this kind of ministry in your church, and if so, would you attend such a ministry program - either as a mentor couple or as a couple who would like to be mentored?
I realize that there are differing views out there - and I LOVE THAT - that's great! This is the whole point of research. I want to hear them and the whys of your agreement or disagreement. This is all very very helpful in the accumulation of my research. So, PLEASE tell me what you think. Give honest analysis and insight. If you don't wish to publish on either my blog or your own, email me: kevame@verizon.net
Wild Child
Man oh man - we've got a wild one in my womb this time, let me tell you! With Kaden, there were entire days where I felt minimal movement - to the point of being slightly concerned at times. With this one - day and night - my stomach ripples with movement....to the point of making me nauseous (I don't know how to spell this word. I just asked my grad student hubby Kev, and he said, "Ummmm, n-a-u-t-i-0-u-s????" I think I'm right, but we're both too lazy to consult a dictionary.) Anyhoo, back to my topic..... So, I think our #2 is going to be our wild child. Not too sure how I feel about this; I've been quite spoiled with my tender and timid, mild-mannered little boy. I'm SURE it's a girl who is probably going to drive me to drink!! Lord, have mercy!!!!
Research!
Okay friends, my research has begun in full force and I need your help! I am conducting a survey for newlyweds, "married with kids," and "empty nesters" for my research project, so whatever category you fit into - I would LOVE if you would respond to these questions!
How long have you been married?
How long did you and your spouse really know each other before you married?
Looking back, how prepared do you feel you were for marriage?
If you have kids, how long did you wait before starting your family?
How many children do you have and what are their ages?
What challenges have you faced at this stage in your marriage?
If you have kids, has your relationship changed since you've added them to your family?
If so, in what way(s)?
What resources or support systems do you have that benefit your marriage?
What advice do you have for young couples contemplating marriage and starting a family?
AND THE BIGGY......
What is/are the biggest need(s) that you have as a husband/wife at this stage in your marriage?
If you can only take the time to answer ONE question, please answer the last one!
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
How long have you been married?
How long did you and your spouse really know each other before you married?
Looking back, how prepared do you feel you were for marriage?
If you have kids, how long did you wait before starting your family?
How many children do you have and what are their ages?
What challenges have you faced at this stage in your marriage?
If you have kids, has your relationship changed since you've added them to your family?
If so, in what way(s)?
What resources or support systems do you have that benefit your marriage?
What advice do you have for young couples contemplating marriage and starting a family?
AND THE BIGGY......
What is/are the biggest need(s) that you have as a husband/wife at this stage in your marriage?
If you can only take the time to answer ONE question, please answer the last one!
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
Refreshed & Rejuvenated!
Well, the reason for my lack of blogging these past couple of days is that my sweet, sweet hubby whisked Kaden and I away for THREE nights to the Poconos for one final "last hurrah" before the arrival of baby #2! We had SUCH a great little family getaway, and it was a really special treat to just get away from life for awhile.
The weather was FAH-REEZING for the first couple of days - especially with us being up in the mountains, but we still had tons of fun swimming, eating :0), vegging, and checking out little shops. On the days that it was warm we explored the area, went on some fun hikes, ate at some yummy places, and just had a blast as a little family!
With having only one wee one who still takes naps and who still goes to bed fairly early, we were able to have a really great balance of family time AND couple time, so that was really nice. It was just wonderful to reconnect and have some great talks about US and about what this next year of life will bring with baby, Kev's internship, graduation, and future ministry.
For naps and bedtime, we rigged a blanket up over Kaden's pack and play and called it his "tent bed!" He thought this was the coolest thing ever, so he loved naps and bedtime - and we were still able to stay up later and watch T.V! Good times! Holy dyin' - that kid talks a lot in his bed! I never realized how much until we shared a room with him for those three nights. He sang to his puppy and told it stories for a good half hour before he settled down!
So anyway, here we are - back home with noses back to the ole grind, but IT'S ALL GOOD! A few days away does wonders for the soul!
The weather was FAH-REEZING for the first couple of days - especially with us being up in the mountains, but we still had tons of fun swimming, eating :0), vegging, and checking out little shops. On the days that it was warm we explored the area, went on some fun hikes, ate at some yummy places, and just had a blast as a little family!
With having only one wee one who still takes naps and who still goes to bed fairly early, we were able to have a really great balance of family time AND couple time, so that was really nice. It was just wonderful to reconnect and have some great talks about US and about what this next year of life will bring with baby, Kev's internship, graduation, and future ministry.
For naps and bedtime, we rigged a blanket up over Kaden's pack and play and called it his "tent bed!" He thought this was the coolest thing ever, so he loved naps and bedtime - and we were still able to stay up later and watch T.V! Good times! Holy dyin' - that kid talks a lot in his bed! I never realized how much until we shared a room with him for those three nights. He sang to his puppy and told it stories for a good half hour before he settled down!
So anyway, here we are - back home with noses back to the ole grind, but IT'S ALL GOOD! A few days away does wonders for the soul!
Tirty Point Buck!
In case you missed it, I shot a "tirty pointer" this year! To celebrate, I'm dedicating this song to that ole' deer. To hear it, go to this website:
I'll miss him.
Kev
Kev
Su-nny Days....
Do you know, dear Maine friends, that while you are getting your blizzard today (at least that's what Mom is calling it....but she could be exaggerating, I suppose) that we are having 50 degree t-shirt weather? Ca-razy! These are the days where I feel like a hypocritical Mainer. I'm loving the temperature here, right now. This is my kind of weather! However......give it a couple of months. The summers are rather dreadful.
ALL Boy!!!
My little man is really blossoming into....shall we say....a full fledged boy in every aspect of the word! This is actually the stage that I love the most and that I have been looking the most forward to. He constantly keeps us laughing, and although he is causing me MANY more messes these days, he brings such comic relief and happiness in the crazyness of life.
A few examples of what I mean that have happened just recently:
* Daddy had a Saturday class a couple of weeks ago, so Kaden and I went on a breakfast date all by ourselves. Well, during the course of our meal Kaden (how shall we say this?) let a very large "gaseous explosion!" He looked surprised and then quite pleased with himself and then LOUDLY broadcasted: "OH! I DID A TOOT MONSTER!!!" Fabulous.....
* Just a couple of days ago, I walk into the bathroom while Kaden is peeing, and instead of "tucking" himself in like he ALWAYS does, he decided to aim outward and looked quite impressed with himself that he could spray almost all the way to the door!
* This morning I went into the bathroom and found him parading around the room with his potty seat on his head like a hat. Delicious.....
* He knows how to spray water out of the gap between his teeth now, and during baths one of his favorite things is to see if he can spray a stream clear across the bathroom. His favorite thing to say now is, "Mommy, I'm making a MESS!"
* This morning, I COULD not get out of bed, so he marched into our room, climbed into bed, took my face in his hands, pried open my eyes, and rammed his fingers into them saying, "Mommy!!! I talking to you....I NEED to see your eyeballs!"
* And I won't even start with the different names that he likes to call his "creations" when he goes #2. I swear - I have no idea where he comes up with these names, but they get more and more wild with each experience.
Ahhhhh, the joys of boys! Gotta' love it!
A few examples of what I mean that have happened just recently:
* Daddy had a Saturday class a couple of weeks ago, so Kaden and I went on a breakfast date all by ourselves. Well, during the course of our meal Kaden (how shall we say this?) let a very large "gaseous explosion!" He looked surprised and then quite pleased with himself and then LOUDLY broadcasted: "OH! I DID A TOOT MONSTER!!!" Fabulous.....
* Just a couple of days ago, I walk into the bathroom while Kaden is peeing, and instead of "tucking" himself in like he ALWAYS does, he decided to aim outward and looked quite impressed with himself that he could spray almost all the way to the door!
* This morning I went into the bathroom and found him parading around the room with his potty seat on his head like a hat. Delicious.....
* He knows how to spray water out of the gap between his teeth now, and during baths one of his favorite things is to see if he can spray a stream clear across the bathroom. His favorite thing to say now is, "Mommy, I'm making a MESS!"
* This morning, I COULD not get out of bed, so he marched into our room, climbed into bed, took my face in his hands, pried open my eyes, and rammed his fingers into them saying, "Mommy!!! I talking to you....I NEED to see your eyeballs!"
* And I won't even start with the different names that he likes to call his "creations" when he goes #2. I swear - I have no idea where he comes up with these names, but they get more and more wild with each experience.
Ahhhhh, the joys of boys! Gotta' love it!
The Lord Gives....
So, what do you say to two dear friends who are newly and happily pregnant who have just informed you that they both have just miscarried? Meanwhile, you already have one happy, healthy son and baby #2 is only three months away? You can't say you understand - because you don't. And all of the other things that you want to say to let them know you love them and want to walk alongside them sound so trite and shallow...... Meanwhile, just the mere sight of ME reminds them of what they have just recently lost. Tough stuff. Not my favorite. Makes me sick.
I love you - my little bro and Marmie
Well, after this morning, for the first time in about twenty years, my childhood home will be "pet-less." Mom called this morning saying that our old dog, Sassie, has been having some pretty serious seizures for the past few days, and the vet said there was nothing that could be done. So, Mom made the tough call to put her down.
For those of you who are NOT animal lovers - you will not understand.....but for those of us who are....man - they really become like part of the family. I feel the saddest for Mom, because she's had to do the dirty work and make the tough calls with all of our pets. My cat lived - believe it or not - to be 20 years old! I had her since I was five, so I was long gone by the time she kicked the bucket. Sassy is Aaron's dog, and although very attached to her, he has also moved out and has a life of his own, as well.
Meanwhile, this leaves poor Mom who has to deal with all the animals when they become not so cute anymore and actually quite senile in their old age! This is the not-so-fun part of welcoming animals into the family. Having said that, however, both Kev and I are animal lovers, and we have a die-hard little animal lover in Kaden, as well. So, I know that we will go through our share of strays, adoptions, litters of babies, AND I'm sure many a crying fest, as well, at pets who will have become road kill, lost, or who will simply kick the bucket because of old age.
I sure experienced my share of animal joys and "tragedies" growing up, but those are also some of my greatest childhood memories, as well. So, I thank you, sweet Marmie, for always letting us have our little furry friends and for doing all of the dirty work when we left home! May I do the same for my children. I love you!
For those of you who are NOT animal lovers - you will not understand.....but for those of us who are....man - they really become like part of the family. I feel the saddest for Mom, because she's had to do the dirty work and make the tough calls with all of our pets. My cat lived - believe it or not - to be 20 years old! I had her since I was five, so I was long gone by the time she kicked the bucket. Sassy is Aaron's dog, and although very attached to her, he has also moved out and has a life of his own, as well.
Meanwhile, this leaves poor Mom who has to deal with all the animals when they become not so cute anymore and actually quite senile in their old age! This is the not-so-fun part of welcoming animals into the family. Having said that, however, both Kev and I are animal lovers, and we have a die-hard little animal lover in Kaden, as well. So, I know that we will go through our share of strays, adoptions, litters of babies, AND I'm sure many a crying fest, as well, at pets who will have become road kill, lost, or who will simply kick the bucket because of old age.
I sure experienced my share of animal joys and "tragedies" growing up, but those are also some of my greatest childhood memories, as well. So, I thank you, sweet Marmie, for always letting us have our little furry friends and for doing all of the dirty work when we left home! May I do the same for my children. I love you!
This One's For Esther.....
For some reason, I am having extreme difficulties posting on Esther's blog. I'll write a nice long comment, and then - I don't know why - it refuses to post for me. So, my dear friend, just know that I faithfully click over to your blog at least once a day, and even though you are receiving no posts from me - I greatly anticipate your new postings and love reading them. So, nicely done on your recent writings! Keep it up, my friend! Love you!
A Transient Time
It's interesting living where we do - at this stage of life that we are in. Part of me truly loves the adventure and uncertainty of the future (believe it or not!), and part of me gets kind of stressed by the whole process!
There are currently three couples here - good friends of ours - who are at this stage of the game. Watching them go through this whole process of figuring out "what's next" makes me thankful that we still have another whole year to go before we will need to make these kinds of decisions. (Kev is always thinking future, and he is always planning - which I'm thankful for - but, still, we can sit pretty for another 12 or so months before we really need to bite the bullet).
It's just interesting to me, because until we moved here, I honestly thought that we might settle down in our little home in Levant for a good many years, stay in that little house until we outgrew it, and then buy another one - a little bigger, but in roughly the same area. Now that I've experienced the difficult and emotional process of "uprooting," it's freeing to REALLY know and to actually EXPERIENCE the truths that: God WILL look out for me, He really will take care of me, He will provide for my needs and desires, that He really does do "exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that we could ever ask or imagine."
I am thankful for the times of having the safety net pulled out from underneath me. I'm thankful for the uncertainty of the future, and as I watch my friends work through this process, it is faith building to see how God takes care of each one of us in this journey of life!
Anyway, yet another really long ramble just to say: although my heart's desire is to go back to Maine and to raise my children near our families, I am willing to go wherever the Lord asks of us, and I am willing to do whatever He would have us to do. He's taken care of us once....He'll do it again.
There are currently three couples here - good friends of ours - who are at this stage of the game. Watching them go through this whole process of figuring out "what's next" makes me thankful that we still have another whole year to go before we will need to make these kinds of decisions. (Kev is always thinking future, and he is always planning - which I'm thankful for - but, still, we can sit pretty for another 12 or so months before we really need to bite the bullet).
It's just interesting to me, because until we moved here, I honestly thought that we might settle down in our little home in Levant for a good many years, stay in that little house until we outgrew it, and then buy another one - a little bigger, but in roughly the same area. Now that I've experienced the difficult and emotional process of "uprooting," it's freeing to REALLY know and to actually EXPERIENCE the truths that: God WILL look out for me, He really will take care of me, He will provide for my needs and desires, that He really does do "exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that we could ever ask or imagine."
I am thankful for the times of having the safety net pulled out from underneath me. I'm thankful for the uncertainty of the future, and as I watch my friends work through this process, it is faith building to see how God takes care of each one of us in this journey of life!
Anyway, yet another really long ramble just to say: although my heart's desire is to go back to Maine and to raise my children near our families, I am willing to go wherever the Lord asks of us, and I am willing to do whatever He would have us to do. He's taken care of us once....He'll do it again.
Yeesh!
So, I made a girl cry in my class last night. What a moron. (Me...not her).
My professor asked me to facilitate a group of people giving their devotionals since I gave mine last week. Class was cancelled early due to an ice storm, and only a couple of us were able to complete the assignment. My role was simple: time each person for twelve minutes, cut them off when they were done, and then facilitate discussion on what they did well and what they could improve on for next time.
It was an easy going, open format. We all were careful to give each other great encouragement, but we also offered one another one or two areas that we felt needed a little improvement, as well.
Well....this girl did a fine job, but she just read off her devotional verbatim from her notes with absolutely no emotion or passion in a very monotone voice. So, after telling her: "I thought you came across very confident, you definitly showed us that you knew what you were talking about, there was good evidence of background study, great use of cross-references etc. etc." I went on to suggest that maybe next time she could read a little less from her notes and show some conviction and passion in what we was teaching us. If she personalized it for herself, she might be better able to personalize it for the rest of us. I believe the words I used were: "Be more transparent and vulnerable with us."
Sooooo, anyway........finally, when the last person had finished giving their lesson, this girl said: "Can I just say something? I understand what you were saying about me being more open and transparent, but I did this intentionally. I chose to show no vulnerability because I'm tired of crying. My brother just passed away, and a person can only be vulnerable and transparent for so long before they have to choose to set their emotions aside for awhile."
Shoot me now........
My professor asked me to facilitate a group of people giving their devotionals since I gave mine last week. Class was cancelled early due to an ice storm, and only a couple of us were able to complete the assignment. My role was simple: time each person for twelve minutes, cut them off when they were done, and then facilitate discussion on what they did well and what they could improve on for next time.
It was an easy going, open format. We all were careful to give each other great encouragement, but we also offered one another one or two areas that we felt needed a little improvement, as well.
Well....this girl did a fine job, but she just read off her devotional verbatim from her notes with absolutely no emotion or passion in a very monotone voice. So, after telling her: "I thought you came across very confident, you definitly showed us that you knew what you were talking about, there was good evidence of background study, great use of cross-references etc. etc." I went on to suggest that maybe next time she could read a little less from her notes and show some conviction and passion in what we was teaching us. If she personalized it for herself, she might be better able to personalize it for the rest of us. I believe the words I used were: "Be more transparent and vulnerable with us."
Sooooo, anyway........finally, when the last person had finished giving their lesson, this girl said: "Can I just say something? I understand what you were saying about me being more open and transparent, but I did this intentionally. I chose to show no vulnerability because I'm tired of crying. My brother just passed away, and a person can only be vulnerable and transparent for so long before they have to choose to set their emotions aside for awhile."
Shoot me now........
It Has Begun!
Kev decided to skip class this morning and just be home with us for a bit as life has been crazy lately. When he heard Kaden talking in his bed, he offered to let me sleep in for as long as I wanted. What a nice gift, right? To be able to sleep in for AS LONG AS I WANTED? Well, could Amy's little mind relax enough to slip back into La La Land?
Oh no - all I could think about was what needs to get done before baby #2 comes. It's like I realized all of a sudden that I only have a little over three months to get this HUGE list of things done that I want to accomplish.
So, instead of laying there and stressing, I got up and have begun my little list of goals that I have to accomplish within these next 3 1/2 months. Here goes:
* I would really like to get Kaden's album caught up. I am 10 months behind. Our family album will just have to wait. That is non-existent at this point.
* I would like to start my baby album, and be caught up with doctor's visits, pregnant pictures, and my church shower, so that I can be ready to just start putting pics in as soon as the baby is born.
* I need to finish my book one month ahead of schedule as the presentation date is June 6th and I am due June 10th. It at least needs to be ready to go by mid-May in case the baby comes early. I'd like to hop into another class and just present it to them so that it can be done!
* I need to either take or CLEP out of 6 more Gen Ed credits. That really needs to be done the month of March. PBU really wants me to take a counseling course in July, but that may be too much with a newborn - even if it would only be for 5 nights. Sooo, if I could just get it done now, it would be done.
* I would like to take some Bradley Birthing classes, as we are going the Birthing Center route this time, but that is 12 weeks of needing a babysitter and a 12 week commitment of being out an extra night. Is it worth it? I don't know yet.
* And then just the regular stuff of getting extra organized, culling what isn't needed, figuring what I need for baby things, and figuring out where exactly we're going to put this newcomer once he or she arrives!
So, there you have it. Today, I'm going to research courses that I can possibly CLEP out of at the local community college, and I'm going to try to do at least a few pages in Kaden's album each week and just putter away. After that, I'm going to buy another Power Sorts Box and just really organize and label all of my pics for when I am able to get to them.
I'm off.....Did you call it "Build Rome in a Day," Shannon? That's me, today.....at least in my mind!
Oh no - all I could think about was what needs to get done before baby #2 comes. It's like I realized all of a sudden that I only have a little over three months to get this HUGE list of things done that I want to accomplish.
So, instead of laying there and stressing, I got up and have begun my little list of goals that I have to accomplish within these next 3 1/2 months. Here goes:
* I would really like to get Kaden's album caught up. I am 10 months behind. Our family album will just have to wait. That is non-existent at this point.
* I would like to start my baby album, and be caught up with doctor's visits, pregnant pictures, and my church shower, so that I can be ready to just start putting pics in as soon as the baby is born.
* I need to finish my book one month ahead of schedule as the presentation date is June 6th and I am due June 10th. It at least needs to be ready to go by mid-May in case the baby comes early. I'd like to hop into another class and just present it to them so that it can be done!
* I need to either take or CLEP out of 6 more Gen Ed credits. That really needs to be done the month of March. PBU really wants me to take a counseling course in July, but that may be too much with a newborn - even if it would only be for 5 nights. Sooo, if I could just get it done now, it would be done.
* I would like to take some Bradley Birthing classes, as we are going the Birthing Center route this time, but that is 12 weeks of needing a babysitter and a 12 week commitment of being out an extra night. Is it worth it? I don't know yet.
* And then just the regular stuff of getting extra organized, culling what isn't needed, figuring what I need for baby things, and figuring out where exactly we're going to put this newcomer once he or she arrives!
So, there you have it. Today, I'm going to research courses that I can possibly CLEP out of at the local community college, and I'm going to try to do at least a few pages in Kaden's album each week and just putter away. After that, I'm going to buy another Power Sorts Box and just really organize and label all of my pics for when I am able to get to them.
I'm off.....Did you call it "Build Rome in a Day," Shannon? That's me, today.....at least in my mind!
Shannon - This One's For You!
I have been tagged for the list game, so here goes......Shannon C., Angie, and Esther - you're it next!
Aprons - Y/N? No - although I should - especially with my ever expanding girth. My belly seems to be a catch-all these days.
Baking - Hmmm. I go through phases where I love it and then phases where it's a hassle. This week I love it, and I have hot scones waiting for hubby when he gets home from class tonight.
Clothesline - Y/N? A community one that we all share in our communal backyard.
Donuts - Ever made them? Never made them. Have eaten my share. The only ones I have ever craved are Krispy Kreme hot off the press. De-lish!
One homemaking thing you do everyday? Man, I love homemaking. I do dishes, tidy up, organize, and clean some aspect of my bathroom every day. I love cleaning and organizing.
Freezer - Do you have a separate deep freezer? No, I wish I did. Since Kev shot his deer, that's practically all that's in our freezer....it can hardly even hold an extra icecube tray!
Garbage Disposal - Y/N? No, I agree with you, Shannon - I think they are kind of scary.
Handbook - Y/N? I'm not sure I even know what that is? My Bible?! - My handbook for life!
Ironing - Love it or hate it? Oh man - despise it within the very depths of my soul. Poor Kevy - he irons most of his stuff. I'm actually quite horrible at it, as well....probably because I never do it.
Junk Drawer - Nope - but I have lots of cute "catch-all" wooden boxes that hold various things.
Kitchen - Design and decorating? - ummm, well we live in a rented apartment. But, when we moved in, we painted, laid tile, and I cutsied it up as much as I could.
Love - What is your favorite part of homemaking? Just being home. Making it "me." Decorating with fun things - bringing the outdoors in - lots of wooden things, berries, etc. Making it cozy for my boys. Cooking yummy food so the place smells good. I also LOVE throwing things away....actually a bit anal in this area, I must admit.
Mop - Y/N? Nope - I'm a hands and knees kinda' girl.
Nylons - Oh my - I swore those things off after three years at N.B.B.I. To this day, it's beyond me why I wore them on my wedding day. Beyond that moment, they have touched my legs on only one other occasion. They are the bane of my existence.
Oven - Do you use the window or open it to check? I open 'er wide and let all the hot air out!
Pizza - What do you put on yours? Whatever we have! Yummy cheese, turkey pepperoni if we have it, and lots of veggies.
Quiet - What do you do during the day when you get a quiet moment? These days - lots of homework. Although today I scrapbooked during Kaden's entire nap and did 13 pages! Whoo-hoo!
Recipe card box - Y/N? Nope. Binder. Much better. (Good answer, Shannon!)
Style of house - A ghetto apartment in a ghetto town....glorified dorm life with marrieds.
Tablecloths and napkins - Y/N? Tablecloth, no. Napkins, yes.
Under the kitchen sink - All my cleaning products
Vacuum - How many times a week? My place is small - but I usually do it twice. I probably sweep my kitchen and bathroom floors every other day.
Wash - How many loads do you do a week? Because I hate clutter - the three of us share one hamper. It's the equivalent of one load, and when it's full, I do a wash. Depending on how often we go to the gym - the average is probably three. (Shannon - I can't believe you do 16!!!!!! - OH MY WORD!)
X's - Do you keep a list of things to do and cross them off? I am most assuredly a list lover.
Yard - Who does what? Our landlord does it all, baby! Oh for the day when we will have to do everything again, though!
ZZZ's - What is your last homemaking task for the day? Pick up all of the rooms. Make sure that everything is in its place before I start the day all over again tomorrow
Aprons - Y/N? No - although I should - especially with my ever expanding girth. My belly seems to be a catch-all these days.
Baking - Hmmm. I go through phases where I love it and then phases where it's a hassle. This week I love it, and I have hot scones waiting for hubby when he gets home from class tonight.
Clothesline - Y/N? A community one that we all share in our communal backyard.
Donuts - Ever made them? Never made them. Have eaten my share. The only ones I have ever craved are Krispy Kreme hot off the press. De-lish!
One homemaking thing you do everyday? Man, I love homemaking. I do dishes, tidy up, organize, and clean some aspect of my bathroom every day. I love cleaning and organizing.
Freezer - Do you have a separate deep freezer? No, I wish I did. Since Kev shot his deer, that's practically all that's in our freezer....it can hardly even hold an extra icecube tray!
Garbage Disposal - Y/N? No, I agree with you, Shannon - I think they are kind of scary.
Handbook - Y/N? I'm not sure I even know what that is? My Bible?! - My handbook for life!
Ironing - Love it or hate it? Oh man - despise it within the very depths of my soul. Poor Kevy - he irons most of his stuff. I'm actually quite horrible at it, as well....probably because I never do it.
Junk Drawer - Nope - but I have lots of cute "catch-all" wooden boxes that hold various things.
Kitchen - Design and decorating? - ummm, well we live in a rented apartment. But, when we moved in, we painted, laid tile, and I cutsied it up as much as I could.
Love - What is your favorite part of homemaking? Just being home. Making it "me." Decorating with fun things - bringing the outdoors in - lots of wooden things, berries, etc. Making it cozy for my boys. Cooking yummy food so the place smells good. I also LOVE throwing things away....actually a bit anal in this area, I must admit.
Mop - Y/N? Nope - I'm a hands and knees kinda' girl.
Nylons - Oh my - I swore those things off after three years at N.B.B.I. To this day, it's beyond me why I wore them on my wedding day. Beyond that moment, they have touched my legs on only one other occasion. They are the bane of my existence.
Oven - Do you use the window or open it to check? I open 'er wide and let all the hot air out!
Pizza - What do you put on yours? Whatever we have! Yummy cheese, turkey pepperoni if we have it, and lots of veggies.
Quiet - What do you do during the day when you get a quiet moment? These days - lots of homework. Although today I scrapbooked during Kaden's entire nap and did 13 pages! Whoo-hoo!
Recipe card box - Y/N? Nope. Binder. Much better. (Good answer, Shannon!)
Style of house - A ghetto apartment in a ghetto town....glorified dorm life with marrieds.
Tablecloths and napkins - Y/N? Tablecloth, no. Napkins, yes.
Under the kitchen sink - All my cleaning products
Vacuum - How many times a week? My place is small - but I usually do it twice. I probably sweep my kitchen and bathroom floors every other day.
Wash - How many loads do you do a week? Because I hate clutter - the three of us share one hamper. It's the equivalent of one load, and when it's full, I do a wash. Depending on how often we go to the gym - the average is probably three. (Shannon - I can't believe you do 16!!!!!! - OH MY WORD!)
X's - Do you keep a list of things to do and cross them off? I am most assuredly a list lover.
Yard - Who does what? Our landlord does it all, baby! Oh for the day when we will have to do everything again, though!
ZZZ's - What is your last homemaking task for the day? Pick up all of the rooms. Make sure that everything is in its place before I start the day all over again tomorrow
Seeing Double
So, I had my first day of babysitting the twins yesterday. Did I mention that the neighborhood that I am now working in is super ritzy, and the twins literally live in (what I would call, anyway) a mansion? Yep - living the high life! It's a beautiful neighborhood and a gorgeous home, but I was telling Kev over supper that even if we ever make enough money for a huge home - I don't want one. Don't get me wrong - I LOVE space and I HATE clutter, but I don't want our place to be so huge that we never run into each other in the run of a day! If I could have enough bedrooms for everyone plus a spare room for company, and if I could have a "catch all" room that could double as an office for Kev and a scrapbooking room for me - than I would be perfectly content. I like to feel cozy. I felt drafty and tiny in that huge house!
Anyway, although the day was long, I really have no complaints. The twins are quite mellow (is that how you spell that word?) and Kaden had a great time over there and napped three hours for me! The little girl naps for a long time but the boy is a 45 "minute-er". So, I'll at least have a 45 minute break during the day. She pays me $12 an hour - so it's really pretty easy money. At the very least, it gives me confidence that I can handle two kids of my own! :0)
My devotional is DONE! I now just need to videotape it in front of some peers and then present it in my class. After I whip off a 15 page final paper, yet another class will have bit the dust! Let the good times roll!
Anyway, although the day was long, I really have no complaints. The twins are quite mellow (is that how you spell that word?) and Kaden had a great time over there and napped three hours for me! The little girl naps for a long time but the boy is a 45 "minute-er". So, I'll at least have a 45 minute break during the day. She pays me $12 an hour - so it's really pretty easy money. At the very least, it gives me confidence that I can handle two kids of my own! :0)
My devotional is DONE! I now just need to videotape it in front of some peers and then present it in my class. After I whip off a 15 page final paper, yet another class will have bit the dust! Let the good times roll!
Been Awhile...
Nothing overly exciting to post...just that I'm not dead.
My "devotional/sermon" is due to be videotaped this week and I'm feeling a little pressure. Not too bad - I've done all of the inductive study etc., now I just need to put it together, make it catchy and contemporary, and invite some friends over to pick it apart....I mean "critique" it for me. :0) Then, next Tuesday, I have to present it to my entire class.....of which there are at least 6 pastors, who do this for a living, might I add. Joy.
So, here is the decided upon topic. I'm going to teach from Titus 2:1-5. My audience will be women my age - at my stage of life, specifically - young wives and moms (or soon to be moms!) And, I'm going to come at it from a feminist/women's lib approach - a TRUE women's liberation approach, and a TRUE feminist approach the way that God originally designed our roles to be. From these verses, I'm going to teach a little bit about discipleship (how the older are to teach the younger) and what exactly we are supposed to be examples in: being lovers of our husbands, lovers of our children, and lovers of our homes. We're supposed to have catchy outlines....I'm not a catchy person, so this has been stressing me a little.
So far, here are my points: On Becoming.......(1) Lovers of Husbands - living purposefully in our submission; (2) Lovers of our Heirs (I needed an "h" that represented our kids!) - living purposefully in our selflessness; and (3) Lovers of our Homes - living purposefully in our servanthood. Or maybe instead of the three "s" words, I could do: godliness, guidance, and grace. Good grief - I don't know. Catchy phrases kind of irritate me! Anyway, those ARE the three things that I am going to be talking about.....all areas that I am constantly needing to grow and become more godly and gracious in!
Anyway, that's what's been consuming my life this week. AND the fact that one of my 14 friends who are pregnant just had her baby yesterday!!!!! So much fun!....AND the fact that I am possibly going to start babysitting two 15 month old twins. Let me tell you how thrilled I am about that possibility........
My "devotional/sermon" is due to be videotaped this week and I'm feeling a little pressure. Not too bad - I've done all of the inductive study etc., now I just need to put it together, make it catchy and contemporary, and invite some friends over to pick it apart....I mean "critique" it for me. :0) Then, next Tuesday, I have to present it to my entire class.....of which there are at least 6 pastors, who do this for a living, might I add. Joy.
So, here is the decided upon topic. I'm going to teach from Titus 2:1-5. My audience will be women my age - at my stage of life, specifically - young wives and moms (or soon to be moms!) And, I'm going to come at it from a feminist/women's lib approach - a TRUE women's liberation approach, and a TRUE feminist approach the way that God originally designed our roles to be. From these verses, I'm going to teach a little bit about discipleship (how the older are to teach the younger) and what exactly we are supposed to be examples in: being lovers of our husbands, lovers of our children, and lovers of our homes. We're supposed to have catchy outlines....I'm not a catchy person, so this has been stressing me a little.
So far, here are my points: On Becoming.......(1) Lovers of Husbands - living purposefully in our submission; (2) Lovers of our Heirs (I needed an "h" that represented our kids!) - living purposefully in our selflessness; and (3) Lovers of our Homes - living purposefully in our servanthood. Or maybe instead of the three "s" words, I could do: godliness, guidance, and grace. Good grief - I don't know. Catchy phrases kind of irritate me! Anyway, those ARE the three things that I am going to be talking about.....all areas that I am constantly needing to grow and become more godly and gracious in!
Anyway, that's what's been consuming my life this week. AND the fact that one of my 14 friends who are pregnant just had her baby yesterday!!!!! So much fun!....AND the fact that I am possibly going to start babysitting two 15 month old twins. Let me tell you how thrilled I am about that possibility........
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