Back in Maine

Whew! We have FINALLY arrived back home in the County! This trip was the longest that we have EVER driven. Instead of staying in Bangor first like we always do, we drove all the way up to Houlton - adding an extra two and half hours onto our drive. We were in the car at 4:45 a.m. and did not arrive to my parent's house in Hodgdon until 8:00 p.m! Our boys were troopers, but man, I do not want to do that trip again for awhile! We hit traffic in several places that we have never done before, we drove through a snow storm for about an hour in Massachusetts and counted 19 cars off the road, and there were several occasions where traffic was only travelling about 40 miles an hour so we just crawled along FOR MILES!

We've got this trip down to a science now, though. We knock off about four hours first thing while the boys are still loopy. I don't think that either Kaden or Jesse fell back asleep, but they were completely silent for the first leg! We always get through Jersey and Hartford, Conn. traffic before rush hour, and then we stop at a Cracker Barrel for a big breakfast. We stay there for about an hour and let Kaden pick out one toy from their store. This toy entertains Kaden for the next leg of the journey until lunch, and Jesse naps for at least a little bit of it. We stop again for about an hour for lunch, and then the boys take their afternoon naps during the next leg.

It's long about late afternoon/early evening when we all start to get a little cagey! Finally, at 6:00 we whipped out Kev's laptop and played a little movie for Kaden. Jesse fell asleep again because it was dark, and the last leg of our journey went relatively smoothly. I get so excited once we hit the Maine border, but we're still a good five hours away from home! Miles and miles of trees........I love them.....I've been craving them....and the silence of the country. But five hours of it with cagey boys....whew! It was LONG! :0)

BUT!!! We are home and we are with the craziness of family and friends and it is WONDERFUL! We've been eating and visiting and eating and digging snow tunnels and eating and watching Christmas movies, and playing games, and eating, and having bonfires, and unwrapping presents, and eating and listening to Christmas music and IT IS GLORIOUS!!

Merry Merry Christmas!

Sweet Success......Finally!

At least that's what I call it.

Kev calls it further humiliation. He went out yesterday to take down his deerstand before we head up north. He planned to hunt a little bit more - a final last hurrah before we leave. He wasn't gone more than a couple of hours before he called me and told me that he shot a dog! I was like: "Oh no! How could you?" He said: "No. it's a deer. It's just the size of a dog!" He brought it home to show us in the trunk of the car! Hey - I'm still pleased as punch. It's meat in our freezer and tender at that. He really doesn't want to talk about it, but it's all good!

P.S. - We head for Maine tomorrow morning, so my posts may be sorely lacking for about three weeks. Feel free to pray for our 10 -12 hour drive with a six month old who absolutely despises his carseat! Joy!

Feeling Sick....

Yesterday, I woke up with the manliest of voices and today is no better. Jesse has the sniffles, Kevin felt yucky while my brothers were here, and Kaden still can't shake his cough. I am praying that we can kick whatever is going around before we head home. I hate feeling yucky - especially during the holidays.

We were short a couple of people on the worship team yesterday at church, so Kev still wanted me to try singing. Let me assure you, did I ever sound lovely! Most songs I just sang an entire octive lower and sang with the rest of the men!

The kids at church had a teeny little program yesterday where they sang a few songs with us and dressed up like a live nativity. Kaden was Joseph; and Jesse, being the only infant in the church, was a tank of a baby Jesus! It was absolutely hysterical. Kaden sucked his thumb the whole time and looked petrified while the rest of the kids belted their lungs out. And Jesse growled like a little demon, flailed his arms like a madman, and tried to attack the stuffed sheep that was sitting beside him the entire time! Quite the holy family to be sure! It was good entertainment to say the least!

Kaden's Quotes

I forgot to add a couple of cute things that Kaden said to me yesterday. I can probably count on one hand how many times Kaden has seen me in a dress. Pathetic, I know, but I am just NOT a girly girl. I try, but I just feel like a numb nut in them. Anyway, I actually wore a dress under my graduation gown yesterday. Kaden was completely blown away by this and kept saying over and over again: "Ooooh Mommy! You look SO pretty!" It was really quite precious. He was also quite taken with my "square hat." So, the rest of the day, he kept asking me if I was going to graduate again someday and wear a pretty dress again. I said, "Well, Daddy will probably graduate next." Kaden's response to this was: "Ohhh. So then HE'LL wear a square hat and a pretty dress!" Wouldn't that be fun! :0)

Surprise surprise!

I graduated yesterday. Besides having the dean need to remind me to flip my tassle to the other side of my cap all went smoothly. And both boys handled the one and half hour ceremony quite well, also. Kaden even said: "I wasn't even bored, Mommy!"

It's kind of fun looking back. I never planned to go back to school when we moved out here. I've always had the desire but figured that would be shelved for this season of motherhood. I literally stumbled upon the knowledge of this program through a conversation while meeting some new friends out here. The very next day I went over to the school to check it out, was told there was a class taking place "this instant," sat in on it, and promptly signed up the very next day! And now, two years later, I'm marching down the aisle in a cap and gown. God is good. Maybe there's a Master's out there for me some day, as well. Who knows?

The kicker of this whole celebration though, was the fact that my two brothers drove down from Maine to surprise me!!!! It was so fun and so special to have them here! They arrived on Friday, and we were all so excited to have them here, that we took a road trip for the day and I completely forgot about my grad rehearsal and picking up my cap and gown! I just blindly followed the guy in front of me the next day and no one knew that I had not a clue!

They left here in the rain today but will be driving home in blizzard conditions, I hear. The things they will do for their sis! That's love!

Happy Six Months - Jesse Bear!

Jesse had his six month well child visit today. We are pleased and proud to announce that he is back ON the charts both height and weight wise. Granted, he is still the size of a typical one year old, but he is at least porportionate! He weighs in at 20 pounds 12 ounces, and his length is 28 inches! Our little man was so big and brave when he had his shots. He literally cried for like two seconds and then was smiling again! To celebrate, we all went to Cracker Barrel for lunch. (You know us - we'll find any way we can to justify eating out!) Jesse got his very first taste of applesauce - which he promptly gagged on and was most unimpressed. After four or five spoonfuls with the same results, I finally concluded that he really does not like the taste of it and proceeded to eat his celebratory applesauce myself. All in all, it has been a very grand morning!

A Christmas Prayer

This short little prayer was written on one of our Christmas cards. I love it.

Lord.....
let us celebrate Christmas with less hurry,
more wonder;
less worry,
more peace;
less flurry,
more joy.

May this be said of our little family......

Family Christmas

We celebrated Christmas with our little family this past Saturday. We like to have our own little family tradition besides doing things with the extended family, so it was REALLY fun! Kaden's age is so great to really be able to fully enjoy everything.

On our Christmas Eve, we got a special Boz (a silly Christian bear character through MOPS that Kaden LOVES) Christmas DVD with a little Boz stuffed animal that we gave Kaden for his Christmas Eve gift. We brought the air mattress in and camped out in the living room with snacks and our p.j.'s. Then, Jesse woke us all up at 4:30 the next morning, so we all just laid in bed until 6:00 until we decided to just get our day started. We were all fried, but we really had no agenda for the day, so it was fine.

Jesse took his first nap of the day at 7:00 a.m. while Kev and Kaden made pancakes and coffee. Then, we read the Christmas story out of Kaden's Bible. We prayed together and then opened the gifts in our stockings. By then, Jesse had woken back up, so he was able to join in the festivities! Kaden had wrapped a special little toy for him that makes all kinds of noises when you pull on it. Jesse thinks that's pretty cool and attacks it with a vengeance! After we unwrapped our gifts, we all went to Cracker Barrel for lunch and then came home for naps! It was so much fun, and Kaden had such a great time!

His favorite gifts were a little kid's accordian and a backpack that contains his very own tent, sleeping bag, water bottle, whistle, and flashlight. It's set up in our living room, and periodically all throughout the day he disappears for quite some time. We'll peak in, and he's all nestled in his sleeping bag looking up at the "stars" through his roof! It's so cute!

Yep. A great family day. Loved it! I feel like we really took our time and savored it. Kaden did a great job in remembering to say thank you after each gift, and I don't feel like we spoiled him with a ton of presents. He was really thankful with the few we bought him. And, he was also really excited to give us the gifts that were from "him," as well. Having kids really brings back the kid in us! Kev and I were just as excited (maybe more so) than Kaden to celebrate!

And now.......one week until we go HOME to be with our family and friends!!!!!

Sigh

It begins. Actually, it's been going on for quite some time. I knew it would. It should. And I truly am okay with it. He just doesn't need to rub it in!

What am I talking about, you ask? Well, let me enlighten you. The other evening, Kev headed to his night class while Kaden waved to him from the window. As he was driving away Kaden said sadly: "Oh, Mommy! I don't want him to to go." I said, "I know, Honey. But, he's just going to school. He'll come snuggle you when he gets home." To which Kaden replied, "Mommy, he's my favorite."

Now, this didn't phase me in the least, because he gets that expression from me. If I love something, I always say "it's my favorite." So, I responded with: "Me too, Sweety." Well, not to be misunderstood Kaden made sure to clafity.

"No. Mommy. I like Daddy gooder than you."
"Oh. Okay. But, do you still love Mommy too?"
"Oh yes. I just like Daddy gooder than you."

Okay. I can accept that. I know he still loves me. I also know that this is the age where little boys start to really bond with their Daddys, and I am totally okay with that. It's good and healthy.

You know.......I only gave birth to you, had major surgery, and almost lost my uterus because of you. But hey - no hard feelings. Really........ :0)

Just kidding.....kinda'.

For Those with Toddlers.....

I got this at MOPS awhile back, but I've had it on my fridge for some time and think it's so cute! Well, maybe "cute" isn't the right word, but it's oh so true!

TODDLER PROPERTY LAWS:

If I like it, it's mine
If it's in my hand, it's mine
If I can take it from you, it's mine
If I had it a little while ago, it's mine
If it's mine, it must never appear to be yours in any way
If I'm doing or building something, all of the pieces are mine
If I saw it first, it's mine
If it looks just like mine, it's mine
If you're playing with something and you put it down, it automatically becomes mine
If it's broken, it's YOURS!

Can any of you who've had toddlers attest to this?!

First Snow and All Things Christmasy

It snowed out here for the first time today. When we opened the curtains and blinds this morning, it was so exciting to see a fresh layer of powder on the ground. We've had our tree up since Thanksgiving weekend because we leave for Maine so soon before Christmas, and I spent all afternoon wrapping presents yesterday, so we are truly in full blown festive spirits. Kaden even wrapped a present for Daddy and Jesse yesterday - all by himself! He used about half a roll of tape, but it's all good! We're trying to instill the whole idea of giving being better than getting, so I wanted him to take full ownership in his gift giving this year. It really was fun wrapping together and listening to Christmas music while trying to keep Jesse from slobbering on everything!

Anyway, we've been talking so much about going outside to play in the snow whenever it decides to show up, so he was completely pumped this morning. The only problem is that he has a terrible cold right now. We even stayed home from church this morning because he was up most of the night coughing. He was so bummed about having to stay inside that I decided to just bring the snow inside to him. I went out and gathered bowl after bowl with snow and filled up our kitchen sink right to the brim with the stuff! Then, I put mittens on his hands, stood him up on one of our chairs, and let him have it! It made for a really nice morning. We made mini snowmen, he made "rotten rock soup that's de-lish," (???), and there's only a minor wet mess to clean up, so it was quite a success!