Whew! We have FINALLY arrived back home in the County! This trip was the longest that we have EVER driven. Instead of staying in Bangor first like we always do, we drove all the way up to Houlton - adding an extra two and half hours onto our drive. We were in the car at 4:45 a.m. and did not arrive to my parent's house in Hodgdon until 8:00 p.m! Our boys were troopers, but man, I do not want to do that trip again for awhile! We hit traffic in several places that we have never done before, we drove through a snow storm for about an hour in Massachusetts and counted 19 cars off the road, and there were several occasions where traffic was only travelling about 40 miles an hour so we just crawled along FOR MILES!
We've got this trip down to a science now, though. We knock off about four hours first thing while the boys are still loopy. I don't think that either Kaden or Jesse fell back asleep, but they were completely silent for the first leg! We always get through Jersey and Hartford, Conn. traffic before rush hour, and then we stop at a Cracker Barrel for a big breakfast. We stay there for about an hour and let Kaden pick out one toy from their store. This toy entertains Kaden for the next leg of the journey until lunch, and Jesse naps for at least a little bit of it. We stop again for about an hour for lunch, and then the boys take their afternoon naps during the next leg.
It's long about late afternoon/early evening when we all start to get a little cagey! Finally, at 6:00 we whipped out Kev's laptop and played a little movie for Kaden. Jesse fell asleep again because it was dark, and the last leg of our journey went relatively smoothly. I get so excited once we hit the Maine border, but we're still a good five hours away from home! Miles and miles of trees........I love them.....I've been craving them....and the silence of the country. But five hours of it with cagey boys....whew! It was LONG! :0)
BUT!!! We are home and we are with the craziness of family and friends and it is WONDERFUL! We've been eating and visiting and eating and digging snow tunnels and eating and watching Christmas movies, and playing games, and eating, and having bonfires, and unwrapping presents, and eating and listening to Christmas music and IT IS GLORIOUS!!
Merry Merry Christmas!
Sweet Success......Finally!
At least that's what I call it.
Kev calls it further humiliation. He went out yesterday to take down his deerstand before we head up north. He planned to hunt a little bit more - a final last hurrah before we leave. He wasn't gone more than a couple of hours before he called me and told me that he shot a dog! I was like: "Oh no! How could you?" He said: "No. it's a deer. It's just the size of a dog!" He brought it home to show us in the trunk of the car! Hey - I'm still pleased as punch. It's meat in our freezer and tender at that. He really doesn't want to talk about it, but it's all good!
P.S. - We head for Maine tomorrow morning, so my posts may be sorely lacking for about three weeks. Feel free to pray for our 10 -12 hour drive with a six month old who absolutely despises his carseat! Joy!
Kev calls it further humiliation. He went out yesterday to take down his deerstand before we head up north. He planned to hunt a little bit more - a final last hurrah before we leave. He wasn't gone more than a couple of hours before he called me and told me that he shot a dog! I was like: "Oh no! How could you?" He said: "No. it's a deer. It's just the size of a dog!" He brought it home to show us in the trunk of the car! Hey - I'm still pleased as punch. It's meat in our freezer and tender at that. He really doesn't want to talk about it, but it's all good!
P.S. - We head for Maine tomorrow morning, so my posts may be sorely lacking for about three weeks. Feel free to pray for our 10 -12 hour drive with a six month old who absolutely despises his carseat! Joy!
Feeling Sick....
Yesterday, I woke up with the manliest of voices and today is no better. Jesse has the sniffles, Kevin felt yucky while my brothers were here, and Kaden still can't shake his cough. I am praying that we can kick whatever is going around before we head home. I hate feeling yucky - especially during the holidays.
We were short a couple of people on the worship team yesterday at church, so Kev still wanted me to try singing. Let me assure you, did I ever sound lovely! Most songs I just sang an entire octive lower and sang with the rest of the men!
The kids at church had a teeny little program yesterday where they sang a few songs with us and dressed up like a live nativity. Kaden was Joseph; and Jesse, being the only infant in the church, was a tank of a baby Jesus! It was absolutely hysterical. Kaden sucked his thumb the whole time and looked petrified while the rest of the kids belted their lungs out. And Jesse growled like a little demon, flailed his arms like a madman, and tried to attack the stuffed sheep that was sitting beside him the entire time! Quite the holy family to be sure! It was good entertainment to say the least!
We were short a couple of people on the worship team yesterday at church, so Kev still wanted me to try singing. Let me assure you, did I ever sound lovely! Most songs I just sang an entire octive lower and sang with the rest of the men!
The kids at church had a teeny little program yesterday where they sang a few songs with us and dressed up like a live nativity. Kaden was Joseph; and Jesse, being the only infant in the church, was a tank of a baby Jesus! It was absolutely hysterical. Kaden sucked his thumb the whole time and looked petrified while the rest of the kids belted their lungs out. And Jesse growled like a little demon, flailed his arms like a madman, and tried to attack the stuffed sheep that was sitting beside him the entire time! Quite the holy family to be sure! It was good entertainment to say the least!
Kaden's Quotes
I forgot to add a couple of cute things that Kaden said to me yesterday. I can probably count on one hand how many times Kaden has seen me in a dress. Pathetic, I know, but I am just NOT a girly girl. I try, but I just feel like a numb nut in them. Anyway, I actually wore a dress under my graduation gown yesterday. Kaden was completely blown away by this and kept saying over and over again: "Ooooh Mommy! You look SO pretty!" It was really quite precious. He was also quite taken with my "square hat." So, the rest of the day, he kept asking me if I was going to graduate again someday and wear a pretty dress again. I said, "Well, Daddy will probably graduate next." Kaden's response to this was: "Ohhh. So then HE'LL wear a square hat and a pretty dress!" Wouldn't that be fun! :0)
Surprise surprise!
I graduated yesterday. Besides having the dean need to remind me to flip my tassle to the other side of my cap all went smoothly. And both boys handled the one and half hour ceremony quite well, also. Kaden even said: "I wasn't even bored, Mommy!"
It's kind of fun looking back. I never planned to go back to school when we moved out here. I've always had the desire but figured that would be shelved for this season of motherhood. I literally stumbled upon the knowledge of this program through a conversation while meeting some new friends out here. The very next day I went over to the school to check it out, was told there was a class taking place "this instant," sat in on it, and promptly signed up the very next day! And now, two years later, I'm marching down the aisle in a cap and gown. God is good. Maybe there's a Master's out there for me some day, as well. Who knows?
The kicker of this whole celebration though, was the fact that my two brothers drove down from Maine to surprise me!!!! It was so fun and so special to have them here! They arrived on Friday, and we were all so excited to have them here, that we took a road trip for the day and I completely forgot about my grad rehearsal and picking up my cap and gown! I just blindly followed the guy in front of me the next day and no one knew that I had not a clue!
They left here in the rain today but will be driving home in blizzard conditions, I hear. The things they will do for their sis! That's love!
It's kind of fun looking back. I never planned to go back to school when we moved out here. I've always had the desire but figured that would be shelved for this season of motherhood. I literally stumbled upon the knowledge of this program through a conversation while meeting some new friends out here. The very next day I went over to the school to check it out, was told there was a class taking place "this instant," sat in on it, and promptly signed up the very next day! And now, two years later, I'm marching down the aisle in a cap and gown. God is good. Maybe there's a Master's out there for me some day, as well. Who knows?
The kicker of this whole celebration though, was the fact that my two brothers drove down from Maine to surprise me!!!! It was so fun and so special to have them here! They arrived on Friday, and we were all so excited to have them here, that we took a road trip for the day and I completely forgot about my grad rehearsal and picking up my cap and gown! I just blindly followed the guy in front of me the next day and no one knew that I had not a clue!
They left here in the rain today but will be driving home in blizzard conditions, I hear. The things they will do for their sis! That's love!
Happy Six Months - Jesse Bear!
Jesse had his six month well child visit today. We are pleased and proud to announce that he is back ON the charts both height and weight wise. Granted, he is still the size of a typical one year old, but he is at least porportionate! He weighs in at 20 pounds 12 ounces, and his length is 28 inches! Our little man was so big and brave when he had his shots. He literally cried for like two seconds and then was smiling again! To celebrate, we all went to Cracker Barrel for lunch. (You know us - we'll find any way we can to justify eating out!) Jesse got his very first taste of applesauce - which he promptly gagged on and was most unimpressed. After four or five spoonfuls with the same results, I finally concluded that he really does not like the taste of it and proceeded to eat his celebratory applesauce myself. All in all, it has been a very grand morning!
A Christmas Prayer
This short little prayer was written on one of our Christmas cards. I love it.
Lord.....
let us celebrate Christmas with less hurry,
more wonder;
less worry,
more peace;
less flurry,
more joy.
May this be said of our little family......
Lord.....
let us celebrate Christmas with less hurry,
more wonder;
less worry,
more peace;
less flurry,
more joy.
May this be said of our little family......
Family Christmas
We celebrated Christmas with our little family this past Saturday. We like to have our own little family tradition besides doing things with the extended family, so it was REALLY fun! Kaden's age is so great to really be able to fully enjoy everything.
On our Christmas Eve, we got a special Boz (a silly Christian bear character through MOPS that Kaden LOVES) Christmas DVD with a little Boz stuffed animal that we gave Kaden for his Christmas Eve gift. We brought the air mattress in and camped out in the living room with snacks and our p.j.'s. Then, Jesse woke us all up at 4:30 the next morning, so we all just laid in bed until 6:00 until we decided to just get our day started. We were all fried, but we really had no agenda for the day, so it was fine.
Jesse took his first nap of the day at 7:00 a.m. while Kev and Kaden made pancakes and coffee. Then, we read the Christmas story out of Kaden's Bible. We prayed together and then opened the gifts in our stockings. By then, Jesse had woken back up, so he was able to join in the festivities! Kaden had wrapped a special little toy for him that makes all kinds of noises when you pull on it. Jesse thinks that's pretty cool and attacks it with a vengeance! After we unwrapped our gifts, we all went to Cracker Barrel for lunch and then came home for naps! It was so much fun, and Kaden had such a great time!
His favorite gifts were a little kid's accordian and a backpack that contains his very own tent, sleeping bag, water bottle, whistle, and flashlight. It's set up in our living room, and periodically all throughout the day he disappears for quite some time. We'll peak in, and he's all nestled in his sleeping bag looking up at the "stars" through his roof! It's so cute!
Yep. A great family day. Loved it! I feel like we really took our time and savored it. Kaden did a great job in remembering to say thank you after each gift, and I don't feel like we spoiled him with a ton of presents. He was really thankful with the few we bought him. And, he was also really excited to give us the gifts that were from "him," as well. Having kids really brings back the kid in us! Kev and I were just as excited (maybe more so) than Kaden to celebrate!
And now.......one week until we go HOME to be with our family and friends!!!!!
On our Christmas Eve, we got a special Boz (a silly Christian bear character through MOPS that Kaden LOVES) Christmas DVD with a little Boz stuffed animal that we gave Kaden for his Christmas Eve gift. We brought the air mattress in and camped out in the living room with snacks and our p.j.'s. Then, Jesse woke us all up at 4:30 the next morning, so we all just laid in bed until 6:00 until we decided to just get our day started. We were all fried, but we really had no agenda for the day, so it was fine.
Jesse took his first nap of the day at 7:00 a.m. while Kev and Kaden made pancakes and coffee. Then, we read the Christmas story out of Kaden's Bible. We prayed together and then opened the gifts in our stockings. By then, Jesse had woken back up, so he was able to join in the festivities! Kaden had wrapped a special little toy for him that makes all kinds of noises when you pull on it. Jesse thinks that's pretty cool and attacks it with a vengeance! After we unwrapped our gifts, we all went to Cracker Barrel for lunch and then came home for naps! It was so much fun, and Kaden had such a great time!
His favorite gifts were a little kid's accordian and a backpack that contains his very own tent, sleeping bag, water bottle, whistle, and flashlight. It's set up in our living room, and periodically all throughout the day he disappears for quite some time. We'll peak in, and he's all nestled in his sleeping bag looking up at the "stars" through his roof! It's so cute!
Yep. A great family day. Loved it! I feel like we really took our time and savored it. Kaden did a great job in remembering to say thank you after each gift, and I don't feel like we spoiled him with a ton of presents. He was really thankful with the few we bought him. And, he was also really excited to give us the gifts that were from "him," as well. Having kids really brings back the kid in us! Kev and I were just as excited (maybe more so) than Kaden to celebrate!
And now.......one week until we go HOME to be with our family and friends!!!!!
Sigh
It begins. Actually, it's been going on for quite some time. I knew it would. It should. And I truly am okay with it. He just doesn't need to rub it in!
What am I talking about, you ask? Well, let me enlighten you. The other evening, Kev headed to his night class while Kaden waved to him from the window. As he was driving away Kaden said sadly: "Oh, Mommy! I don't want him to to go." I said, "I know, Honey. But, he's just going to school. He'll come snuggle you when he gets home." To which Kaden replied, "Mommy, he's my favorite."
Now, this didn't phase me in the least, because he gets that expression from me. If I love something, I always say "it's my favorite." So, I responded with: "Me too, Sweety." Well, not to be misunderstood Kaden made sure to clafity.
"No. Mommy. I like Daddy gooder than you."
"Oh. Okay. But, do you still love Mommy too?"
"Oh yes. I just like Daddy gooder than you."
Okay. I can accept that. I know he still loves me. I also know that this is the age where little boys start to really bond with their Daddys, and I am totally okay with that. It's good and healthy.
You know.......I only gave birth to you, had major surgery, and almost lost my uterus because of you. But hey - no hard feelings. Really........ :0)
Just kidding.....kinda'.
What am I talking about, you ask? Well, let me enlighten you. The other evening, Kev headed to his night class while Kaden waved to him from the window. As he was driving away Kaden said sadly: "Oh, Mommy! I don't want him to to go." I said, "I know, Honey. But, he's just going to school. He'll come snuggle you when he gets home." To which Kaden replied, "Mommy, he's my favorite."
Now, this didn't phase me in the least, because he gets that expression from me. If I love something, I always say "it's my favorite." So, I responded with: "Me too, Sweety." Well, not to be misunderstood Kaden made sure to clafity.
"No. Mommy. I like Daddy gooder than you."
"Oh. Okay. But, do you still love Mommy too?"
"Oh yes. I just like Daddy gooder than you."
Okay. I can accept that. I know he still loves me. I also know that this is the age where little boys start to really bond with their Daddys, and I am totally okay with that. It's good and healthy.
You know.......I only gave birth to you, had major surgery, and almost lost my uterus because of you. But hey - no hard feelings. Really........ :0)
Just kidding.....kinda'.
For Those with Toddlers.....
I got this at MOPS awhile back, but I've had it on my fridge for some time and think it's so cute! Well, maybe "cute" isn't the right word, but it's oh so true!
TODDLER PROPERTY LAWS:
If I like it, it's mine
If it's in my hand, it's mine
If I can take it from you, it's mine
If I had it a little while ago, it's mine
If it's mine, it must never appear to be yours in any way
If I'm doing or building something, all of the pieces are mine
If I saw it first, it's mine
If it looks just like mine, it's mine
If you're playing with something and you put it down, it automatically becomes mine
If it's broken, it's YOURS!
Can any of you who've had toddlers attest to this?!
TODDLER PROPERTY LAWS:
If I like it, it's mine
If it's in my hand, it's mine
If I can take it from you, it's mine
If I had it a little while ago, it's mine
If it's mine, it must never appear to be yours in any way
If I'm doing or building something, all of the pieces are mine
If I saw it first, it's mine
If it looks just like mine, it's mine
If you're playing with something and you put it down, it automatically becomes mine
If it's broken, it's YOURS!
Can any of you who've had toddlers attest to this?!
First Snow and All Things Christmasy
It snowed out here for the first time today. When we opened the curtains and blinds this morning, it was so exciting to see a fresh layer of powder on the ground. We've had our tree up since Thanksgiving weekend because we leave for Maine so soon before Christmas, and I spent all afternoon wrapping presents yesterday, so we are truly in full blown festive spirits. Kaden even wrapped a present for Daddy and Jesse yesterday - all by himself! He used about half a roll of tape, but it's all good! We're trying to instill the whole idea of giving being better than getting, so I wanted him to take full ownership in his gift giving this year. It really was fun wrapping together and listening to Christmas music while trying to keep Jesse from slobbering on everything!
Anyway, we've been talking so much about going outside to play in the snow whenever it decides to show up, so he was completely pumped this morning. The only problem is that he has a terrible cold right now. We even stayed home from church this morning because he was up most of the night coughing. He was so bummed about having to stay inside that I decided to just bring the snow inside to him. I went out and gathered bowl after bowl with snow and filled up our kitchen sink right to the brim with the stuff! Then, I put mittens on his hands, stood him up on one of our chairs, and let him have it! It made for a really nice morning. We made mini snowmen, he made "rotten rock soup that's de-lish," (???), and there's only a minor wet mess to clean up, so it was quite a success!
Anyway, we've been talking so much about going outside to play in the snow whenever it decides to show up, so he was completely pumped this morning. The only problem is that he has a terrible cold right now. We even stayed home from church this morning because he was up most of the night coughing. He was so bummed about having to stay inside that I decided to just bring the snow inside to him. I went out and gathered bowl after bowl with snow and filled up our kitchen sink right to the brim with the stuff! Then, I put mittens on his hands, stood him up on one of our chairs, and let him have it! It made for a really nice morning. We made mini snowmen, he made "rotten rock soup that's de-lish," (???), and there's only a minor wet mess to clean up, so it was quite a success!
The One That Got Away
Well, on the first day of gun season, Kev was up at 4:00 a.m. and left to go hunting in the pouring rain. Yuckadoo. You couldn't pay me enough money to do that. However, I do love having meat in our freezer, and we just cooked up our last steak a couple of weeks ago. So, go hubby go! More power to ya! I'll just roll back over and get a couple more hours of shut-eye!
Anyway, he came home absolutely soggy and oh so stinky. Man - wool is potent when it's wet. He'd been tracking the blood of one he shot earlier in the day but couldn't find it. He's pretty sure it's dead by the several pools of blood that he tracked, but he's afraid that he got out his stand too soon and pushed it too hard. This is a major bummer on all accounts. I hate hate hate when a deer gets wounded or when one dies unnecessarily. Plus, Kev is probably going to get sick AND we have no meat in our freezer. Ah well. Live and learn, I guess. He was pretty bummed. But, back out again today at 4:00. Hopefully, he'll have success this time!
Whenever he gets back, Kaden always wants to hear his hunting stories. Kev is always very careful to say that he hunts to get food like steak and hamburger to feed our family - not for sport just for the sake of killing an animal. Anyway, Kaden has an imaginary wolf friend that goes everywhere with him. The other day at breakfast Kaden said: "Hey, Daddy! My wolf friend shot a hamburger in the road and he was really proud of himself!"
Doesn't make a lick of sense, but we just about died laughing!
Anyway, he came home absolutely soggy and oh so stinky. Man - wool is potent when it's wet. He'd been tracking the blood of one he shot earlier in the day but couldn't find it. He's pretty sure it's dead by the several pools of blood that he tracked, but he's afraid that he got out his stand too soon and pushed it too hard. This is a major bummer on all accounts. I hate hate hate when a deer gets wounded or when one dies unnecessarily. Plus, Kev is probably going to get sick AND we have no meat in our freezer. Ah well. Live and learn, I guess. He was pretty bummed. But, back out again today at 4:00. Hopefully, he'll have success this time!
Whenever he gets back, Kaden always wants to hear his hunting stories. Kev is always very careful to say that he hunts to get food like steak and hamburger to feed our family - not for sport just for the sake of killing an animal. Anyway, Kaden has an imaginary wolf friend that goes everywhere with him. The other day at breakfast Kaden said: "Hey, Daddy! My wolf friend shot a hamburger in the road and he was really proud of himself!"
Doesn't make a lick of sense, but we just about died laughing!
Happy Thanksgiving.....A Day Late!
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!!
I really love this holiday - it's far less commercialized and stressful than Christmas, and it's the one day out of the year when we sit back and take stock of what we are truly thankful for. We want to instill into our children traditions that involve family and relationships and giving as opposed to only thinking about and asking for things for ourselves. I want us all to have a constant attitude of contentment and gratefulnesss for everything that we've been given already instead of constantly looking around and wishing for things that we don't have.
So, only this holiday week-end, here is just a short list of the things that I am SO SO thankful for:
* First and foremost, I'm thankful for my relationship with Jesus and for how - time and time again - He has proven Himself faithful to me. I believe - help Thou my unbelief! His mercies truly are new every morning.
* I'm thankful for my hubby of eight years. He is truly my soulmate and best friend. He takes his roles and responsibilities of husband and father so seriously, and we are partners in every sense of the word in this journey called life!
* For my little Kaden - our tender heart. He daily makes us laugh. He is so sensitive and happy all the time. He is a fabulous big brother, and I really can't even remember what life was like without him. He is the neatest little kid, and already so tender toward the things of the Lord.
* For our wild child, Jesse Bear. He has made our home so full and alive. He is so comical, and it's so fun and interesting to see two little boys who are so night and day in every way! We never have to wonder how he's feeling - he LOUDLY lets us know! He is becoming so expressive and snuggly, and we are just so thankful for this new gift.
* And lastly, I'm thankful for our church family out here who has adopted us as their own, for family and friends old and new, for our cozy little apartment, for this college where Kev has been able to follow his dream, for friends who welcomed us into their home to celebrate with them yesterday, and for our family day today where we're going to get our Christmas tree! Whoo-hoo!!
Truly, there are SO many other things.....the list could go on forever. Bottom line: I'm a thankful girl this week-end!
I really love this holiday - it's far less commercialized and stressful than Christmas, and it's the one day out of the year when we sit back and take stock of what we are truly thankful for. We want to instill into our children traditions that involve family and relationships and giving as opposed to only thinking about and asking for things for ourselves. I want us all to have a constant attitude of contentment and gratefulnesss for everything that we've been given already instead of constantly looking around and wishing for things that we don't have.
So, only this holiday week-end, here is just a short list of the things that I am SO SO thankful for:
* First and foremost, I'm thankful for my relationship with Jesus and for how - time and time again - He has proven Himself faithful to me. I believe - help Thou my unbelief! His mercies truly are new every morning.
* I'm thankful for my hubby of eight years. He is truly my soulmate and best friend. He takes his roles and responsibilities of husband and father so seriously, and we are partners in every sense of the word in this journey called life!
* For my little Kaden - our tender heart. He daily makes us laugh. He is so sensitive and happy all the time. He is a fabulous big brother, and I really can't even remember what life was like without him. He is the neatest little kid, and already so tender toward the things of the Lord.
* For our wild child, Jesse Bear. He has made our home so full and alive. He is so comical, and it's so fun and interesting to see two little boys who are so night and day in every way! We never have to wonder how he's feeling - he LOUDLY lets us know! He is becoming so expressive and snuggly, and we are just so thankful for this new gift.
* And lastly, I'm thankful for our church family out here who has adopted us as their own, for family and friends old and new, for our cozy little apartment, for this college where Kev has been able to follow his dream, for friends who welcomed us into their home to celebrate with them yesterday, and for our family day today where we're going to get our Christmas tree! Whoo-hoo!!
Truly, there are SO many other things.....the list could go on forever. Bottom line: I'm a thankful girl this week-end!
Adventures in Parenting
Today is one of those days where in looking back, all we can do is laugh. So many silly, crazy, scary, and yucky things happened in the span of just a few hours that I just have to write about them and document their happenings!
We went to UNO's for lunch today where hubby was in rare form. First of all, he asked for a side of hot sauce for his sandwich, and as soon as it came, he looks over at Kaden all innocently and asks: "Kaden, would you like a drink of tomato juice?" Kaden - trusting his father completely AS HE SHOULD!!!! - leans forward and takes a nice haul off of Kev's Red Hot! I braced myself waiting.....meanwhile both Kev and I are dying laughing, and I'm feeling like a loser mommy for even finding it funny in the first place. Kaden swallows, looks over at us, and immediatly hangs his tongue out of his mouth and starts chugging his water. We had tears, it was so funny! Not two seconds later, Kev offers him a taste of his other side of BBQ sauce. Genuis that he was being today, he loads up a big scoop on his FORK and puts it up to Kaden's mouth. Well, of course, most of it dribbled out the slats of the fork and went all down the front of Kaden's shirt! When Kev saw this happen, he jerked his arm back and proceeded to spill even more of it down the arm of Kaden's white shirt. Kaden just looked at us like we were crazy today. It's true. Good thing I hadn't done laundry yet, because the story gets better.
Then, after Kaden's nap, Kev had a cup of black coffee sitting on the table. Kaden walked over and innocently asked: "Oh, Daddy! Can I have a sip of your soda?" Kev innocently answered, "Sure, Honey." Again - another long haul. (It was ice coffee - but still....you know when you're expecting to taste one thing and then you get another?" He's not going to trust Daddy much after today! Hubby was an IMP today!
Well, all of those things are nothing compared to MY saga with the boys today. While Kaden napped and Kev was doing homework at home, I decided to go out and do a little shopping with Jesse. I wore him in the backpack because he loves it, and as soon as I walked into the store, all of a sudden, I feel this huge shift, and Jesse slid right out the bottom of my pack! I reached down and grabbed his bum just in time - right before he smashed onto the floor! OH MY WORD!!! What if this had happened while I was walking across the parking lot? What if a car had been whizzing by????? Anyhoo, HE wasn't fazed in the least, but I just about had a bird!
Then - while we were walking through a store, Jesse decided that he wanted to suck on my cheek and my chin. This is his new thing lately. It was keeping him happy and occupied, so I just let him suck away while I was browsing. Upon looking in the mirror when I got home, however, I now see that I have a massive hickey on my face that is VERY noticeable! Perfect for when we go to company's house tomorrow for Thanksgiving. (I'm going to tell everyone that Kev did it! kidding.......)
Finally, when we came home, I sat Jesse in his little Bumbo seat to feed him some cereal, and I thought that I kept smelling a certain odor. (Having Daddy in the same room, I thought nothing of this odor, so I didn't think it necesssary to check Jesse!) Twenty minutes later, I lifted Jesse out of his seat, and to my utter horror, I realized that he had been sitting in a literal puddle of his own poo! It was SO gross! In lifting him out, I also successfully managed to ooze it all up his back, down his legs, and all over my own shirt, as well. Delish. In with the pile of hot sauce and BBQ laundry those clothes went. This is going to be a yummy load of wash, let me tell ya.
And finally, to top off this nutso day, when Kaden woke up from his nap, he came out and snuggled my leg while I was cooking. Just as I was turning to grab something from the fridge, he grabbed hold and gave me a pretty strong "love push," and down to the floor we both toppled with 135 pounds of me landing on 35 pounds of him. After many tears (from him) and a really sore bum (of mine), after baths and clean ups for all of us, and after supper, stories, and beddy-bies, I look back on today and am happy and amazed that we are all still in one piece!!! It was like a regular zoo around here today!
We went to UNO's for lunch today where hubby was in rare form. First of all, he asked for a side of hot sauce for his sandwich, and as soon as it came, he looks over at Kaden all innocently and asks: "Kaden, would you like a drink of tomato juice?" Kaden - trusting his father completely AS HE SHOULD!!!! - leans forward and takes a nice haul off of Kev's Red Hot! I braced myself waiting.....meanwhile both Kev and I are dying laughing, and I'm feeling like a loser mommy for even finding it funny in the first place. Kaden swallows, looks over at us, and immediatly hangs his tongue out of his mouth and starts chugging his water. We had tears, it was so funny! Not two seconds later, Kev offers him a taste of his other side of BBQ sauce. Genuis that he was being today, he loads up a big scoop on his FORK and puts it up to Kaden's mouth. Well, of course, most of it dribbled out the slats of the fork and went all down the front of Kaden's shirt! When Kev saw this happen, he jerked his arm back and proceeded to spill even more of it down the arm of Kaden's white shirt. Kaden just looked at us like we were crazy today. It's true. Good thing I hadn't done laundry yet, because the story gets better.
Then, after Kaden's nap, Kev had a cup of black coffee sitting on the table. Kaden walked over and innocently asked: "Oh, Daddy! Can I have a sip of your soda?" Kev innocently answered, "Sure, Honey." Again - another long haul. (It was ice coffee - but still....you know when you're expecting to taste one thing and then you get another?" He's not going to trust Daddy much after today! Hubby was an IMP today!
Well, all of those things are nothing compared to MY saga with the boys today. While Kaden napped and Kev was doing homework at home, I decided to go out and do a little shopping with Jesse. I wore him in the backpack because he loves it, and as soon as I walked into the store, all of a sudden, I feel this huge shift, and Jesse slid right out the bottom of my pack! I reached down and grabbed his bum just in time - right before he smashed onto the floor! OH MY WORD!!! What if this had happened while I was walking across the parking lot? What if a car had been whizzing by????? Anyhoo, HE wasn't fazed in the least, but I just about had a bird!
Then - while we were walking through a store, Jesse decided that he wanted to suck on my cheek and my chin. This is his new thing lately. It was keeping him happy and occupied, so I just let him suck away while I was browsing. Upon looking in the mirror when I got home, however, I now see that I have a massive hickey on my face that is VERY noticeable! Perfect for when we go to company's house tomorrow for Thanksgiving. (I'm going to tell everyone that Kev did it! kidding.......)
Finally, when we came home, I sat Jesse in his little Bumbo seat to feed him some cereal, and I thought that I kept smelling a certain odor. (Having Daddy in the same room, I thought nothing of this odor, so I didn't think it necesssary to check Jesse!) Twenty minutes later, I lifted Jesse out of his seat, and to my utter horror, I realized that he had been sitting in a literal puddle of his own poo! It was SO gross! In lifting him out, I also successfully managed to ooze it all up his back, down his legs, and all over my own shirt, as well. Delish. In with the pile of hot sauce and BBQ laundry those clothes went. This is going to be a yummy load of wash, let me tell ya.
And finally, to top off this nutso day, when Kaden woke up from his nap, he came out and snuggled my leg while I was cooking. Just as I was turning to grab something from the fridge, he grabbed hold and gave me a pretty strong "love push," and down to the floor we both toppled with 135 pounds of me landing on 35 pounds of him. After many tears (from him) and a really sore bum (of mine), after baths and clean ups for all of us, and after supper, stories, and beddy-bies, I look back on today and am happy and amazed that we are all still in one piece!!! It was like a regular zoo around here today!
A Tender Heart
Kaden has been initiating a lot of conversation lately about Jesus. It's so cool to see his little brain working and thinking through things. One morning at breakfast he was telling Kev that in the night he dreamed about Jesus on the cross. He said, "Do you know what I was dreaming about? Jesus on the cross with that thing on his head with really sharp things on it that hurt Him really bad." We talked about it a little bit and asked Kaden if he knew why Jesus died on the cross that day. He said, "Because He loves me and because sometimes I do bad things."
It's been so cool to dialogue with him about this and to see that he's actually comprehending and understanding things. We don't want to push "the sinner's prayer" on him just so that we can say, Kaden got "saved" today, but we're really feeling like he's beginning to understand and that is just the neatest thing.
His little heart is so tender and he has SUCH a sensitive conscience. Often when I tell him how proud I am of his honesty or of being such a great big brother he'll respond by saying, "Yeah, but sometimes I do bad things." Yup. We all do - many of us just refuse to admit it!
It's been so cool to dialogue with him about this and to see that he's actually comprehending and understanding things. We don't want to push "the sinner's prayer" on him just so that we can say, Kaden got "saved" today, but we're really feeling like he's beginning to understand and that is just the neatest thing.
His little heart is so tender and he has SUCH a sensitive conscience. Often when I tell him how proud I am of his honesty or of being such a great big brother he'll respond by saying, "Yeah, but sometimes I do bad things." Yup. We all do - many of us just refuse to admit it!
Four Nights and Counting....
For the past month or so, Jesse's nighttime sleep has progressively gotten worse. He has gone from sleeping 10-12 hour stretches without waking and nursing to waking up once in the middle of the night (no big deal - we can handle that). Then a few days later, waking up every four hours (hmmm.....okay - growth spurt?), to waking every two hours, to finally deciding that every hour on the hour he would like to awaken and scream bloody murder until someone did something about it.
Finally, at the beginning of this week, I reached my breaking point and told Kev that I was just about ready to have a nervous breakdown unless something changed. I talked to my pediatrician and did lots of reading - so that I wouldn't just be looking at this issue through "baby wise" eyes, and all that I read agreed with what my pediatrician said in that - Jesse should be capable of sleeping through the night by now, and we need to help him learn to "work it out." She said, "Most kids will break the habit in 2-5 days, but there is a small minority that may take two to three months to kick it." Hmmmmm....now what category do we think our little Jesse will probably fall into?!!!!
There are a whole boatload of varying philosophies out there to help parents teach their children to "work it out" from the "no cry solution" of just doing whatever it takes to make them happy to the "let 'em scream it out" until they cry themselves into oblivion. Kev and I talked about this for a few days and tried to decide what our plan of attack would be. The biggest issue at stake was that whatever we were going to do - we had to stick with it! If in a couple of days we couldn't hack it anymore and gave in, then it would all be for naught.
So, four nights ago, we decided to set the pack and play up in the kitchen with a really loud fan, we ran the bathroom fan, we gave Kaden two fans and a radio, and we gave ourselves a fan as well. The plan was that when Jesse woke - from here on out - he would not be nursed, and he would not be picked up unless he got absolutely hysterical. We would go to him every twenty minutes, rub his tummy, and tell him that he was okay, but then we would walk away and go back to bed. It was agreed that I would take the first shift, Kev would go next, and so on. Whew! Was I ever nervous. I knew that this would not be for the faint of heart, but I was ready! I was at the point where I was feeling that I had lost all control!
Well, the first night, I "tanked him up" right before we went to bed at 10:00 so that I would know his tummy was full, and then he was down for the count. Just like clockwork, at 2:00 a.m., Jesse woke up crying. I laid there and watched the clock tick by...five minutes.....ten minutes... until at the twenty minute mark, I went out into the kitchen, rubbed his tummy, and said, "No, Jesse. It's time to sleep." To which he promptly broke out into high-pitched-bloody-murder-I'm-mad-at-the-world-and-I-plan-to-wake-up-the-whole-entire-complex shrieks. Hmmmmm, that went well. I crawled back into bed, put some earplugs in, and told Kev that it was his turn next!
Twenty minutes later, Kev went out and did the same. It was to be my turn at 3:00, but when I rolled over again it was 3:45! Oh man...bad Mommy. But wait - our apartment was silent! I looked over at Kev who was staring up at the ceiling, and he calmly said: "Jesse fell asleep at 3:00." Only an hour! Not for the faint of heart, mind you - but I fully expected about three hours of screaming for this first night! I sank back into blissful sleep overwhelmingly happpy and thankful.
For the past three nights, Jesse has fallen back to sleep before the twenty minute mark each time. I can't even believe that he is not fighting this harder, and I am not holding my breathe - but I do feel that my world is beginning to right itself once more! My sister-in-law was here two nights ago, so we put Jesse in our room. When he woke at 2:00 I begged the Lord to put him back to sleep! PLEASE, LORD! NOT TONIGHT! NOT WITH COMPANY WHO WILL SURELY THINK THAT WE ARE HORRIBLE PARENTS FOR LETTING OUR CHILD CRY! But, thankfully, after just a couple of seconds of fussing, back he went to la la land!
So, we shall see what the future holds. For now, I am catching up on my sleep and am no longer a zombie crabmyster woman! We plan to keep Jesse in the kitchen for a few more weeks, but I am hopeful. And I have never been more thankful for an eight hour stretch of sleep in my life!
Finally, at the beginning of this week, I reached my breaking point and told Kev that I was just about ready to have a nervous breakdown unless something changed. I talked to my pediatrician and did lots of reading - so that I wouldn't just be looking at this issue through "baby wise" eyes, and all that I read agreed with what my pediatrician said in that - Jesse should be capable of sleeping through the night by now, and we need to help him learn to "work it out." She said, "Most kids will break the habit in 2-5 days, but there is a small minority that may take two to three months to kick it." Hmmmmm....now what category do we think our little Jesse will probably fall into?!!!!
There are a whole boatload of varying philosophies out there to help parents teach their children to "work it out" from the "no cry solution" of just doing whatever it takes to make them happy to the "let 'em scream it out" until they cry themselves into oblivion. Kev and I talked about this for a few days and tried to decide what our plan of attack would be. The biggest issue at stake was that whatever we were going to do - we had to stick with it! If in a couple of days we couldn't hack it anymore and gave in, then it would all be for naught.
So, four nights ago, we decided to set the pack and play up in the kitchen with a really loud fan, we ran the bathroom fan, we gave Kaden two fans and a radio, and we gave ourselves a fan as well. The plan was that when Jesse woke - from here on out - he would not be nursed, and he would not be picked up unless he got absolutely hysterical. We would go to him every twenty minutes, rub his tummy, and tell him that he was okay, but then we would walk away and go back to bed. It was agreed that I would take the first shift, Kev would go next, and so on. Whew! Was I ever nervous. I knew that this would not be for the faint of heart, but I was ready! I was at the point where I was feeling that I had lost all control!
Well, the first night, I "tanked him up" right before we went to bed at 10:00 so that I would know his tummy was full, and then he was down for the count. Just like clockwork, at 2:00 a.m., Jesse woke up crying. I laid there and watched the clock tick by...five minutes.....ten minutes... until at the twenty minute mark, I went out into the kitchen, rubbed his tummy, and said, "No, Jesse. It's time to sleep." To which he promptly broke out into high-pitched-bloody-murder-I'm-mad-at-the-world-and-I-plan-to-wake-up-the-whole-entire-complex shrieks. Hmmmmm, that went well. I crawled back into bed, put some earplugs in, and told Kev that it was his turn next!
Twenty minutes later, Kev went out and did the same. It was to be my turn at 3:00, but when I rolled over again it was 3:45! Oh man...bad Mommy. But wait - our apartment was silent! I looked over at Kev who was staring up at the ceiling, and he calmly said: "Jesse fell asleep at 3:00." Only an hour! Not for the faint of heart, mind you - but I fully expected about three hours of screaming for this first night! I sank back into blissful sleep overwhelmingly happpy and thankful.
For the past three nights, Jesse has fallen back to sleep before the twenty minute mark each time. I can't even believe that he is not fighting this harder, and I am not holding my breathe - but I do feel that my world is beginning to right itself once more! My sister-in-law was here two nights ago, so we put Jesse in our room. When he woke at 2:00 I begged the Lord to put him back to sleep! PLEASE, LORD! NOT TONIGHT! NOT WITH COMPANY WHO WILL SURELY THINK THAT WE ARE HORRIBLE PARENTS FOR LETTING OUR CHILD CRY! But, thankfully, after just a couple of seconds of fussing, back he went to la la land!
So, we shall see what the future holds. For now, I am catching up on my sleep and am no longer a zombie crabmyster woman! We plan to keep Jesse in the kitchen for a few more weeks, but I am hopeful. And I have never been more thankful for an eight hour stretch of sleep in my life!
Slowing Down
This past week was way too busy for our little family, and we're all feeling it. Kaden missed his nap two days in a row, and when that happens there is no need to ever have a little daughter to experience high drama - we get it in spades with him! It's kind of comical, and we both feel bad, because it's really our fault that we've caused him to miss his naps, so we try to have a little grace with him. Poor thing. He's going on four years old, but still really requires at least a two hour nap every day and about ten hours of nighttime sleep, as well. Jesse on the other hand, is a completely different story. He's good on four little half hour cat naps. He will sleep between 10-14 hours at night, but doesn't give us much during the day. He still likes a little rhythm though, too, and I can tell that he's a little "off," as well.
So, for this week, we're going to stick close to home. We travelled a lot last week and had the boys in the car a lot, so I just plan to take it easy for the next couple of days. Having said that, we did have a good week, though! I was able to get trained and certified to do some premarital and marital counseling through Prepare-Enrich, Kev did a little hunting, we met with a Mission Board that we're interested in, we spent an afternoon with a family from church that we've been wanting to get to know better, and the highlight for all three of my boys was the fact that we spent an entire day at Cabella's!
Oh my - don't get me wrong - I like the store, but HELLO - almost five hours, people! I put my time in that day. Kev reminded me that if I truly do want a passle of all boys, this is what our family days may look a lot like in the future! Point taken. :0) Neither Kev or Kaden wanted to leave, and Jesse was as happy as a clam riding in the backpack staring at all the dead animals all day. Oh my. Lord, give grace! :0) It really was a lot of fun, though. We got most of our Christmas shopping done - at least for the guys, and had fun playing together as a family, so it's all good!
So, for this week, we're going to stick close to home. We travelled a lot last week and had the boys in the car a lot, so I just plan to take it easy for the next couple of days. Having said that, we did have a good week, though! I was able to get trained and certified to do some premarital and marital counseling through Prepare-Enrich, Kev did a little hunting, we met with a Mission Board that we're interested in, we spent an afternoon with a family from church that we've been wanting to get to know better, and the highlight for all three of my boys was the fact that we spent an entire day at Cabella's!
Oh my - don't get me wrong - I like the store, but HELLO - almost five hours, people! I put my time in that day. Kev reminded me that if I truly do want a passle of all boys, this is what our family days may look a lot like in the future! Point taken. :0) Neither Kev or Kaden wanted to leave, and Jesse was as happy as a clam riding in the backpack staring at all the dead animals all day. Oh my. Lord, give grace! :0) It really was a lot of fun, though. We got most of our Christmas shopping done - at least for the guys, and had fun playing together as a family, so it's all good!
It's a Girl!
My sweet friend Charlotte just gave birth to numero two - a baby girl! After a seven hour labor, Madelyn Elizabeth G. - Meg for short - (how cute is that?) was born! Oh yay - I LOVE babies, and I LOVE that there's another Mommy around here with two chittlins now. We can just be half crazy together!
Other news....
Kev and I went and met with the Regional Director for U.S. Center for World Missions today. Should we decide to take Clarion Consulting and do it as our next step in life, this is most likely the Mission Board that we would be considered missionaries under.
I'm a rotty explainer of things, so if anyone is interested in the whole Clarion thing, go and check out their website and have a little looksee. It's www.clarionconsulting.com. Just a note - because it was originally designed to work with missions teams overseas, the website had to be made to look secular in order to protect the missionaries.
So....that's kind of exciting. It's been cool to see where the Lord has been leading and how He's been confirming our steps. Tomorrow, I'll also be getting certified in the Prepare/Enrich (www.prepare-enrich.com) assessment tool, as well. I would like to begin doing some premarital counseling with engaged couples and maybe even newlyweds here at the school.
We shall see. Who knows what the Lord has in store for us? It's all part of the journey - endings to some chapters and beginnings of others. It's comforting knowing that He's in control and we are not!
Other news....
Kev and I went and met with the Regional Director for U.S. Center for World Missions today. Should we decide to take Clarion Consulting and do it as our next step in life, this is most likely the Mission Board that we would be considered missionaries under.
I'm a rotty explainer of things, so if anyone is interested in the whole Clarion thing, go and check out their website and have a little looksee. It's www.clarionconsulting.com. Just a note - because it was originally designed to work with missions teams overseas, the website had to be made to look secular in order to protect the missionaries.
So....that's kind of exciting. It's been cool to see where the Lord has been leading and how He's been confirming our steps. Tomorrow, I'll also be getting certified in the Prepare/Enrich (www.prepare-enrich.com) assessment tool, as well. I would like to begin doing some premarital counseling with engaged couples and maybe even newlyweds here at the school.
We shall see. Who knows what the Lord has in store for us? It's all part of the journey - endings to some chapters and beginnings of others. It's comforting knowing that He's in control and we are not!
By Hed Is Feelig Stuffy!
I did the typos on purpose. That's how I've sounded all day - I woke up with a yucky cold, and I am completely stuffy and plugged up. Soooo, Katya - that sip of hot chocolate you had at the soccer game yesterday is probably gonna cost ya! So sorry, my friend. Blast. Load up on the echinacea and Vitamin C! Oh man - I hate colds. You feel yuckadoo but not enough to put your life on hold and justify napping or not taking care of your family. I've kind of been in a fog all day.
However, in spite of this mild annoyance, we had a fun family day. A few towns over in a little place called "Peddler's Village" there are a whole bunch of fun little shops and stores, neat little walkways with scarecrows everywhere, and just an all around pretty area to be outside all day. This weekend they are celebrating Apple Festival, so we went and rambled all around and sampled some of the apple wares. Quite delish, I must say.....I think.....everything taked a little bit like cardboard today....but the texture was nice!
It was a bit on the chilly side, but overall, very nice. We wore Jesse in the backpack for the first time, and he really liked it. He took a nice nap, and when he was awake he carried on a lovely conversation with the back of Kev's head! This will be his new mode of transportation, me thinks! Oh, and the kicker of today is that we get to turn our clocks back and get an extra hour of sleep. Bummer for the shorter days, but whoo-hoo for the longer nights!
However, in spite of this mild annoyance, we had a fun family day. A few towns over in a little place called "Peddler's Village" there are a whole bunch of fun little shops and stores, neat little walkways with scarecrows everywhere, and just an all around pretty area to be outside all day. This weekend they are celebrating Apple Festival, so we went and rambled all around and sampled some of the apple wares. Quite delish, I must say.....I think.....everything taked a little bit like cardboard today....but the texture was nice!
It was a bit on the chilly side, but overall, very nice. We wore Jesse in the backpack for the first time, and he really liked it. He took a nice nap, and when he was awake he carried on a lovely conversation with the back of Kev's head! This will be his new mode of transportation, me thinks! Oh, and the kicker of today is that we get to turn our clocks back and get an extra hour of sleep. Bummer for the shorter days, but whoo-hoo for the longer nights!
Feeling Uninspired.....
Yet, it's been awhile since I last posted and I must stay with my new habit of at least posting once a week!
Had some lovely chats with friends from away this past week - Shannon, Esther, and Rachey. That's always nice! I love catching up and learning about the new things going on in everyone's life.
We also had a church retreat this past weekend which was really wonderful and refreshing. The boys did great and Jesse took fabulous naps, so that was wonderful! I was chatting with my pastor's wife and telling her how well Jesse sleeps when the room is pitch dark and completely quiet! Although not a whole lot can be done about the noise except for a few fans, my pastor's wife is now making me blackout curtains that will make his room completely dark. I am soooo excited! Hopefully, this will help in elongating some of those naps!
I guess what I've been really thinking about tonight is someone who comes and goes out of my life who I am constantly absolutely flabbergasted with. This person completely blows me away with the comments they make about people. I am so floored by the disrespect and crassness (is that a word?) that I am left literally reeling and speechless. This person claims to be so godly and in love with the Lord, yet I cannot believe some things that fly out of their mouth. I fear confrontation worse than death and this person COMPLETELY intimidates me. But, I tell you what - if I had the guts to say what I feel needs to be said...man oh man. One of these days, if they catch me sleepless and feeling she-bearish about those I love, they may just get their ears peeled back! I'm really praying about how to handle this......will keep you posted.
Had some lovely chats with friends from away this past week - Shannon, Esther, and Rachey. That's always nice! I love catching up and learning about the new things going on in everyone's life.
We also had a church retreat this past weekend which was really wonderful and refreshing. The boys did great and Jesse took fabulous naps, so that was wonderful! I was chatting with my pastor's wife and telling her how well Jesse sleeps when the room is pitch dark and completely quiet! Although not a whole lot can be done about the noise except for a few fans, my pastor's wife is now making me blackout curtains that will make his room completely dark. I am soooo excited! Hopefully, this will help in elongating some of those naps!
I guess what I've been really thinking about tonight is someone who comes and goes out of my life who I am constantly absolutely flabbergasted with. This person completely blows me away with the comments they make about people. I am so floored by the disrespect and crassness (is that a word?) that I am left literally reeling and speechless. This person claims to be so godly and in love with the Lord, yet I cannot believe some things that fly out of their mouth. I fear confrontation worse than death and this person COMPLETELY intimidates me. But, I tell you what - if I had the guts to say what I feel needs to be said...man oh man. One of these days, if they catch me sleepless and feeling she-bearish about those I love, they may just get their ears peeled back! I'm really praying about how to handle this......will keep you posted.
Changing My Perspective
So, pretty much since Jesse's birth, my goal has been to get his napping schedule to line up to be the same as Kaden's, so that in the afternoon I'll have a little bit of solitude for myself. While I don't think this is necessarily an unhealthy goal - I actually think that in the end, some days it makes me a better mom! - I do think that I have been focusing on this a little too heavily, lately.
I have so badly wanted their naps to line up that I have allowed myself to get really frustrated and even a wee bit resentful at times when I only get snippets of my day to myself. While we were away on vacation, Kev and I talked about this some, and I've talked about it with the Lord a whole lot more. In these past couple of days I've tried to totally change my perspective on this whole idea. While I am still trying to get their naps to line up somewhat, I am now being really intentional to enjoy the one on one time that I get with each boy when the other is napping. Kaden is awake during two of Jesse's naps. So, for one of those naps I make an effort to just be with him and do what he likes to do - play K'Nex, play picnic, read books, do puzzles, have a tea party (it's a little boy set, okay?) - whatever. And then for Jesse's other nap I try to get things accomplished while still visiting and focusing on Kaden through our conversation. Then, while Jesse is awake during Kaden's nap, he and I spend lots of time snuggling and playing rather than lugging him around under one arm and trying to do whatever I can with the other!
I'm also finding that both boys do much better at being by themselves for awhile after I spend some quality time with them. It's like their little love tanks just need to get totally filled up and then they're good to go on their own for awhile! This whole change of focus and perspective has also helped me feel like I'm being a better mom as I really am taking the time to focus on what is truly important in my life!
Another bonus: Kev is going to start giving me one afternoon a week to go out for a couple of hours while he stays home and plays with the boys! I'm going to resist the urge on these occasions to JUST play, and I'm going to go FIRST to a cozy little place where I'll order a yummy coffee and have some quality (and uninterrupted a bajillion times) time with the Lord!
Rewards all the way around!
I have so badly wanted their naps to line up that I have allowed myself to get really frustrated and even a wee bit resentful at times when I only get snippets of my day to myself. While we were away on vacation, Kev and I talked about this some, and I've talked about it with the Lord a whole lot more. In these past couple of days I've tried to totally change my perspective on this whole idea. While I am still trying to get their naps to line up somewhat, I am now being really intentional to enjoy the one on one time that I get with each boy when the other is napping. Kaden is awake during two of Jesse's naps. So, for one of those naps I make an effort to just be with him and do what he likes to do - play K'Nex, play picnic, read books, do puzzles, have a tea party (it's a little boy set, okay?) - whatever. And then for Jesse's other nap I try to get things accomplished while still visiting and focusing on Kaden through our conversation. Then, while Jesse is awake during Kaden's nap, he and I spend lots of time snuggling and playing rather than lugging him around under one arm and trying to do whatever I can with the other!
I'm also finding that both boys do much better at being by themselves for awhile after I spend some quality time with them. It's like their little love tanks just need to get totally filled up and then they're good to go on their own for awhile! This whole change of focus and perspective has also helped me feel like I'm being a better mom as I really am taking the time to focus on what is truly important in my life!
Another bonus: Kev is going to start giving me one afternoon a week to go out for a couple of hours while he stays home and plays with the boys! I'm going to resist the urge on these occasions to JUST play, and I'm going to go FIRST to a cozy little place where I'll order a yummy coffee and have some quality (and uninterrupted a bajillion times) time with the Lord!
Rewards all the way around!
Reconnecting
I had a nice gift today - well, two really - all wrapped up in one! I've been wanting to visit with my friend Shannon for awhile - I've owed her a phone message for some time now, but my days are always so crazy with Jesse. So while Kaden was napping, just as soon as I laid Jesse down, I literally raced to the phone to call her. There's no guarantees these days for how long my wee one stays down, so I figured I wouldn't have much time. Anyhoo, we had a delightful conversation that just kept stretching on and on, and suddenly I looked down at my watch and realized that we had talked for a LONG time and Jesse was STILL NAPPING! Whew! Good times! My Jesse-doo napped for almost two hours this afternoon - a record for him. I think it's probably due to his shots yesterday so I'm not getting my hopes up. But, the Lord gave me a really nice gift in allowing me to have a wonderful catch up visit without tears and interruptions. (Well, once Kaden woke up there were several interruptions - and actually a few tears now that I think of it because he bonked his head on the table) - but overall, it was quite lovely and oh so nice to catch up with this dear friend. Shannie - you are AWESOME through and through. An inspiration to me in many ways - truly. Miss you and love you!
Kaden Q. Bookaroo
I have been craving some quality time with my oldest lately where I'm not holding Jesse with one arm or where we're not listening to Jesse's cries in the background. Last evening, quite unexpectedly we got this! Jesse had just had his shots, so I fully expected him to be extra clingy and crabby. Kev was hunting all afternoon and evening, so I was expecting a long, drawn out evening where I would just have to endure!
However, Jesse was sooo mellow all afternoon and evening. It was so nice! We all went for a long walk and Kaden and I had fun telling stories and just talking about what we were seeing as we were walking. Jesse just sat and chewed on some rings - no squawking or fussing. It was lovely! Then, on our way home, we stopped off at a little playground next door and ran around, slid down the slippy slides, and played pretend for about a half hour while Jesse just sat in his stroller and watched us! After Jesse went to sleep we painted for a long time and then sat out on the front steps and lit sparklers while we waited for Daddy to get home. It was so nice, and Kaden kept saying: "I'm so excited! This is so much fun!"
His little love language is totally quality time, and he doesn't ask for much when Jesse is awake. He adores his little brother and has never shown signs of jealousy or insecurity. But I could tell that he was totally eating up that uninterrupted one on one time last night. Me too. I've missed him.
However, Jesse was sooo mellow all afternoon and evening. It was so nice! We all went for a long walk and Kaden and I had fun telling stories and just talking about what we were seeing as we were walking. Jesse just sat and chewed on some rings - no squawking or fussing. It was lovely! Then, on our way home, we stopped off at a little playground next door and ran around, slid down the slippy slides, and played pretend for about a half hour while Jesse just sat in his stroller and watched us! After Jesse went to sleep we painted for a long time and then sat out on the front steps and lit sparklers while we waited for Daddy to get home. It was so nice, and Kaden kept saying: "I'm so excited! This is so much fun!"
His little love language is totally quality time, and he doesn't ask for much when Jesse is awake. He adores his little brother and has never shown signs of jealousy or insecurity. But I could tell that he was totally eating up that uninterrupted one on one time last night. Me too. I've missed him.
In the Mood to Cull!
Every few weeks this irresistable urge comes over me to throw things away! I cannot stand clutter, and living in this small space quite frequently gives me the feeling of our walls beginning to close in on me. Therefore, to solve this dilemma - I must purge! Kev has been duly warned - when I get in these moods, I can go a little crazy. So, I've been given strict instructions not to throw away anything that is his OR OURS. He didn't clarify this last time, and I got rid of tons of "our" stuff that he was not overly enthralled with me about.
I've always said that I'll let my kids be kids and I will let them play and build forts and leave train sets out etc., but every once in awhile I have to have my place back to myself. This morning, Kaden had his whole train set out in his room - which is fine - his room is his room. But, He also had his entire K'NEX set out with the hundreds of parts strewn all over the floor, he'd built a "bridge" with all of our couch cushions, and he had every single one of his little matchbox cars lined up beside the bridge. That's fine - that's a normal day for us. Usually, he's pretty good about getting one or two things out and then putting them away before playing with other things, but once in awhile he loves to be surrounded by his treasures, and that's fine.
But, for those few hours of quiet napping, I like to put everything back in its place and have my home be the way I like it! Clean and uncluttered. :0) Anyway, when I start to feel this way, I just haul out an empty box, walk through every room of my apartment, and fill this box with things that I never use, that I don't like, or that I don't need. Then I seal it up, mark "Yard Sale" on it and bask in the joy of uncluttering a bit!
I may have problems, but I really do love chucking things. I love simplicity. I love openness and emptiness. And since we've once again brought up the big and necessary baby things that give me sanity such as exersaucers, johnny jump ups, and play mats, I feel the need to get rid of other things! I just filled not one, but TWO boxes of "stuff"; I also hung a couple of bittersweet wreaths up on my walls, rearranged some cupboards, organized a closet, and hung some cute black and white candids up of the boys.
Now I'm just savoring the quietness and neatness, the simplicity and orderliness.....for a few more minutes anyway! Is it a losing battle that I'm fighting? Maybe! But we're all happy! The boys get to be boys and play at will, and I get to organize, throw, and rearrange.......and then for a few minutes each afternoon just sit and savor!
I've always said that I'll let my kids be kids and I will let them play and build forts and leave train sets out etc., but every once in awhile I have to have my place back to myself. This morning, Kaden had his whole train set out in his room - which is fine - his room is his room. But, He also had his entire K'NEX set out with the hundreds of parts strewn all over the floor, he'd built a "bridge" with all of our couch cushions, and he had every single one of his little matchbox cars lined up beside the bridge. That's fine - that's a normal day for us. Usually, he's pretty good about getting one or two things out and then putting them away before playing with other things, but once in awhile he loves to be surrounded by his treasures, and that's fine.
But, for those few hours of quiet napping, I like to put everything back in its place and have my home be the way I like it! Clean and uncluttered. :0) Anyway, when I start to feel this way, I just haul out an empty box, walk through every room of my apartment, and fill this box with things that I never use, that I don't like, or that I don't need. Then I seal it up, mark "Yard Sale" on it and bask in the joy of uncluttering a bit!
I may have problems, but I really do love chucking things. I love simplicity. I love openness and emptiness. And since we've once again brought up the big and necessary baby things that give me sanity such as exersaucers, johnny jump ups, and play mats, I feel the need to get rid of other things! I just filled not one, but TWO boxes of "stuff"; I also hung a couple of bittersweet wreaths up on my walls, rearranged some cupboards, organized a closet, and hung some cute black and white candids up of the boys.
Now I'm just savoring the quietness and neatness, the simplicity and orderliness.....for a few more minutes anyway! Is it a losing battle that I'm fighting? Maybe! But we're all happy! The boys get to be boys and play at will, and I get to organize, throw, and rearrange.......and then for a few minutes each afternoon just sit and savor!
Jesse Update Once Again....
Jesse had his four month check-up today. Joy unspeakable. I am pleased and proud to announce that he is no longer skyrocketing off the charts - he's still off, mind you - but he's "leveling" according to the pediatrician. His head is average, his length is in the 90%, and his weight is 19.9 pounds - the poundage of an average eight month old! But hey - he's leveling!
He had three shots today. We opted out of a couple of the ones that they recommend, but three has still served to give us quite the little grumpy monkey. His reactions to shots have been so different than Kaden's. Quite funny, actually. Kaden would look at us like we utterly betrayed him and then he'd cry as though his heart was breaking. Jesse screams - quite loudly - at the onslaught of the shots, and then proceeds to cry - madly and glare at the nurse until she leaves the room! As soon as she leaves, he stops, puts his thumb in his mouth, and then grumbles to himself for a few more minutes until he snaps out of it!
Okay, I'm off. He's starting to give me the look that he gave our little nurse.
He had three shots today. We opted out of a couple of the ones that they recommend, but three has still served to give us quite the little grumpy monkey. His reactions to shots have been so different than Kaden's. Quite funny, actually. Kaden would look at us like we utterly betrayed him and then he'd cry as though his heart was breaking. Jesse screams - quite loudly - at the onslaught of the shots, and then proceeds to cry - madly and glare at the nurse until she leaves the room! As soon as she leaves, he stops, puts his thumb in his mouth, and then grumbles to himself for a few more minutes until he snaps out of it!
Okay, I'm off. He's starting to give me the look that he gave our little nurse.
Out of the Loop!
Well, in our tenure here as PBU students, I have managed to successfully embarass myself quite royally with some pretty important staff members on campus. One day a few weeks ago, Kaden and I were hanging outside while Jesse napped, and I had our door propped open so I could hear him if he cried. All Penndel residents have been instructed to never leave our doors propped open for long periods of time because there is a rather shady apartment complex next door to ours. While we were playing on the sidewalk, a man came over and asked if I was the one who had opened the door and asked if I planned on keeping it open. When I told him why I had it opened and that I intended to stay right on the front sidewalk within hearing distance, he declared it to be fine but then continued to warn me of the dangers and the importance of being safe. I expressed my appreciation for his concern and then innocently asked if he lived around here or if he worked here. He kind of gave me a half smile and responded: "Um, yes. I'm the head of security." Oh goodness. That means he's also the guy who used to work for the FBI! I apologized and said that I don't really know much staff as I'm not in the typical undergrad program with most students. He asked who I was and I told him my name and then said: "My husband is Kevin. He's in the grad program here." To which this nice man nodded and slowly smiled: "Oh yes.....I know Kevin." Immediately I remember Kev's little hunting escapade on campus last year where all of security was notified. I could feel myself blushing and I nervously laughed: "I'm sure you do!" We both just smiled, and he walked away. Brother!
Then, just yesterday, I was at a soccer game and some friends of ours walked over with this man. They were visiting for awhile beside me, and at one point he looked at me and said hello. Charlotte always teases me for never introducing her to people that are with me, so I wanted to get her back. I held out my hand to this "stranger" and said: "Hi. I'm Amy. I'll introduce myself because Charlotte never introduces me to her friends." Charlotte looked mortified, but the man just graciously smiled and said: "Hello. I'm Todd Williams." Okay....for those of you who are not from here - Todd Williams in the president of our school! He's kind of "the man." Not only did I already make myself look like an idiot but not knowing who he is, but I just kept on digging a hole for myself and continued with: "Oh man. I'm sorry - I'm kind of out of the loop around here. Are you our new principal?" Everyone died laughing and Charlotte said, "Um, Amy - at colleges we call them "Presidents," not "Principals!" Good grief.
So Kev is known around these parts for being the illegal hunter who got the Penndel police and the PBU security involved last fall. Now I'm the blond ditz who acts like the fruit loop in front of some of the top dogs around here!
Then, just yesterday, I was at a soccer game and some friends of ours walked over with this man. They were visiting for awhile beside me, and at one point he looked at me and said hello. Charlotte always teases me for never introducing her to people that are with me, so I wanted to get her back. I held out my hand to this "stranger" and said: "Hi. I'm Amy. I'll introduce myself because Charlotte never introduces me to her friends." Charlotte looked mortified, but the man just graciously smiled and said: "Hello. I'm Todd Williams." Okay....for those of you who are not from here - Todd Williams in the president of our school! He's kind of "the man." Not only did I already make myself look like an idiot but not knowing who he is, but I just kept on digging a hole for myself and continued with: "Oh man. I'm sorry - I'm kind of out of the loop around here. Are you our new principal?" Everyone died laughing and Charlotte said, "Um, Amy - at colleges we call them "Presidents," not "Principals!" Good grief.
So Kev is known around these parts for being the illegal hunter who got the Penndel police and the PBU security involved last fall. Now I'm the blond ditz who acts like the fruit loop in front of some of the top dogs around here!
Still Refreshed.....Yet VERY Frazzled!
Our Jesse seems to have fallen back into a bit of a funk lately. He is napping wretchedly, so he is perpetually tired and grumpy. And now that he is able to flip himself over onto his tummy, he wakes up all throughout the night upset that he can't get back over onto his back. He's been consistently sleeping through the night for 10-14 hours since week six, but these past few weeks, he's been getting up anywhere from one to five times a night! He is also becoming quite the screamer! Whew - it literally curls your toes when he is MAD!! So, we've been doing lots of talking about our game plan strategy! He wakes up from a nap after only 30-40 minutes of sleep sobbing and exhausted, but he just can't seem to get himself back to sleep again. Hmmm. We'll keep you posted on how we plan to keep our sanity! It's amazing - Kaden is completely able to sleep through the tears. I feel so badly for them both, but such is life in an apartment!
Refreshed!
We had such a fun family vacay in Lancaster County this past week. No agenda really, only plans to connect and play as a family. And play we did.
Our hotel had a little kiddie pool area with sprinklers and a mini waterslide that Kaden absolutely loved. Jesse got into the water as well, for the first time, and really loved it. It was so cute - he wasn't fazed a bit if water got splashed in his face or when we almost totally submerged him! We also went on a buggy ride, walked through a corn maze, petted farm animals, did a little shopping, poked around some antique stores, and ate ourselves into oblivion. Good times!
Jesse didn't do so well in his hotel crib though, so for much of most nights, he was in bed with us. It was also interesting trying to get both boys to have their naps in the same room, as well. At home - Jesse naps in a pack 'n play in our room. So, there were a few frazzly moments, but all in all, it really was a really great time.
I love getting away. I love the conversations we have in the car, I love the uninterrupted and undistracted time we have with the boys, and I just really love the break from life for awhile. It's nice to get away and refocus. Much needed.
Our hotel had a little kiddie pool area with sprinklers and a mini waterslide that Kaden absolutely loved. Jesse got into the water as well, for the first time, and really loved it. It was so cute - he wasn't fazed a bit if water got splashed in his face or when we almost totally submerged him! We also went on a buggy ride, walked through a corn maze, petted farm animals, did a little shopping, poked around some antique stores, and ate ourselves into oblivion. Good times!
Jesse didn't do so well in his hotel crib though, so for much of most nights, he was in bed with us. It was also interesting trying to get both boys to have their naps in the same room, as well. At home - Jesse naps in a pack 'n play in our room. So, there were a few frazzly moments, but all in all, it really was a really great time.
I love getting away. I love the conversations we have in the car, I love the uninterrupted and undistracted time we have with the boys, and I just really love the break from life for awhile. It's nice to get away and refocus. Much needed.
Bad Day
Whew!
Today was crazy. Here's why:
~ Jesse cried for most of the day and only took 2 twenty minute naps.
~ I'm missing my friend who just moved away.
~ I washed Kaden's new jacket that we got on a yard sale and somehow ripped a hole in it.
~ In doing laundry, I also somehow flooded our laundry room floor.
~ Jesse had a diaper blowout that destroyed his entire outfit AND Kaden's bedding.
~ .......Just after I had done our laundry!
~ Our house has been in chaos all day as I'm trying to pack, and I hate messiness.
~ I told a friend no to babysitting and am feeling guilty about it.
~ And I trashed the coleslaw that Kev wanted to eat! (Don't feel too bad about that one, but he was irritated! :0)
Yup. It's been one of those days.
HOWEVER......Right now I'm feeling great. Know why? We are going to Lancaster for three nights and are leaving first thing in the morning! We're just feeling the need to get away for a few days and have some family bonding time away from life for a bit. I can't wait. We have absolutely no agenda - we just want to be together and play - with no work and no distractions.
Sweet sanity.
Today was crazy. Here's why:
~ Jesse cried for most of the day and only took 2 twenty minute naps.
~ I'm missing my friend who just moved away.
~ I washed Kaden's new jacket that we got on a yard sale and somehow ripped a hole in it.
~ In doing laundry, I also somehow flooded our laundry room floor.
~ Jesse had a diaper blowout that destroyed his entire outfit AND Kaden's bedding.
~ .......Just after I had done our laundry!
~ Our house has been in chaos all day as I'm trying to pack, and I hate messiness.
~ I told a friend no to babysitting and am feeling guilty about it.
~ And I trashed the coleslaw that Kev wanted to eat! (Don't feel too bad about that one, but he was irritated! :0)
Yup. It's been one of those days.
HOWEVER......Right now I'm feeling great. Know why? We are going to Lancaster for three nights and are leaving first thing in the morning! We're just feeling the need to get away for a few days and have some family bonding time away from life for a bit. I can't wait. We have absolutely no agenda - we just want to be together and play - with no work and no distractions.
Sweet sanity.
Fall is in the Air
Finally!
I think that this is my most favorite time of year. Everything is so bright and crisp, and the air smells so yummy. I love decorating our front steps with different kinds of funky pumpkins and gourds, and what I really love most of all is........BITTERSWEET!
Truly - if I knew how to put pictures up on this blog, I would. I really need to get Kev to show me how to do this. I'm quite computer illiterate, but I'm sure I could figure out how to post some pics. I love love love love love collecting bittersweet berries and making all kinds of crazy wreaths and swags. I love sticking them in sap buckets with other sticks and branches and putting them all over the place. The berries are poisonous to both animals and babies, so one must be quite careful where they display them, but when placed properly - they are just beautious!
Kev dreads this time of year because I'm always on the lookout for the stuff and I'm always begging him to stop and help me wade through the thorns and climb up the trees to get the ones that are the most plump and full. I totally love bringing the outdoors inside. It's my most favorite way to decorate - sticks, leaves, rocks, and berries. I love it!
People out here aren't quite sure what to think of me, but I have at least one converter....my dear friend Rachel who just left me and moved away. So, my friend - you said you'd book a ticket when the bittersweet came on.....come on back for a visit and we shall go traipsing through the forest! Tis the season!
I think that this is my most favorite time of year. Everything is so bright and crisp, and the air smells so yummy. I love decorating our front steps with different kinds of funky pumpkins and gourds, and what I really love most of all is........BITTERSWEET!
Truly - if I knew how to put pictures up on this blog, I would. I really need to get Kev to show me how to do this. I'm quite computer illiterate, but I'm sure I could figure out how to post some pics. I love love love love love collecting bittersweet berries and making all kinds of crazy wreaths and swags. I love sticking them in sap buckets with other sticks and branches and putting them all over the place. The berries are poisonous to both animals and babies, so one must be quite careful where they display them, but when placed properly - they are just beautious!
Kev dreads this time of year because I'm always on the lookout for the stuff and I'm always begging him to stop and help me wade through the thorns and climb up the trees to get the ones that are the most plump and full. I totally love bringing the outdoors inside. It's my most favorite way to decorate - sticks, leaves, rocks, and berries. I love it!
People out here aren't quite sure what to think of me, but I have at least one converter....my dear friend Rachel who just left me and moved away. So, my friend - you said you'd book a ticket when the bittersweet came on.....come on back for a visit and we shall go traipsing through the forest! Tis the season!
Did I Say I Wanted More Kids???
What I REALLY meant to say was that I want more SLEEP!!!!!
Holy Blast, this girl is pooped. For some reason the past couple of nights my boys are not sleeping well. Last night, Kaden was weepy and needy so we pulled him into bed with us. This child does not sleep quietly or still, so he is constantly slinging his legs over me and rolling over and over. Then, from about 1:00 a.m. on Jesse kept waking up every hour on the hour! He would roll over onto his belly and then freak out because he couldn't roll back over. I'd rush into his room because I didn't want to wake up Mom. Then I'd rush back to bed and try to fall back asleep because I was so tired! Then, one time while I was in the boy's room trying to soothe Jesse, Kaden rolled over and fell out of OUR bed! Tons of tears and a huge bump ensued. Oh, it just kept getting better and better! Ah well! :)
They're both napping now, so peace one again reigns. Maybe I WILL have another some day......
Holy Blast, this girl is pooped. For some reason the past couple of nights my boys are not sleeping well. Last night, Kaden was weepy and needy so we pulled him into bed with us. This child does not sleep quietly or still, so he is constantly slinging his legs over me and rolling over and over. Then, from about 1:00 a.m. on Jesse kept waking up every hour on the hour! He would roll over onto his belly and then freak out because he couldn't roll back over. I'd rush into his room because I didn't want to wake up Mom. Then I'd rush back to bed and try to fall back asleep because I was so tired! Then, one time while I was in the boy's room trying to soothe Jesse, Kaden rolled over and fell out of OUR bed! Tons of tears and a huge bump ensued. Oh, it just kept getting better and better! Ah well! :)
They're both napping now, so peace one again reigns. Maybe I WILL have another some day......
Take the Good with the Bad
Wow! I haven't written for awhile. There have been so many things going on my life right now that I feel like I want to write about. Both really great and really yucky! :0)
Good things first!
My Mom is here for an unexpected visit. She caught a ride down with a couple from my church up home who are on vacation, so we get to have a wonderful week together. This is so fun, because we both expected that the next time we'd see each other would be over the Christmas season, and that's going to be CRAZY because my little bro is getting married just a week after Christmas.
My little Jesse bear is an ENTIRELY different little boy that he was even a couple of weeks ago. I was hoping this would happen. I was praying it would happen. And so far - it's true! For some reason, we give birth to WRECKS who can't shake it off until they hit three or four months of age. He is now giving me two pretty decent naps - with very little crying as he goes down, and he is in bed for the night at 6:30! He is just so pleasant and content now! Tons of smiles and coos, and although he was always quite yummy - man, we REALLY like him now!
Other things.....I was trained to be a Clarion Consultant last week. I have tons to write about this, but just let me say that I love love love what I am learning about this. I'm excited about how the Lord may use this in Kev's and my future, and I'm loving how He is using it to change people's lives.
One more - on Kev's fall break in two weeks, he is whisking our little family away for a couple of nights to Lancaster - meals and pool included. WE CANNOT WAIT!!!
Okay, now for the yucky yucky happenings here....
Two of our dearest friends who have lived with us in this complex for as long as we have are moving next Friday. Kev and I will be the last of the "originals" and the ONLY ones with kids. I am SO bummed and I fully intend to be devastated and depressed when they leave. Rachel and I see each other just about every day, we always go for walks together, and we have been raising our youngest babies together since birth. Ahhh, I feel sick to my stomach thinking about her moving.....We all knew that this was a transient place for all of us to be. It's just not fun when everyone leaves before you do. Blech.
Good things first!
My Mom is here for an unexpected visit. She caught a ride down with a couple from my church up home who are on vacation, so we get to have a wonderful week together. This is so fun, because we both expected that the next time we'd see each other would be over the Christmas season, and that's going to be CRAZY because my little bro is getting married just a week after Christmas.
My little Jesse bear is an ENTIRELY different little boy that he was even a couple of weeks ago. I was hoping this would happen. I was praying it would happen. And so far - it's true! For some reason, we give birth to WRECKS who can't shake it off until they hit three or four months of age. He is now giving me two pretty decent naps - with very little crying as he goes down, and he is in bed for the night at 6:30! He is just so pleasant and content now! Tons of smiles and coos, and although he was always quite yummy - man, we REALLY like him now!
Other things.....I was trained to be a Clarion Consultant last week. I have tons to write about this, but just let me say that I love love love what I am learning about this. I'm excited about how the Lord may use this in Kev's and my future, and I'm loving how He is using it to change people's lives.
One more - on Kev's fall break in two weeks, he is whisking our little family away for a couple of nights to Lancaster - meals and pool included. WE CANNOT WAIT!!!
Okay, now for the yucky yucky happenings here....
Two of our dearest friends who have lived with us in this complex for as long as we have are moving next Friday. Kev and I will be the last of the "originals" and the ONLY ones with kids. I am SO bummed and I fully intend to be devastated and depressed when they leave. Rachel and I see each other just about every day, we always go for walks together, and we have been raising our youngest babies together since birth. Ahhh, I feel sick to my stomach thinking about her moving.....We all knew that this was a transient place for all of us to be. It's just not fun when everyone leaves before you do. Blech.
Shleepy Tired
....and if I had to admit it....a wee bit crabby.
Whew! Both of my boys had a rough night last night - for whatever reason - so I was awakened from a (VERY) deep slumber about six times. Not my fave. This girl loves her sleep. So, I feel like I'm functioning in a bit of a fog today.
One thing that I'm learning with two kiddos is that I need to give myself more grace and cut myself a little more slack than I used to. For example: the plan for supper tonight was going to be homemade chicken pot pie, potato rolls, and some sort of fancy delish dessert as Kev's friend has arrived. Instead, we're having fajitas and rice, and maybe cookies if I can get around to making them. Before two, my house would have been immaculate before company arrived. Last night I did a ten minute run through with the vac and gave a swipe at the furniture in the living room. Today I did the dishes in the sink and called it good. Before two, if a friend asked me to babysit on the day company was arriving I would never have dreamed saying yes. Today I thought, "Why not? I'm already half crazy - might as well go all the way!" Yup. I'm just trying to embrace the chaos and just roll with it. Some days are better than others, but I'm learning that I can go a long way in helping myself not get too crazy!
Whew! Both of my boys had a rough night last night - for whatever reason - so I was awakened from a (VERY) deep slumber about six times. Not my fave. This girl loves her sleep. So, I feel like I'm functioning in a bit of a fog today.
One thing that I'm learning with two kiddos is that I need to give myself more grace and cut myself a little more slack than I used to. For example: the plan for supper tonight was going to be homemade chicken pot pie, potato rolls, and some sort of fancy delish dessert as Kev's friend has arrived. Instead, we're having fajitas and rice, and maybe cookies if I can get around to making them. Before two, my house would have been immaculate before company arrived. Last night I did a ten minute run through with the vac and gave a swipe at the furniture in the living room. Today I did the dishes in the sink and called it good. Before two, if a friend asked me to babysit on the day company was arriving I would never have dreamed saying yes. Today I thought, "Why not? I'm already half crazy - might as well go all the way!" Yup. I'm just trying to embrace the chaos and just roll with it. Some days are better than others, but I'm learning that I can go a long way in helping myself not get too crazy!
Big Doin's This Week!
It's gonna be a busy week - but such a good one!
First things first - yesterday Jesse gave his Momma a full belly laugh which was SO cute and yummy! (Never mind the fact that I'm the third person he's given it too - not the first - but hey....I'm secure in my Mommyhood!) So that was just precious!
But, on to the busyness of the week....
Well, on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday I'm getting trained to be a "Clarion Consultant." It's a whole involved leadership and team development process. Kev's already been trained, it's hugely impacted his life, and he loves it. So, I'm just excited to be able to travel this road with him and do it together. Once I'm trained, we'll actually be taking two of our friends through it as a married couple, so that will be great experience for me as an "Apprentice" and tons of fun, as well.
Because of this training, Kev's good friend Eric will be flying in from Florida to be trained as well, so that will be really fun. AND it's potato harvest up home (yup, they still have it) so Mom is going to be catching a ride down with a family up home, and she's coming to visit us for the whole week! GOOD TIMES! She'll get some good Grammy time in, and Kev and I might even get a date out of it!
And the icing on the cake of this week......the hubbies are watching the kids while my friend Rach and I get dinner and a movie tonight. Yup...it's gonna be rough....
First things first - yesterday Jesse gave his Momma a full belly laugh which was SO cute and yummy! (Never mind the fact that I'm the third person he's given it too - not the first - but hey....I'm secure in my Mommyhood!) So that was just precious!
But, on to the busyness of the week....
Well, on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday I'm getting trained to be a "Clarion Consultant." It's a whole involved leadership and team development process. Kev's already been trained, it's hugely impacted his life, and he loves it. So, I'm just excited to be able to travel this road with him and do it together. Once I'm trained, we'll actually be taking two of our friends through it as a married couple, so that will be great experience for me as an "Apprentice" and tons of fun, as well.
Because of this training, Kev's good friend Eric will be flying in from Florida to be trained as well, so that will be really fun. AND it's potato harvest up home (yup, they still have it) so Mom is going to be catching a ride down with a family up home, and she's coming to visit us for the whole week! GOOD TIMES! She'll get some good Grammy time in, and Kev and I might even get a date out of it!
And the icing on the cake of this week......the hubbies are watching the kids while my friend Rach and I get dinner and a movie tonight. Yup...it's gonna be rough....
Another Family Day
Today for our family day we decided to take a drive over to the Lancaster area. Both Kev and I absolutely love it over there - it's very soothing and calming to our souls. So peaceful, so quiet - so much land...and cows...and horses...and fresh produce.....and yummy farm smells. I really love the smell of barns and manure. Weird, eh?
It got us thinking about how much we'd love to own land again someday - lots of land if we're really dreaming. There is nothing that I would love more than to have acres of fields and wild flowers, a garden, a little stream....and I've always wanted really cute chickens that could just roam free all across our land!
I want my kids to grow up being able to just run around outside and to be able to roam and explore and conquer and imagine fun worlds! I'm getting a wee bit tired of the same old backyard with the same few rocks that we can turn over to find the same worms that we let go last week! This is why I love our trips to Lancaster. We just drive and dream and stop at all the little local farm stands to sample their yummy - and sometimes still dirty - produce. I love it!
It refreshes me and refocuses me so nicely - even with Jesse screaming much of the trip home! Good times......
It got us thinking about how much we'd love to own land again someday - lots of land if we're really dreaming. There is nothing that I would love more than to have acres of fields and wild flowers, a garden, a little stream....and I've always wanted really cute chickens that could just roam free all across our land!
I want my kids to grow up being able to just run around outside and to be able to roam and explore and conquer and imagine fun worlds! I'm getting a wee bit tired of the same old backyard with the same few rocks that we can turn over to find the same worms that we let go last week! This is why I love our trips to Lancaster. We just drive and dream and stop at all the little local farm stands to sample their yummy - and sometimes still dirty - produce. I love it!
It refreshes me and refocuses me so nicely - even with Jesse screaming much of the trip home! Good times......
Train 'Em Young!
As hunting season is upon us, I've been wondering what a year's difference will make with our little Kaden. Now that he's three and he understands a bit more about life, will it bother him if he sees that Daddy has shot a deer? How will the sight of blood affect him? Will it make him sad if he sees an animal that we read about all the time in his story books dead on our rooftop? You know - these are questions that I need to think through in order to prepare him for if and when the time comes!! His little heart is so tender and sensitive, I want to make sure that this won't bother him. As his Mommy, I want to protect him from unnecessary sorrow!
Well.....as we were driving through Core Creek Park last night, three deer ran across the road directly in front of us. Kaden pipes up from the backseat: "Hey, Daddy! Wouldn't it be fun to shoot one of those deer?"
Hm. He'll be fine.
Kev's so proud.
Well.....as we were driving through Core Creek Park last night, three deer ran across the road directly in front of us. Kaden pipes up from the backseat: "Hey, Daddy! Wouldn't it be fun to shoot one of those deer?"
Hm. He'll be fine.
Kev's so proud.
The Days Are a Blur
It's been awhile since I've updated. Lately, I can't seem to get the boys on the same nap schedule so I always have one awake these days. With Jesse being so "high maintenance," I really am trying to give Kaden my undivided attention during Jesse's naps so that he doesn't start feeling neglected! Because of this, my days are just kind of all blending together!
It's starting to feel a little bit like fall around here. It's still pretty warm, but the humidity is gone, and the days are just gorgeous. We're outside as much as we can be. Lots of walks, trips to parks, and bug & worm catching. Last night, Kev taught Kaden how to hit a wiffle ball out back. That was pretty cute! He was pretty proud of himself for hitting the ball so much, and he told me quite seriously, "Mommy, you're not very good at this!" And when Daddy tucked him into bed, he reiterated his point with: "Mommy's not a good as we are!" It's true.....I rot at the whole hand/eye coordination thing!
Other news: hunting season is upon us! Between bow hunting and rifle season, Kev is able to hunt five or six months out here! The man is stoked! He even convinced two husbands in our complex to take hunter's safety this fall. It's possible for him to shoot two deer out here, so we may have meat coming out our ears! I'm sure he'll post some pics for you, Ang! None of the boys - but hey, a deer is just as good, eh?! :0)
It's starting to feel a little bit like fall around here. It's still pretty warm, but the humidity is gone, and the days are just gorgeous. We're outside as much as we can be. Lots of walks, trips to parks, and bug & worm catching. Last night, Kev taught Kaden how to hit a wiffle ball out back. That was pretty cute! He was pretty proud of himself for hitting the ball so much, and he told me quite seriously, "Mommy, you're not very good at this!" And when Daddy tucked him into bed, he reiterated his point with: "Mommy's not a good as we are!" It's true.....I rot at the whole hand/eye coordination thing!
Other news: hunting season is upon us! Between bow hunting and rifle season, Kev is able to hunt five or six months out here! The man is stoked! He even convinced two husbands in our complex to take hunter's safety this fall. It's possible for him to shoot two deer out here, so we may have meat coming out our ears! I'm sure he'll post some pics for you, Ang! None of the boys - but hey, a deer is just as good, eh?! :0)
Update
We took Jesse to the doctor yesterday because he's been constipated for about two weeks. I took some measures last week to get him to go, but it has now been another eight days. So, we decided it was time to seek a professional before I took any other measures upon myself. Anyway, if ever your kids get constipated, here's the conclusion: an ounce of prune juice with an ounce of water twice a day for a week or so. If that doesn't solve the problem, cut all dairy completely out of your diet. So, we shall see what happens.
Other news. Jesse now weighs in at 18 pounds 10 ounces. I actually thought it was more on our scales here, so that's good news. He's only gained a pound this month, as opposed to one pound per week, so progress is being made. He is still completely off the charts, and they are going to keep an eye on him, but they are not worried at all right now. Yay.
Jesse also gave us our first really real belly laugh the other day. He did it two or three times when he saw our friend's daughter! She wasn't even doing anything silly, it just struck him funny! And for the life of us, we can't get him to do it again. But, it was so so so cute!!!
Other news. Jesse now weighs in at 18 pounds 10 ounces. I actually thought it was more on our scales here, so that's good news. He's only gained a pound this month, as opposed to one pound per week, so progress is being made. He is still completely off the charts, and they are going to keep an eye on him, but they are not worried at all right now. Yay.
Jesse also gave us our first really real belly laugh the other day. He did it two or three times when he saw our friend's daughter! She wasn't even doing anything silly, it just struck him funny! And for the life of us, we can't get him to do it again. But, it was so so so cute!!!
Day Trips
I am thoroughly convinced that our wee one is most content and happy when he is in the great outdoors! I always have the easiest days with him when we go on our day trips. Yesterday, Jesse had his first experience at the beach when we went with our dear friends Cory and Rachel to Long Beach Island. It was so much fun! We went to a secluded part of the Island where there were absolutely no people - it was like we owned the beach! The entire time, Jesse just laid on the blanket totally mellow and content, and then when it was nap time, I put him in his swing, and he slept for a good hour. Good times!
We left at 1:00 so the boys could nap in the car and so we'd miss the heat of the day. We didn't leave until dark, and it was so so much fun. Last week-end we checked out another state park and then walked around this fun little town, and the same thing happened with Jesse. He was mellow and happy the whole time. Hmmm.....bring on the day trips to the great outdoors!
We left at 1:00 so the boys could nap in the car and so we'd miss the heat of the day. We didn't leave until dark, and it was so so much fun. Last week-end we checked out another state park and then walked around this fun little town, and the same thing happened with Jesse. He was mellow and happy the whole time. Hmmm.....bring on the day trips to the great outdoors!
Don't Sweat the Small Stuff
I love that I have so many friends who are in the same stage of child-rearing life that I am in! Even those sans children are dealing with discipline and training issues with pets - (Esther and Jess - it's pretty close! :0) Anyway, just in the past couple of days I've talked with five friends who's children range in age from Jesse at three months to a five year old. Discussing parenting issues always helps to put things in perspective for me. First of all, it's always encouraging to know that nobody has a perfect child! But, it's also good to remind each other that even though short naps, biting, refusing to eat veggies, waking up multiple times at night, and the like are all frustrating and disconcerting, they really are such small problems to be dealing with when you think of some of the monumental things other parents are going through.
I'm so thankful that our family loves each other - that there is no one else we'd rather spend time with than each other, that our two boys are healthy, that Kaden LOVES being a big brother, that Jesse adores Kaden, and that I don't have to wonder if Kev loves me or if he'll ever leave me. There will come a day when we'll be dealing with much bigger issues with our boys - girls, bullies, peer pressure, etc., with our families - aging parents, sickness, death etc., and with other stressors that life will hand us..........and I will LONG for the day when all I really worried about was if Jesse was too chunky and if he would ever take a long nap for me!
Right now, I truly am living my dream, and I want to be constantly reminded of that. Being a wife and mother is what I have ALWAYS wanted, and now I'm getting to do it every day. These days will fly by all too soon, and I need to SAVOR these little gifts that we have been given in our sons.
Does it matter that Jesse is the size of an eight month old, that he never poops, and that he takes wretched naps for me?!!! Does it matter that Kaden sucks his thumb 24/7 and that he still has wet pull-ups every morning? Does it matter if I let my floors get so dirty sometimes that our feet turn black when we walk around in our bare feet? Sure!! :0)
But, in the grand scheme of life......nah - not that much!
And, p.s. - for those of you coming over tomorrow - I was able to scrub my floors today. All is well in the world. :0)
I'm so thankful that our family loves each other - that there is no one else we'd rather spend time with than each other, that our two boys are healthy, that Kaden LOVES being a big brother, that Jesse adores Kaden, and that I don't have to wonder if Kev loves me or if he'll ever leave me. There will come a day when we'll be dealing with much bigger issues with our boys - girls, bullies, peer pressure, etc., with our families - aging parents, sickness, death etc., and with other stressors that life will hand us..........and I will LONG for the day when all I really worried about was if Jesse was too chunky and if he would ever take a long nap for me!
Right now, I truly am living my dream, and I want to be constantly reminded of that. Being a wife and mother is what I have ALWAYS wanted, and now I'm getting to do it every day. These days will fly by all too soon, and I need to SAVOR these little gifts that we have been given in our sons.
Does it matter that Jesse is the size of an eight month old, that he never poops, and that he takes wretched naps for me?!!! Does it matter that Kaden sucks his thumb 24/7 and that he still has wet pull-ups every morning? Does it matter if I let my floors get so dirty sometimes that our feet turn black when we walk around in our bare feet? Sure!! :0)
But, in the grand scheme of life......nah - not that much!
And, p.s. - for those of you coming over tomorrow - I was able to scrub my floors today. All is well in the world. :0)
Miracle of Miracles!
We have had a break through today folks! I'm not getting my hopes up just yet, but for Jesse's afternoon nap, he is going on two hours!!! Whoo-hoo! He woke up forty-five minutes into it - just like he always does - but after just five or ten minutes of crying, he fell back asleep, and he is in la-la land even as I post! Heavenly day, I'm so excited......but not TOO excited, just in case this was a rare moment. But I know that he can do it now! Whoo-hoo! My childless friends, I'm sure this probably seems like no big deal to you, but I assure you - it's big doings! It means afternoons of getting things accomplished, of quiet, quality uninterrupted devotions, of supper being made by suppertime, and (gasp!) maybe even a little bit of scrapbooking. But, like I said.....no huge celebrations yet. Just one more baby step of victory!
The Magic Month of Three!
Jesse is three months old today, and he is a totally different baby than he was even a month ago. I don't know what the deal is - I think Kev and I just make really fussy newborns or something. But, both of our boys were absolute wrecks the first three months of their lives. And now - Jesse has totally evened out. He is pleasant and calm most of the time, he is fairly easily soothed when he does get upset, and he is no longer a screamer every evening from six to eight! I can actually put him down for long periods of time and he is entertained by his playmat and his swing, and he is at least resigning himself to the fact that stroller rides could possibly be a pleasant experience!
During the first three months the jury was out - it was touch and go for awhile. But, I guess we've all reached our verdict.....we'll keep him!
During the first three months the jury was out - it was touch and go for awhile. But, I guess we've all reached our verdict.....we'll keep him!
Happy Labor Day!
I don't know about the rest of you, but we did not have a very "laborious" long week-end. It was actually quite lovely. On Saturday, along with our friends Cory and Rachel and their little girl, we went to our favorite State Park again to have a picnic and spend the day. That place is a little boy's paradise! We caught a huge water snake, tons of toads and crayfish, Daddy caught three sunfish on his fly rod, and there are just so many places to explore and get all wet and dirty! Jesse loves to be outside, so he was really pleasant and took another long nap in the swing. I was able to get some good quality time in with Kaden looking for crayfish, bugs, and toads while he napped, so that was really nice.
Then on Sunday, we went to church. Jesse did great in the nursery, and actually slept most of the service. Kaden and I found a bunch of toads in the church lot as well, so he was totally pumped! That was fun. We had a really relaxing afternoon, and then when the boys woke up we went to Target and then got a bite to eat. Once again, Jesse was just so pleasant and content in his carseat while we shopped and ate!
And yesterday, after Kev's classes (so, I guess he labored a little!) we went for icecream and then to Core Creek to fish until the sun set. The boys and I spent most of our day outside yesterday. It was so warm and breezy. The humidity has just about gone now, so the weather is really really nice here. We went for a long walk in the morning, then we went next door to the park. While Kaden looked for bugs, I glanced over at Jesse on the blanket, and he had totally fallen asleep! I tell you - this kid loves to be outside. He's so content and happy out there. Anyway, it was just a really great weekend all around. Restful, lots of time spent with family and friends, and lots of time spent being outside enjoying God's creation.
Then on Sunday, we went to church. Jesse did great in the nursery, and actually slept most of the service. Kaden and I found a bunch of toads in the church lot as well, so he was totally pumped! That was fun. We had a really relaxing afternoon, and then when the boys woke up we went to Target and then got a bite to eat. Once again, Jesse was just so pleasant and content in his carseat while we shopped and ate!
And yesterday, after Kev's classes (so, I guess he labored a little!) we went for icecream and then to Core Creek to fish until the sun set. The boys and I spent most of our day outside yesterday. It was so warm and breezy. The humidity has just about gone now, so the weather is really really nice here. We went for a long walk in the morning, then we went next door to the park. While Kaden looked for bugs, I glanced over at Jesse on the blanket, and he had totally fallen asleep! I tell you - this kid loves to be outside. He's so content and happy out there. Anyway, it was just a really great weekend all around. Restful, lots of time spent with family and friends, and lots of time spent being outside enjoying God's creation.
My Oldest.....
I have been so thankful for our little Kaden lately. He has such a tender heart and a really sensitive conscience. There have been several times this past week where he has come to me and confessed things that I never would have found out about - yet he still wanted me to know. The other day I was babysitting a friend's little boy, and I set out some grapes on the edge of the table that were cut in half. I told Kaden that he could have more whole ones if he wanted, but the cut up ones were for Reid.
I went into the living room to feed Jesse and Kaden walked over to me with this sheepish smile on his face. I could tell something was up, so I just asked him if he was being a good boy or if he had done something naughty. He said, "I'm being a good boy, Mommy." So, I simply smiled at him and replied, "Okay Honey, I believe you." He looked at me for a split second and then his face got really sad and he confessed, "I just ate one of Reid's grapes."
So precious. He didn't have to say anything and I would never have known. And really - it was only a grape. But then again, it's so much more. It's about obedience and honesty and integrity - even at a really young age. And it's about seeking to bless Jesus and Mommy and Daddy. Kaden is not perfect by any means, but we are really starting to see more and more the older that he gets the desire to be truthful and a really tender heart and sensitive spirit. I pray this stays with him the older he gets, and I pray that he always wants to make Jesus happy - even when Mommy and Daddy aren't looking - FOREVER!
Truth be told, Jesse will most likely want to follow Kaden's lead far more than he'll ever want to follow ours. In all seriousness, Kaden has a pretty big burden of responsibility on his shoulders in being the "big brother" to however many siblings come down the pike. I want him to understand this now - while he's still only three - and realize that his siblings will be watching him and will be wanting to act just like him. I don't expect perfection. I never will. For now, I'm just loving these moments of sweetness that make me so proud, and I'm praying that he'll always stay tender.
I went into the living room to feed Jesse and Kaden walked over to me with this sheepish smile on his face. I could tell something was up, so I just asked him if he was being a good boy or if he had done something naughty. He said, "I'm being a good boy, Mommy." So, I simply smiled at him and replied, "Okay Honey, I believe you." He looked at me for a split second and then his face got really sad and he confessed, "I just ate one of Reid's grapes."
So precious. He didn't have to say anything and I would never have known. And really - it was only a grape. But then again, it's so much more. It's about obedience and honesty and integrity - even at a really young age. And it's about seeking to bless Jesus and Mommy and Daddy. Kaden is not perfect by any means, but we are really starting to see more and more the older that he gets the desire to be truthful and a really tender heart and sensitive spirit. I pray this stays with him the older he gets, and I pray that he always wants to make Jesus happy - even when Mommy and Daddy aren't looking - FOREVER!
Truth be told, Jesse will most likely want to follow Kaden's lead far more than he'll ever want to follow ours. In all seriousness, Kaden has a pretty big burden of responsibility on his shoulders in being the "big brother" to however many siblings come down the pike. I want him to understand this now - while he's still only three - and realize that his siblings will be watching him and will be wanting to act just like him. I don't expect perfection. I never will. For now, I'm just loving these moments of sweetness that make me so proud, and I'm praying that he'll always stay tender.
Wedding Bells!
Well, my little bro is engaged! Who would have thought?! He called us last night on his way up home to share the news with the fam. He's pretty pumped and so are we. Kev and I got to meet Julie for the first time when we went home in August, and from the first minute we laid eyes on her, I knew that they were a good fit for each other. She is a great match - both for him and for our family, and that says a lot! She is so down to earth, what you see is what you get, she really loves Aaron, and most importantly, she's truly in love with the Lord. Pretty cool. They're talking a first of the year wedding - at the latest, Spring - so things will be moving pretty quickly from here on out. Sigh! sigh. My little brother is all grown up.........
Balancing Life
I'm still trying to get a handle on balancing life with two little boys. I'm only 3 months into it - so still very much a rookie, but I really want to love my family WELL, you know? I want my home to be a haven for Kev when he comes home from work and school. I want my friends to know that they can drop by at any moment and they will be welcomed with a hug, some tea, and a yummy snack. I want them to leave my place feeling loved and refreshed. I want to give the Lord the firstfruits of my day and be constantly and continuously falling deeper in love with Him so that I view life from His eyes, and not my own. AND I want to spend individual quality time with both of my little boys doing what THEY love to do.
For Kaden this means when Jesse is down for his naps, rather than running around like a crazy woman trying to catch up on dishes and laundry, I need to get us both a fun snack and sit and read for a half hour. Or maybe it means going outside in the blazing heat after taking time to sunscreen and bug dope him all over and catch bugs and worms in our backyard. For Jesse it means I give lots of snuggles and touches - ESPECIALLY when he's fussy and savor this time even when he's a wreck rather than wish it away, complain about my aching back, or stress about my half finished supper plans!
It means fully embracing life where I am at right now and letting everything else fall by the wayside for a season. It doesn't matter if I perpetually have bugs roaming my apartment because Kaden can't resist peaking in. It doesn't matter if my home doesn't meet up with my usual expectations of cleanliness and orderliness. It doesn't matter if I don't get showered and make-up on until noon. And it doesn't really matter if my do-list doesn't get done for months on end. It's okay. Relationships are what matter. Everything else is just details......
For Kaden this means when Jesse is down for his naps, rather than running around like a crazy woman trying to catch up on dishes and laundry, I need to get us both a fun snack and sit and read for a half hour. Or maybe it means going outside in the blazing heat after taking time to sunscreen and bug dope him all over and catch bugs and worms in our backyard. For Jesse it means I give lots of snuggles and touches - ESPECIALLY when he's fussy and savor this time even when he's a wreck rather than wish it away, complain about my aching back, or stress about my half finished supper plans!
It means fully embracing life where I am at right now and letting everything else fall by the wayside for a season. It doesn't matter if I perpetually have bugs roaming my apartment because Kaden can't resist peaking in. It doesn't matter if my home doesn't meet up with my usual expectations of cleanliness and orderliness. It doesn't matter if I don't get showered and make-up on until noon. And it doesn't really matter if my do-list doesn't get done for months on end. It's okay. Relationships are what matter. Everything else is just details......
Progress is Being Made!
Our little guy may just be evening out. I'm still not holding my breath, but a week from now is Jesse's three month mark - right about the same time that Kaden started relaxing a little, too. We shall see. He goes down for the night without a hitch and sleeps through until about 6:30 a.m. He is beginning to soothe himself to sleep better for naps - still decent bouts of crying - but nothing in comparison to what he was doing. And he is having longer and longer moments of pleasantness periodically throughout the day, as well! :0) Good times! The naps are still wicked short, so that's the next thing I really want to start working on with him. Any suggestions?
Today was a really great day. Kev didn't start class today like he thought he did, and the weather was absolutely gorgeous, so we just packed up and went to a local State Park for the day. We all played in the river, Kev and Kaden caught a bass, Jesse slept in his swing some, and Kaden and I caught crayfish, minnows, and about twenty-five toads - no joke - it was crazy! Kaden missed his nap and fell asleep at 5:00 on our drive home, so we just popped him right into bed for the night! Jesse is now down, as well, so Kev and I are going to crash on the couch and watch a movie. I'm off!
Today was a really great day. Kev didn't start class today like he thought he did, and the weather was absolutely gorgeous, so we just packed up and went to a local State Park for the day. We all played in the river, Kev and Kaden caught a bass, Jesse slept in his swing some, and Kaden and I caught crayfish, minnows, and about twenty-five toads - no joke - it was crazy! Kaden missed his nap and fell asleep at 5:00 on our drive home, so we just popped him right into bed for the night! Jesse is now down, as well, so Kev and I are going to crash on the couch and watch a movie. I'm off!
Baby Steps
I feel like a tiny bit of progress is being made where Jesse is concerned. He continues to be quite the horrible napper and quite the professional at screaming......but, he is starting to have longer moments of happiness and contentment, as well! Jesse is starting to like his swing more, and I can leave his sight for awhile and have him still stay relatively happy. As he is becoming more aware of his surroundings, I think that he is being entertained a little bit longer at a time. The "diet" is going pretty well. He doesn't seem to be noticing too much that Mommy has been cutting his feedings in half. At times, I think it makes him grumpier - but really no more than he ever has been! He's also going down for the night around 7:30 and only wakes up once in the night - often going between 6 and 8 hour stretches. So, these are mini victories - helpful in keeping the big picture in perspective. On the other hand, I think that I'm starting to have some serious back issues due to the long periods of carrying this not-so-little guy....either that or I'm just getting old. Probably both. Ah well - it's all good!
The Homeward Stretch
Next week marks the beginning of hubby's final year here at PBU. My, how the time has flown - and it really has been quite the fun ride! Earlier this summer, we were the only couple left in our apartment complex, but now the rooms are quickly filling up once again. There is only one other couple besides us who are from the group that initially moved in. So, for this last year, there will only be two families with children. All the rest will be newlyweds and senior students. I kinda' feel bad for the newlyweds who will be living above and below us with our fussy baby, and all. Hey, it'll be good birth control if nothing else! :0)
Yup, the complex was kinda' quiet this summer. It was good for the early days of Jesse's birth, but now I'm liking the busy commotion, the crazy greetings from kids who've missed each other, and all of the U-hauls that are bringing new couples in. It makes the place come alive again!
So, this is it for us! Only one more year for Kev, and as of tonight I am done! Done! Done! The next big thing? Well, besides continuing to figure out the "being-Mommy-to-two" thing, I'm going to be getting trained in the Clarion Consulting ministry (like Kev was) at the end of September. We'll see what adventures spring from this undertaking!
Yup, the complex was kinda' quiet this summer. It was good for the early days of Jesse's birth, but now I'm liking the busy commotion, the crazy greetings from kids who've missed each other, and all of the U-hauls that are bringing new couples in. It makes the place come alive again!
So, this is it for us! Only one more year for Kev, and as of tonight I am done! Done! Done! The next big thing? Well, besides continuing to figure out the "being-Mommy-to-two" thing, I'm going to be getting trained in the Clarion Consulting ministry (like Kev was) at the end of September. We'll see what adventures spring from this undertaking!
Jesse Update.....
Jesse had his two month check-up last week. Just wanted to give you all a brief update on what's going on with him and us. Currently he weighs almost 18 pounds - this is the size of a typical six month old! He has gained just about a pound a week since birth! The pediatrician is not worried YET, but she says that his weight is not only off the charts, but it is now "skyrocketing." Soooo, our little guy truly is on a diet now! She said that every once in awhile she'll see this happen with a nursing baby - it's more common with formula fed babies, but it does happen. Very weird - Kaden has never had a chubby bone on his body and he nursed much more than Jesse does. Interesting.
So now, not only do I have to be really strict with the times of his feedings, I also have to cut them in half! She wants to see if this rapid weight gain is due to my milk before he has his blood tested for diabetes, metabolic issues, or whatever. We're not really worried, but it's just made it that much more fun with an already fussy baby!
And for our further enjoyment, not only does Jesse continue to be a wretched napper and a fairly crabby baby - he also gets to have his meals cut in half which makes for an even CRABBIER baby. Mommy's had a few VERY overwhelming days. Many days of perpetual crying and screaming. (Jesse....not me. :0) I'm doing okay. I know that this too, shall pass, so I'm trying to keep perspective. Although some days are REEEEEEALY long. I owe many friends and family members phone calls, but lately it's a little hard to carry on conversations amidst the hollering! It's okay, though. I'm still really trying to savor this season of babyhood. Soon enough, he'll be a little boy running all around.
On a bright note - Friday is my very last class where my very last paper is due and then I am officially GRAJITATED! That will be one thing that I can get off my plate, so I'm looking forward to that. So, this afternoon after I give Jesse his supper, I'm headed to Panera for a good five hours to work on my paper, do some devos, and have some yummy food all by my lonesome. That's only two hours away......not that I'm counting the minutes or anything! :0)
So now, not only do I have to be really strict with the times of his feedings, I also have to cut them in half! She wants to see if this rapid weight gain is due to my milk before he has his blood tested for diabetes, metabolic issues, or whatever. We're not really worried, but it's just made it that much more fun with an already fussy baby!
And for our further enjoyment, not only does Jesse continue to be a wretched napper and a fairly crabby baby - he also gets to have his meals cut in half which makes for an even CRABBIER baby. Mommy's had a few VERY overwhelming days. Many days of perpetual crying and screaming. (Jesse....not me. :0) I'm doing okay. I know that this too, shall pass, so I'm trying to keep perspective. Although some days are REEEEEEALY long. I owe many friends and family members phone calls, but lately it's a little hard to carry on conversations amidst the hollering! It's okay, though. I'm still really trying to savor this season of babyhood. Soon enough, he'll be a little boy running all around.
On a bright note - Friday is my very last class where my very last paper is due and then I am officially GRAJITATED! That will be one thing that I can get off my plate, so I'm looking forward to that. So, this afternoon after I give Jesse his supper, I'm headed to Panera for a good five hours to work on my paper, do some devos, and have some yummy food all by my lonesome. That's only two hours away......not that I'm counting the minutes or anything! :0)
Happy Birthday to Me!
And Jesse, too! He's ten weeks old today!
Me - well, I've hit the big 3-0! Crazy!!!
When we went home to Maine we realized that several of our old youth group kids got married this summer! That tells me I'm getting old. Ah well.
To celebrate this grand day, Daddy and Kaden made me a yummy breakfast this morning, and then they each presented me with some lovely cards. Kaden drew some great pictures in his, and Kev presented me with some cold hard cash. My fave! Me thinks I'm going to save up for something big.....maybe a new bike!
Then, we all went to Olive Garden for lunch, and my gift from Jesse was a beautiful long nap throughout the ENTIRE meal! I actually ate everything with two hands AND while it was still hot! That's the greatest birthday gift ever!
Me - well, I've hit the big 3-0! Crazy!!!
When we went home to Maine we realized that several of our old youth group kids got married this summer! That tells me I'm getting old. Ah well.
To celebrate this grand day, Daddy and Kaden made me a yummy breakfast this morning, and then they each presented me with some lovely cards. Kaden drew some great pictures in his, and Kev presented me with some cold hard cash. My fave! Me thinks I'm going to save up for something big.....maybe a new bike!
Then, we all went to Olive Garden for lunch, and my gift from Jesse was a beautiful long nap throughout the ENTIRE meal! I actually ate everything with two hands AND while it was still hot! That's the greatest birthday gift ever!
Back Home and Deranged!!!
Well, we've arrived back at "Filthy-delphia" the city of brotherly "Shove"....home sweet home. No, just kidding. It's good to get back to our cozy little apartment. It's been a crazy few days, though. It took us about 12 hours to get back. We literally dropped all of our stuff inside, Kev took the rental car back to the agency, and I ran to class.
When I got back at 10:00, the house still looked like a cyclone had swept through it, and Kev and Jesse were crashed out in bed together. I guess Jesse cried the entire time I was in class. Good times for all......Poor boys. So, I came in and gave him some snuggles, fed him, put him in his crib, and then I attacked the place until midnight. It was totally overwhelming me!
Then, Saturday evening and all day Sunday I felt wicked sick. Still not sure what it was, but I had horrible chills (and it's 90 degrees), then I would get all sweaty, and I had a pounding headache. So, Jesse and I skipped church and then when Kev came home, I had a mini breakdown so he watched the boys for me while I slept for four hours straight! Feeling much better now. :0) I think I was getting a little burnt out perhaps. Nothing that a four hour nap couldn't solve!!!
When I got back at 10:00, the house still looked like a cyclone had swept through it, and Kev and Jesse were crashed out in bed together. I guess Jesse cried the entire time I was in class. Good times for all......Poor boys. So, I came in and gave him some snuggles, fed him, put him in his crib, and then I attacked the place until midnight. It was totally overwhelming me!
Then, Saturday evening and all day Sunday I felt wicked sick. Still not sure what it was, but I had horrible chills (and it's 90 degrees), then I would get all sweaty, and I had a pounding headache. So, Jesse and I skipped church and then when Kev came home, I had a mini breakdown so he watched the boys for me while I slept for four hours straight! Feeling much better now. :0) I think I was getting a little burnt out perhaps. Nothing that a four hour nap couldn't solve!!!
"Jesse BEAR"
We have a new nickname for our little boy: "Jesse Bear"
He has been dubbed this for two reasons. One - he is a literal TANK! But even more so, our beloved newborn is truly quite the bear! I'm reminded that Kaden was a wreck for the first three months of his life, as well, so I truly am trying to take heart.....but good heavens! This child is going to be the death of me! I am still REALLY loving being Mommy of two little boys, mind you, but I am also a wee bit near my wit's end. Any advice would be grand! This child is a screamer and is really not a happy camper most of the day and night. His saving grace is that he just started smiling and cooing these past couple of days. The good Lord knew that it was about time!
He has been dubbed this for two reasons. One - he is a literal TANK! But even more so, our beloved newborn is truly quite the bear! I'm reminded that Kaden was a wreck for the first three months of his life, as well, so I truly am trying to take heart.....but good heavens! This child is going to be the death of me! I am still REALLY loving being Mommy of two little boys, mind you, but I am also a wee bit near my wit's end. Any advice would be grand! This child is a screamer and is really not a happy camper most of the day and night. His saving grace is that he just started smiling and cooing these past couple of days. The good Lord knew that it was about time!
Random Thoughts for Lazy Days
Nothing new to post really. I'm just sitting here thinking about how much I'm enjoying my life lately. I'm really loving being a Mommy of two little guys. And I'm loving that it's summer, so we can spend most of our days outside. Jesse is a wee bit crabby a lot of the time - much like his big brother Kaden was during his first three months of life - but he really seems to be soothed by being outside. So we are outdoor campers many of our days!
I got a new super cool double jogger stroller where the seats are front to back as opposed to side by side. Kaden sits up high while Jesse lays down below him. Once Jesse gets a little bit bigger, the stroller converts to a two-seater. It's quite glorious. We walk every morning, and it's been quite sweaty (not to mention back-breaking) wearing him in a Snugli. So, I feel like a princess now!
Kaden also has a really fun kiddie pool that he loves to swim in, so we spend many of our moments in our backyard with Kaden swimming and Jesse hanging out on his Boppy. I love lazy summer days where the only agenda is to play outside until afternoon naps.
I love that I only have one class left, and then I don't have to think about school at all for awhile. I love that Jesse is taking a really long nap today and that I was able to take a really long nap yesterday. I love that we're coming home soon to see all of our friends and family....and I love lots of other things, but my not-so-wee one is calling for me as I type!
I got a new super cool double jogger stroller where the seats are front to back as opposed to side by side. Kaden sits up high while Jesse lays down below him. Once Jesse gets a little bit bigger, the stroller converts to a two-seater. It's quite glorious. We walk every morning, and it's been quite sweaty (not to mention back-breaking) wearing him in a Snugli. So, I feel like a princess now!
Kaden also has a really fun kiddie pool that he loves to swim in, so we spend many of our moments in our backyard with Kaden swimming and Jesse hanging out on his Boppy. I love lazy summer days where the only agenda is to play outside until afternoon naps.
I love that I only have one class left, and then I don't have to think about school at all for awhile. I love that Jesse is taking a really long nap today and that I was able to take a really long nap yesterday. I love that we're coming home soon to see all of our friends and family....and I love lots of other things, but my not-so-wee one is calling for me as I type!
Behold Our Buddah Baby!!!
So, our littlest one had his five week wellness check-up yesterday at the pediatrician's. Now, I don't normally give much thought to the whole percentile thing, but....get this: his head circumference is in the 50%, (okay, average, right?) his length is in the 50%-90%, (so he's pretty long).....but......get this......his weight is OFF THE CHARTS!!! Meaning....our baby TRULY is a chunk! At five weeks, this child weighs 14 1/2 pounds! He is in size two diapers and is already busting out of 3-6 month clothing! Jesse's pediatrician says she isn't worried at all, but she wants me to try and put him on a strict three hour feeding schedule! Kev says, "Our baby's on a diet!!" I sometimes forget that he is still a newborn because he's so big!
Unplanned Road Trips
So, in a matter of three days I have managed to get myself royally lost on these Pennsylvania highways. Man alive - I used to think that I was pretty decent at reading directions and maps, but you will never hear me say that again. I have been sufficiently humbled.
On my way to my baby shower, I drove thirty miles round trip in the wrong direction and made myself thirty minutes late. (This is a route that we have taken every Sunday for two years, mind you). And then tonight, I had to drop Kev off at our Pastor's place because he flies out for three days at 4:30 in the morning tomorrow, and I took a wrong exit yet again. Upon realizing my mistake, I figured - no problem; I'll just get off at the next exit and turn around. Well, the next exit wasn't for another twenty miles. So, yet again, I drove almost forty miles round trip out of the way of my destination. Poor little boys -what should have been a forty minute drive home for them ended up being an hour and a half road trip in the pouring rain.
Good times! A great way to start a three day week-end as a single Mom of two!
I tell you what - you can take the girl out of the country...........
On my way to my baby shower, I drove thirty miles round trip in the wrong direction and made myself thirty minutes late. (This is a route that we have taken every Sunday for two years, mind you). And then tonight, I had to drop Kev off at our Pastor's place because he flies out for three days at 4:30 in the morning tomorrow, and I took a wrong exit yet again. Upon realizing my mistake, I figured - no problem; I'll just get off at the next exit and turn around. Well, the next exit wasn't for another twenty miles. So, yet again, I drove almost forty miles round trip out of the way of my destination. Poor little boys -what should have been a forty minute drive home for them ended up being an hour and a half road trip in the pouring rain.
Good times! A great way to start a three day week-end as a single Mom of two!
I tell you what - you can take the girl out of the country...........
Terms of Endearment!
I'm compiling a list of names that have already been given to our (not so) little Jesse:
My favorite: "Sir Chubs-A-Lot"
Daddy's fave: "Chubby Wonder"
And Kaden's: "Sweety Pie" - (The nicest one by far! :0))
Because of all of his gruntings and crazy noises that he makes, he has also been termed:
"A grumpy little puppy" by Daddy, and
"A little bear" by Mommy.
Hmmm, not so "baby-ish" of names....but they do suit him!
And other comments from friends and family:
Jess: "Good Maine Stock!"
Rachel D.: "Sweet Chubby Little Monkey!"
Amber: "Looks like you're feeding him REALLY well!"
Yep - this one is only four weeks old, and he's already busting out of his 0-3 month clothing! If those cheeks get any pudgier, they'll be sitting on his shoulders! Very squeezable and oh so yummy, however! He's delish! Loving it!!!
My favorite: "Sir Chubs-A-Lot"
Daddy's fave: "Chubby Wonder"
And Kaden's: "Sweety Pie" - (The nicest one by far! :0))
Because of all of his gruntings and crazy noises that he makes, he has also been termed:
"A grumpy little puppy" by Daddy, and
"A little bear" by Mommy.
Hmmm, not so "baby-ish" of names....but they do suit him!
And other comments from friends and family:
Jess: "Good Maine Stock!"
Rachel D.: "Sweet Chubby Little Monkey!"
Amber: "Looks like you're feeding him REALLY well!"
Yep - this one is only four weeks old, and he's already busting out of his 0-3 month clothing! If those cheeks get any pudgier, they'll be sitting on his shoulders! Very squeezable and oh so yummy, however! He's delish! Loving it!!!
It's Been Awhile!
Hmmm, it has been some time since I last updated. Jesse turned four weeks old today - so that makes my last posting three weeks ago! My, how time flies! So, I sent a couple of pics out to some of you. What do you all think of our little "Chubs-A-Lot?" He's quite the bruiser, eh? So yummy and kissable...quite delicious!
Well, since I last posted, my Mom has come and gone, we had Jesse dedicated in church, and my church down here threw me a glorious baby shower! I am feeling abundantly blessed and taken care of! My Mom outdid herself while she was here. She took care of Kaden every morning so that we could sleep in, she cooked, she cleaned, she bought groceries, she took us out to eat, she gave Kaden quality Grammy time, she scrubbed my tub.....she even cleaned the upholtery on my chairs!!!! Unbelievable!
Then, my church gave me the sweetest shower this past Saturday. These ladies blessed me like you wouldn't imagine! I was expecting a tiny, very simple shower with maybe ten or fifteen ladies...which would have been totally fine, by the way. However, there were over forty women, the church was decorated beautifully, the food was DELISH, and they just overwhelmed me with gifts! (They bought me my dream double jogger stroller!!!!) Their love and generosity literally brought me to tears. The Lord truly does give "exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that we can EVER ask or imagine!"
So, one month into my mothering journey of "two," I am feeling very happy and content. I have had much help and support, Kaden is in LOVE with his little brother, and so far - I'm not feeling too overwhelmed! We're taking life pretty slowly and just relaxing and enjoying each other. Kev goes away for three days this week-end for his internship, so you can ask me on Monday if I'm STILL feeling relaxed and not too overwhelmed! :0) More updates to come......
Well, since I last posted, my Mom has come and gone, we had Jesse dedicated in church, and my church down here threw me a glorious baby shower! I am feeling abundantly blessed and taken care of! My Mom outdid herself while she was here. She took care of Kaden every morning so that we could sleep in, she cooked, she cleaned, she bought groceries, she took us out to eat, she gave Kaden quality Grammy time, she scrubbed my tub.....she even cleaned the upholtery on my chairs!!!! Unbelievable!
Then, my church gave me the sweetest shower this past Saturday. These ladies blessed me like you wouldn't imagine! I was expecting a tiny, very simple shower with maybe ten or fifteen ladies...which would have been totally fine, by the way. However, there were over forty women, the church was decorated beautifully, the food was DELISH, and they just overwhelmed me with gifts! (They bought me my dream double jogger stroller!!!!) Their love and generosity literally brought me to tears. The Lord truly does give "exceedingly and abundantly above and beyond all that we can EVER ask or imagine!"
So, one month into my mothering journey of "two," I am feeling very happy and content. I have had much help and support, Kaden is in LOVE with his little brother, and so far - I'm not feeling too overwhelmed! We're taking life pretty slowly and just relaxing and enjoying each other. Kev goes away for three days this week-end for his internship, so you can ask me on Monday if I'm STILL feeling relaxed and not too overwhelmed! :0) More updates to come......
Happy Birthday, Little Man!
Hard to believe that our little Jesse Micah is already over a week old. Crazy how time flies! Kaden is still just as enamored with his little brother. He is always wanting to kiss, squeeze, and snuggle; and he really is such a big help to both Kev and I. He loves to get out the diapers and wipes, and he loves to put lotion on his baby! Super cute!
Well, I gave my final senior power point presentation for my book last night! Does that ever feel good to have done and out of the way! The whole fam came with me. Kev watched the boys while I presentated, and then I kept Jesse with me for the rest of the class. I'm not ready to pump yet, and my professor was totally cool with me having him, so we just sat in the back of the class while everyone else gave their presentations. Jesse was a model student - he slept through the entire class with just a few minor baby noises! Now I just have to take a five night Counseling class in July and August and I am completely home free! GRAJITATED!!! Yay! I am ready to just solely and completely focus on mothering my two little men without any distractions of classes and papers.
Mom is on her way out for a little visit. Kev has just gone to the airport to pick her up. So, it will really be nice to have her around to help with the boys and to especially give Kaden a lot of TLC and one on one attention. This will also get Kev off the hook of having to play "Mr. Mom," although he has done fabulously this week! He's done a bunch of little projects for me, he's kept up with the laundry and the dishes, he has taken Kaden away on a bunch of little Daddy-Son dates, and he's just really served and loved me. Can't ask for more than that!!!
Well, I gave my final senior power point presentation for my book last night! Does that ever feel good to have done and out of the way! The whole fam came with me. Kev watched the boys while I presentated, and then I kept Jesse with me for the rest of the class. I'm not ready to pump yet, and my professor was totally cool with me having him, so we just sat in the back of the class while everyone else gave their presentations. Jesse was a model student - he slept through the entire class with just a few minor baby noises! Now I just have to take a five night Counseling class in July and August and I am completely home free! GRAJITATED!!! Yay! I am ready to just solely and completely focus on mothering my two little men without any distractions of classes and papers.
Mom is on her way out for a little visit. Kev has just gone to the airport to pick her up. So, it will really be nice to have her around to help with the boys and to especially give Kaden a lot of TLC and one on one attention. This will also get Kev off the hook of having to play "Mr. Mom," although he has done fabulously this week! He's done a bunch of little projects for me, he's kept up with the laundry and the dishes, he has taken Kaden away on a bunch of little Daddy-Son dates, and he's just really served and loved me. Can't ask for more than that!!!
We Welcome With Love.....
BABY JESSE MICAH!!!!
After two days of total bedrest, and after cynically "knowing for sure" that our second birth experience would be the same as our first - traumatic, stressful, and induced - the Lord granted my FERVENT prayer request and allowed us to go completely naturally and on our own this time.
At 1:00 a.m. Sunday morning, a week before my due date, I woke up feeling yucky. I took a shower and tried to assess the situation. By 2:30 I knew that THIS WAS IT! Kev woke up and we started counting contractions. Within minutes they were less than 5 minutes apart and very intense, so he called the midwife. I wasn't overly impressed, because I wanted to be home for as much of the labor as possible. But, with the hospital 45 minutes away and with my history of fast deliveries, my midwife told us to hit the road. Good thing - because my water broke in the car and twenty minutes after arriving at the hospital, baby Jesse Micah was born!!!
We are so in love with this little baby, and Kaden is so completely proud and pleased to "have a new baby brother of my VERY own!" Jesse weighed in at 8 pounds, 14 ounces (my very first words when I saw him were, "He's a CHUNK!"). He's 21 inches long, and he has just a little bit of brown hair. At birth, he was VERY red, but he is becoming more dark with each day, like Kaden did. Soooo adorable!!!
Anyway, just wanted to share the news with everyone. He's waking up, so we must be off!
After two days of total bedrest, and after cynically "knowing for sure" that our second birth experience would be the same as our first - traumatic, stressful, and induced - the Lord granted my FERVENT prayer request and allowed us to go completely naturally and on our own this time.
At 1:00 a.m. Sunday morning, a week before my due date, I woke up feeling yucky. I took a shower and tried to assess the situation. By 2:30 I knew that THIS WAS IT! Kev woke up and we started counting contractions. Within minutes they were less than 5 minutes apart and very intense, so he called the midwife. I wasn't overly impressed, because I wanted to be home for as much of the labor as possible. But, with the hospital 45 minutes away and with my history of fast deliveries, my midwife told us to hit the road. Good thing - because my water broke in the car and twenty minutes after arriving at the hospital, baby Jesse Micah was born!!!
We are so in love with this little baby, and Kaden is so completely proud and pleased to "have a new baby brother of my VERY own!" Jesse weighed in at 8 pounds, 14 ounces (my very first words when I saw him were, "He's a CHUNK!"). He's 21 inches long, and he has just a little bit of brown hair. At birth, he was VERY red, but he is becoming more dark with each day, like Kaden did. Soooo adorable!!!
Anyway, just wanted to share the news with everyone. He's waking up, so we must be off!
One Last Hurrah!
So, I figure things could happen any day now, and one final thing that I really wanted to do before baby #2 arrives is go to the ocean for a day and really be able to play with Kaden before I'm kind of occupied with a newborn. It was roasty toasty today, so we loaded up and just drove about an hour away to the nearest beach in Jersey - Ocean Grove. Oh my - it was so very glorious! We swam, we caught sand crabs, we ate outside at a little sandwich shop, and - in the words of Kaden, it was just "super fun!" I was a good girl and rested for awhile on a blanket while Kev and Kaden played, and now I plan to be good for the rest of the night. My blood pressure is up a wee bit because of our day.....but mister man....it was worth it! From here on out, though, I do solemnly swear to be obedient to the orders of my midwife.
Here's the Deal-io...
So, I'm 38 weeks on Sunday - the time where I was induced with Kaden three years ago, and my body seems to REALLY be wanting to repeat that same scenario. However, this girl is fighting it! All of my tests are right in the elevated zone - just a smidgen below the "danger" zone. As long as I can keep squeaking by, my midwives are fine to let my body just go. I'm on "modified" bed rest - laying down on my left side one hour in the morning, one hour in the afternoon, and then anytime that I am resting - (What? When does that take place during the day?). I need to take my blood pressure three times as day, as well. As long as I can keep it in a certain range - I'm golden. As soon as it goes ABOVE a certain range - to the hospital I go to be induced. So....it's kind of a day by day induction wait! Good times.
Only Three More Days Until......
Well, I had my 36 week appointment yesterday. This is about the time when I was pregnant with Kaden when all you-know-what broke loose with my preclampia (or however you spell that dumb word). Anyway, I'll be 37 weeks on Sunday, and my midwife says that anytime after that, she is fine should I deliver. At this appointment yesterday, first the first time ever in this pregnancy, my blood pressure was elevated. Not in the danger zone yet, but not where she wants it, either. So, we're going to watch it for a week and see what happens. It's a bit frustrating because I feel like I've done everything I could with this pregnancy to do what's right - including drinking a VERY pricey supplement that supposedly helps most women. However, she said that some women are just predisposed to this condition, no matter what. So, if you would, please pray that all stays okay until the end. I would truly love to be able to let my body go completely naturally this time and not have to be induced with all that junk. I would really love to be able to stay home for a long time this time, too, but the Lord knows, and either way we'll have our baby soon - and his or her health is what is most important. So, I'm just trying to be positive and content.
In three more days, I plan to run a marathon and get this show on the road! Just kidding....kinda.
In three more days, I plan to run a marathon and get this show on the road! Just kidding....kinda.
Funny Story.....Kinda'
For those of you who know us, you know that we do not drink. We actually don't have issues with it, we just have not chosen to partake ourselves for various reasons......until yesterday......by complete accident!
Kev and Kaden took me to Olive Garden for Mother's Day, and at the conclusion of our meal, we decided to get the yummy "Frozen Tiramisu" which was available with or without "spirits." When our waitress came by, Kev asked her if it tasted the same either way, and she said, "Oh yes, some people just like it with the alcohol, but it tastes exactly the same." Thinking she would understand that we wanted a non-alcoholic version, seeing an OBVIOUSLY pregnant wife and three year old little boy, Kev merely said, "O.k., we'll all split one to go."
Well, somehow there was a breakdown in communication, and here is where it happened. The waitress said, "Oh, we're really not supposed to make them to go." (Because they don't want people drinking and driving, I guess). I was thinking of how it would be much easier to just drink it in the restaurant anyway, so I simply said, "Oh, that's fine. We'll just drink it here." A couple of minutes later she brings us our bill AND the drink in a to go cup with a parting comment, "I just put it in a to go cup anyway, even though I wasn't supposed to."
THAT should have clued us in. But, nope, the naive Bookers sat happily in the middle of the restaurant sucking back on our yummy alcoholic Tiramisu. At first Kaden kept saying, "Oh! This is a yummy special treat!" But, the further he got to the bottom, he began saying, "OOOh! I don't like this - it's toooo strong!" I agreed with him and said that I didn't particularly like the flavor either, so we let Kev finish off the last little bit.
On our way out to the car, as we got to thinking about it, Kev said, "You know, I'm just going to run back inside to check with her and make sure that she made it without alcohol." Sure enough - she made it the regular way! Kev assured her it wasn't really a big deal, but he just wanted to know because his 8 month pregnant wife and three old little boy drank just as much as he did! She was horrified and felt so bad! We just about died laughing. No big deal really, but not the ideal after dinner treat for a prego and a little boy! Goodness knows, he's already been introduced to coffee and is addicted at a VERY young age - he needs no other vice! :0)
Well, what can I say? Hey - if we're going to try alcohol for the first time we might as well make it a family occasion! Good grief! Only us........
Kev and Kaden took me to Olive Garden for Mother's Day, and at the conclusion of our meal, we decided to get the yummy "Frozen Tiramisu" which was available with or without "spirits." When our waitress came by, Kev asked her if it tasted the same either way, and she said, "Oh yes, some people just like it with the alcohol, but it tastes exactly the same." Thinking she would understand that we wanted a non-alcoholic version, seeing an OBVIOUSLY pregnant wife and three year old little boy, Kev merely said, "O.k., we'll all split one to go."
Well, somehow there was a breakdown in communication, and here is where it happened. The waitress said, "Oh, we're really not supposed to make them to go." (Because they don't want people drinking and driving, I guess). I was thinking of how it would be much easier to just drink it in the restaurant anyway, so I simply said, "Oh, that's fine. We'll just drink it here." A couple of minutes later she brings us our bill AND the drink in a to go cup with a parting comment, "I just put it in a to go cup anyway, even though I wasn't supposed to."
THAT should have clued us in. But, nope, the naive Bookers sat happily in the middle of the restaurant sucking back on our yummy alcoholic Tiramisu. At first Kaden kept saying, "Oh! This is a yummy special treat!" But, the further he got to the bottom, he began saying, "OOOh! I don't like this - it's toooo strong!" I agreed with him and said that I didn't particularly like the flavor either, so we let Kev finish off the last little bit.
On our way out to the car, as we got to thinking about it, Kev said, "You know, I'm just going to run back inside to check with her and make sure that she made it without alcohol." Sure enough - she made it the regular way! Kev assured her it wasn't really a big deal, but he just wanted to know because his 8 month pregnant wife and three old little boy drank just as much as he did! She was horrified and felt so bad! We just about died laughing. No big deal really, but not the ideal after dinner treat for a prego and a little boy! Goodness knows, he's already been introduced to coffee and is addicted at a VERY young age - he needs no other vice! :0)
Well, what can I say? Hey - if we're going to try alcohol for the first time we might as well make it a family occasion! Good grief! Only us........
Home Again
Oh man - what an awesome time we had on our little family camping trip! I don't think I've EVER had a more relaxing family vacation. We went with some dear friends who have a new baby, Kaden doesn't remember the last time he's been camping, and I am eight months pregnant, so we really had NO expectations for how this trip would go. We all just wanted a little R & R in God's creation away from the buses, trains, airplanes, yelling, and occasional gun shots!! And man oh man - did we ever get it!
Aside from it getting down below freezing our first night there, we could not have asked for better weather. The men caught fish, Kaden caught bugs, peed in the woods, played in the water, slept in a tent, had an awesome third birthday party, stayed up late, got to eat icecream, and had Mommy and Daddy's undivided attention for three days. He was in his element!
Hubby literally did ALL of the setup and take down work. The only things that I did the entire time that could even remotely be classified as work was wash the dishes on two different occasions. Other than that, I vegged, soaked in the sun, played with Kaden, visited with my friend, filled my face, and just relaxed to the MAX!!!
It was a glorious, fabulous, wonderful, last hurrah before the arrival of sweet baby #2! SUCH a fun family vacation, and a much needed step away from the hubbub of life! Now for the joy of the unpacking and cleanup....
Aside from it getting down below freezing our first night there, we could not have asked for better weather. The men caught fish, Kaden caught bugs, peed in the woods, played in the water, slept in a tent, had an awesome third birthday party, stayed up late, got to eat icecream, and had Mommy and Daddy's undivided attention for three days. He was in his element!
Hubby literally did ALL of the setup and take down work. The only things that I did the entire time that could even remotely be classified as work was wash the dishes on two different occasions. Other than that, I vegged, soaked in the sun, played with Kaden, visited with my friend, filled my face, and just relaxed to the MAX!!!
It was a glorious, fabulous, wonderful, last hurrah before the arrival of sweet baby #2! SUCH a fun family vacation, and a much needed step away from the hubbub of life! Now for the joy of the unpacking and cleanup....
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